Why are single moms the perfect fuck buddies?

I've heard this rumor a lot, not only on the internet, also from people I know. I've heard some guys at work talking about it (actually overheard), or the guys at the bar. Of course the single moms that got pregnant too early by fucking around irresponsibly with the wrong guys, are probably good fuck buddies. I don't need to explain that. But there are a lot other single moms too. Divorced women, widows, women who left their man for the right reasons. I have a friend (she lives next door) who's a single mother who divorced her husband quickly after getting a kid for the right reason. Believe me, she did the right thing for her and her kid. Now she's a single mom and her dating life is fucked up. I feel bad for her, but I do however understand that guys see the perfect fuck buddy in her. First of all, she is hot. Not just pretty, but even as a woman I can see that she's every man's sex fantasy. She keeps dressing up nice all the time cause since she's so busy, she hopes to find a guy during her work time. She doesn't have time to go on a thousand dates to wait till she's in the right mood for romance, and also she doesn't believe in the ideal romantic date, since being a single mother made her realistic and practical. So a good hard fuck is more realistic to her. Being so busy all the time, I understand why she craves to just fuck out the stress more han the average single woman. Guys do however abuse this situation way to much and kind of degrade her into their personals fuck puppet, which I don't approve of since she's a great mother and friend. I know I already answered my own question, but do you guys have more/other opinions on this?
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  • I think you pretty much covered it. Single moms don't care to bring 100 guys around their kids, but they still crave sex. So they become more matter of fact about it in order to focus on getting their needs met in the limited amount of time they have. They're likely older, too, which usually makes women more sexual and more interested in the physical aspects of sex. Older women are more likely to demand fit partners with big dicks who can bring them to strong orgasms. They know what they want, and they're not afraid to ask for it.

    For guys, this is a good scenario, because we get an eager woman who is craves a good fucking and doesn't expect some deep commitment. We get pussy, she gets her orgasms, and then we move on to other matters. It's definitely a great set-up for most younger guys who are happy to oblige a hot woman's physical needs.

    • Yeah that's kinda true. Maybe just to clear things up: she's not old, she's 31 and looks even younger. So she doesn't need younger guys. The thing is that she is physically very satisfied like this, but it's normal that having another dude fucking your brains out every week, often after a first (and only) date, kinda messes you up mentally. I think she just needs to figure out a balance. I also noticed that the guys that fuck her are always the same type: muscular, macho, often big mouth, arrogant and simply dumb. So maybe she should balance out guys' fitness and personality a little, especially since she is very smart and understanding. But yeah, they get the job done physically. What I hear when her kid is out, is some straight up porn going on there. One time I heard her moaning and her ass clapping from outside her house. But I'll try to talk her into balancing it out.

  • I feel that a single mom is in a difficult and a bit vulnerable situation. She has to think about her child (ren) first and will have limited times. I would suggest that you next door neighbor really doesn't just want a good hard fuck but really wants to meet a guy who respects her and her situation and is willing to date her in that context. The online dating sites are her best best. Okcupid. com is a good free one.

    Is she kinky? That might change things, probably for the better.

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  • It makes sense.

    The majority of single mothers had unplanned children. They cared too much about sex to have the foresight to use protection, and a strong sex drive and the means to get it (meaning they were attractive enough to get laid) are the exact things you're looking for in a fuck buddy.

    They also tend to be impatient (due to having little time), which means the sex requires little investment.

    I'm not saying I like it, it just all makes sense from an objective point of view.

  • I've been involved with about ten single mothers in the past 30 years. The one common thing that several of them said to me was, "Thanks, I needed that," after bringing them to orgasm, one way or another. I guess that even if they masturbate to satisfy their sensual needs, having a guy get them off is what they miss / want the most. I'm 63 now but don't look it and live in a city known for it's beaches and casinos. I have random 21 - 40 y/o women start chatting me up almost every week in casino bars and restaurants. Maybe it's a daddy complex thing with the younger ones, or a 30+ y/o MILF trying to reassure herself that she's desirable and that she can attract an older guy, but they all have one thing in common. They are so messed up mentally with regard to relationships that most aren't worth the time to get involved with, even just for NSA sex or a one-night stand because you (the guy) gets the "you're an asshole" tag for taking advantage of a woman "in need" and using her if you don't want to see her again.

  • Er no. Once you've had kids, the fun is over if you're trying to find a man of any kind of social value. You have that with a man who can provide. Have kids with a guy who runs and any man of social value simply can't accept another man's sperm as his status is simply too high to allow it.

  • few people want to raise another person's child, regardless of gender. That makes someone willing to date her very rare.

    anyway, you may be thinking about it wrong. you seem to be thinking of it as guys using her, but it sounds to me like she's using guys for the same purpose - it's mutual satisfaction. It's like going to a garage sale and buying a huge TV for $20. You 'used' them by getting a cheap TV, but they also used you to clear some space for their new, much larger and newer, TV.

  • A reason for this might be that since she has a kid, a guy will have less stigma if he decides to not date her and just fuck her.

  • because their schedule is so full with the kids that most of the time they are happy to get a good fuck here and there

  • Hey no problems with single moms or busy women in general. At this moment I would prefer that as well. Some of us are extra busy and don't have time for a full blown relationship. . and how, you hear her fucking... nice lol.

  • they need to let out the heat

  • is it pretty

  • I love fucking a single mothers because they want it too then suddenly they let you go balls deep effortlessly I enjoy the single mothers cheeks it does boost my ego and allows me to practice pounding her at her place without any interuptions and she treats me like a king 👑 She enjoys it and I return the next week for more play time with the single mother every week, but the thing is she will probably get attached is the thing that sucks for her, we have fun though.


  • Single mom loves to fuck ready to go anytime

  • No opinions from me, oh except one thing.. can I have her number.

    *jokes for anyone who doesn't get it*

  • No, you answered it, they don't have time to mess around, and a regular sex partner is often all they can squeeze into their lives.