How often should I call my booty call?

When would be too much? Let's say I'm horny almost all of the time (which is true, lol) is it OK to occasionally not call, to give him space or play hard to get? Or should I just call whenever I want to to f*** and say screw the head games? We've known eachother since jr high and he lost his virginity to me then. We're both in our early twenties now. Throughout the years he'd always be the one to contact me once in a blue, and sometimes when we met, we would hook up, if not we'll hangout and then I won't hear from him that often afterwards. He's always done this. Anyway, fast forward, we've been hanging out the most we ever have this summer up until now. At first when we met up after not having seen eachother for a while, we would f*** and then I'd hear from him every few days. It seemed like he was "playing the game" because sometimes I would text and he wouldn't get back to me. Anyway, I got tired of tjay and told him I didn't want it to be JUST! about sex. He said how he couldn't help but be so attracted to me and he'll try to take me out more. so, we just kept hanging out at his place (lives with his parents but parents aren't home at the time) and we continued having consensual sex. He started saying things that made me wonder like "could u see yourself being with a man like me?" Or bringing up if we were ever married" things like that. He mentioned once how of he were to ever have kids he'd want it to be with me.. I don't know he just says these random things but I'm not sure if he's just saying them in the moment. But he's been calling or texting every day of not every other day. He text me to "be his girl" once but I told him let's just be friends instead. He seemed upset as he didn't talk much to me afterwards but we went to having sex again. Anyway, recently, we had sex, it was good. He text me saying what's up and how depressed he was and then he wanted to go out I said keep his head up, and he replied with can u help me and I said how and he said he di
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... Just wants to go out but never got back to me. My question (s) are: What does it seem like he wants from me given what I said? And will calling him seem needy? or should I play hard to get?
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  • What is the FUCKIN question? You write a text that would reach from California to New York if I would print it, just bragging about your sexlife and then there is no question. If its really your question how often you should call him, YOU DONT NEED THIS FAT TEXT! God.. what a waste of time, and I was so curious what the question will be.

    • The question/questions are willI seems ready I if i called him and what doesn to seen like given my text what he wants from me

    • Will I seem needy***

    • I'm sorry my phone is acting up. What does it seem like given what I said does he want from me?

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  • He wants you in a serious way and you told him that you just wanted to be friends. You have been friend-with-benefits-zoned. So, if you are content with that and just want sex on regular basis, have a candid discussion on the subject.

    • I keep getting different responses here. Some guys say he's not that into me. Why wouldn't he respond to my text then? All I did was suggest that we go out and do something like he wanted and he never got got back to me

    • I called him this morning asking him if he wanted to smoke and I called him he trx time saying he'll call me in 5 mins because he's running late and never called back. Things like this. This one guy in here said he doesn't want to put much effort into the relationship. Do u agree?

    • No. He has been rejected so he is being passive-aggressive, trying to show you that he really doesn't care (when, in fact, he does.) If you told him that you had made a horrible mistake and you thought that he was The One for you. . . he would run to you in a heartbeat.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • whenever you want some action, you should call them. haha! i think thats what they ar there for :)

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  • 1) why would you ever play games? good way for the guy to tell you to fuck off.
    2) at your age a guy is horny 24x7. so call him as much as you want. though that tells me it is more then a booty call. if you want him that much you should be together.

    • If I'm horny most times which I am, how is calling him as much as in want more than a booty call? What if I want to fuck him a few times a week? Are you saying that's too much calling?

    • If your craving being with a person that much, it is a good chance it it them that you want to be with and no necessarily only about sex. so that would suggest you should be in a relationship and not just hooking up. if you want to screw someone every day, it is pretty sad that is all you want... seems like your subconscious is telling you to take it farther...

  • Call whenever you need him.

    • Then when I do he's busy yet wants me to be free when he calls

    • Tell him to give you his schedule so you can work around it cause this only works if both contributors are satisfied.

    • His schedule is capricious, so that wouldn't work. Plus, why do u think he never got back to me when I suggested we go out? I mean we were fine before why the sudden silent treatment?

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