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My girlfriend grabbed my Friend's balls and said ' What are you going to do' to me...What's her issue?


I think my girlfriend seeks validation. she's perfect but if I show another Girl a little attention BAM she's odd. When we're near freinds she whispers hurtful things in my ear e. g. 'Sometimes I wonder is that bulge real or do you have a pussy? Then she kisses my cheek WTF? I pretend she hasn't Said anything. She tells me to stfu when where playfighting and she's on top. In front of people she jokingly hits me then when im pissed she comes from behind and kisses me saying 'Aww are you going to cry... Tough love bitch'. She was never like this we've Been freinds and now dating 2 months. I think she desires attention but why if she gets plenty from other dudes? She tries to be seductive by biting my lip hard then winking wtf is she in an advert... Yesterday my freind called her a bitch and she grabbed his nuts and looked like she was enjoying while staring at me she asked me what am I going to do about her touching it... I was silent because people say dont feed her attention grabbing tricks (Most girls would scream saying EEWWWW afterwards). Could it be because I dont compliment her hardly and she gets jealous of mixed chicks because she thinks I must like them more since she's white. She claims there's no problem at all. She tells me she loves me a lot and therefore I can't understand her motives fully? I need a solution.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Time for one of two things as far as I can tell: man up or bail. If you man up, you need to take charge, leaving no doubt in her mind about who's in charge. If you haven't spanked her before, it's clearly time in my book. Over your knee roughly followed by a red hot, painfully burning bare bottom. Repeat as needed. If she says no, give her the choice of you and the spanking or neither. I feel like she's challenging your authority at every turn. If you don't want to be the head of the relationship, then capitulate and take whatever she gives you. But when you do that, I'm guessing she'll put your balls in a jar on the mantle and only let you have them back on holdiays.

    • If some girls like spanking, then how does that even work lol wouldn't it only encourage more behavior?

  • Maybe she really wants to be dominated so she wants you to lay down the law, there are girls that want to be dominated, otherwise she wants to dominate you but it seems like she wants u to step in and show her whos boss. This may spund weird but have you had sex? She may be desperate to bang if you have, does she let u blow ur load in her face? That is a sign that she likes to me dominated aswell..

    Otherwise idfk

Most Helpful Girls

  • She sounds like a bitch and you sound like a push over. She only acts that way because people like you let and enable her by not saying anything to her. Once she realizes that you and no one else wants to be around her because of her attitude, she will change it or move on to new people who she will surely scare off as well.

    Also she sounds like the perfect girl for some of the men who love that kind of thing on here lol

  • She's awesome and confident, you're not. You are dating someone out of your league. She keeps you around for now, as her little let.
    Go find a girl whose balls are not bigger than yours.

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  • Dude... You need to get out before she mind fucks and twists you... She ain't right in her head.

  • Naturally no one sees this as sexual assault. Women storm the streets with pitchforks if they hear a half-assed rape joke somewhere in the distance, but a girl physically grabs a guy's sexual organs and it gets 'molestation' as its closest classification and the guy actually gets called a pushover and is told he needs bigger balls (both comments made by women below).

    If it happens to women, it's a tragedy. If it happens to men it's just Tuesday.

  • Your girlfriend is a petty bitch. If she's doing this bullshit after only a couple months of dating, it'll only get a LOT worse.

    Why are you even with her?

  • Throw it back in her face next time you play fight pin her down and start going close for a kiss then pull back every time. Let her know who's in charge if she won't yield... then she's probably crazy

  • I was grabbed by my younger sister's friend because I tried to stop them from getting into my room. I was stood in the doorway with my legs spread and she put her hand up my shorts and felt my balls. Then she said she would make me sorry and squeezed hard. It felt like she popped my balls. I felt her nails digging in. It only lasted briefly and I fell on the floor and let them in. Girls can be so mean.

  • What, so, guys can do it to girls, but girls can't do it to guys?

    #TRUMPISACUCK

  • Get the fuck out of there, asap.

  • She seems like a "bad girl" to me. She's a aggressive girl clearly. You're not white are you?

    What she did to your friend is molestation by the way.

    I mean if that's not the kind of girl you want then maybe you should cut her off, but I know some guys are into that kind of behavior.

    • She's bitchy, but hey some guys like that.

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