I'm 60 years old and I still want sex on a regular basis, so there is nothing wrong with your desires. Tell your boyfriend that the lack of frequent sex is a problem for you and ask him what he thinks you should do about it. . . and "just don't think about it" is not an option.
0 0 0 0Has it become a routine and he is not enjoying it anymore? Do you always demand that one position that's best for you without asking for his wants? Does he watch a lot of porn lately?
1 0 0 0No I don't think it's a routine. We started having sex a few months ago and recently he said it's been really amazing. So I don't know what happened between then and now where he wants to make me feel bad for wanting it. I thought he would want it too. And no we don't always do same position. As for the porn. I have no idea. He say he doesn't masturbate often but I don't know if I believe that. Lol.
OK, I'm kinda clueless myself. Did he make you come yet? It's quite personal and you don't even have to answer of course, but if he didn't maybe he's kinda frustrated about that? I know for sure that it was driving me crazy when I couldn't make my girl get an orgasm in the beginning. If that could be a possibility maybe talk about it with him. If that is also not an issue I have honestly no idea. It seems strange to begin with.
Actually no he hasn't... Like its good but I never reach it. I've never told him that I haven't orgasmed because I don't want to upset him. I've asked him to go down on me a few times because I think it might help but he always says we'll try it next time or that the last time he did it went terribly bad. I think my issue is that I need clit simulation. I don't how to work that into our sex. But I don't think he knows if I have cum or not because he been with one girl aside from me. But I don't know what to do about any of this really. I don't deserve to be treated like that... And I won't put up with it for too long because it makes me feel like a slut for wanting sex and it's not like we see each other everyday so I don't understand whats the big deal.
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He's basically taking out his own insecurities out on you and making you feel bad about something you have no need to. This has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him.
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0 6Get to a really good couple's counselor.
0 0 0 0You are right, you can't have a partner that treats you like that. If he is treating you like shit, no matter the reason, it is time for you to move on and don't look back. Find someone that you are compatible with in ALL aspects.
1 0 0 0Lol such an idiot.. most of the guys dont know this but thats how you get a cheating girlfriend.. yes you heared right guys! Its not only her fault if she cheats, of course she could just break up so its her fault to 90% but being like this gives the boy the other 10% and the title "the cause of this problem". Just dump him girl, seems to be over.
0 0 0 0Since nobody mentioned it. There is a remote option that he has something going on downthere, and doesn't want you to find out. Wound left by rough masturbation or somthing like that..
Seems really odd, someone that age refusing free sex. Ask him if it was something that you did. If it wasn't, he should feel guilty that you think you are guilty because of him.
Hope that last bit wasn't confusing...1 1 0 0Yep that's true. I was assuming they still had sex, just not as much. Could be right.
Well it depends on how often that "always" is, I can see why it'd get annoying *every single time* but like 2-3 times a week is totally reasonable with some skips inbetween. Otherwise, he might just not be as much into you as you are into him, which is a shame..
0 0 0 0Call him a fag. Only a fag wouldn't want to be having sex on a regular basis at 20.
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