Why does my boyfriend pin me down alot?

Question

So we have been a couple for a year or 2 (im 14 he is 15) and we do a lot together. We talk, hang out, and play with our siblings together. But he will always pin me down. We could be sitting in the grass talking and he would just tackle me and pin me down, both his legs around my waist and both my arms pinned above my head, him holding my wrists. I always feel his boner against me as well 0.0. If we hang out alone sometimes he will play this "game" where he can't let me escape from him. No matter what i say he will just pin me down. His boner is always hard and pressing against me. And before you ask no he is not wanting sex. He has never asked oupr shown any signs about it. He just pins me down. We do kiss and dry hump. He lays on top of me and i think the kast time he dry humoed me he exploded lol. Anyway like i said he just pins me down. When he pins me he will just eye my up and down admiring every curve on my body. He also smells my neck and body. We have been in a bed alone together before, a lot actually, and every time we are in a bed he will lay inbetween my legs on top of me, kissing my lips, neck, breasts, etc. he also fondles my breasts a lot. I always feel his bonor on my vag. I asked him once why he pins me down sommuch and he respounded by tackling me to the ground, pinning me down, and said "because its sexy..." In a teasing voice before suckling my neck. It doesn't bother me it just makes me curious. So why does he pin me down so much?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

At that age he doesn't really know anything about intimacy or arousal. He just has an urge to put his... in you.
I would say most likely he's been reading things online or watching porn. Some girls get turned on by being thrown around or pinned down. If he's seen it on the internet he probably thinks he's being sexy.

sexyphil · Accepted Answer

Probably pins you down as it turns him on to press his boner against you.

SammyGurl · Accepted Answer

Probably because it feels good and turns him on. He's also sort of conquering you, letting you know in a physical way that your his girl. Guys this age don't express themselves very romantically, so this kinda what you get. (Both my brothers went through this kind of stage with their girlfriends.)

Fibbett · Answer

A lot of guys find wrestling sexy. If you are able, you should try to pin him sometime. If it really upsets him, then he's probably actually into having power over you. More likely he will be okay with it or, if he's like me, enjoy it even more than when he is on top.