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Is my girlfriend a sex addict?

Me and this girl finally started a relationship. After years of being friends (I'm a senior in high school) I ended up telling her I was in love with her and she said the same thing back. It was actually pretty perfect. So we started dating and everything has been going great. My only question is her obsession for sex. When were first confessed that we were crazy about each other we talked for a long time afterwards and she told me that she often masturbated to pictures of me and always fantasized about sex with each other. I didn't find it that weird. I'd fantasized about her a few times myself. We eventually ended up having sex about a week later. It was phenomenal. By far the most pleasurable experience of my life. We continued having sex on a regular basis. Usually about 2 or 3 times a week. As time went on she wanted to have sex more often and try new positions and everything. I was down with that too. But now things have escalated. A little while ago we were driving around and her mom asked her to go pick up something from a grocery. Long story short, we got everything from the store and when we got back to the car she insisted on giving me a blowjob. We pulled the car to the far end of the lot and she blew me. A few more occurrences like this have happened but I'll skip to the real big story. We were at her house watching a movie. No one was home so of course we had sex and then we fell asleep. I woke up to her giving me a blowjob which was fine. I went back to sleep. Then I woke up again and she was blowing me again. This happened about 4 times. She just kept going and going. Sometimes I sleep at her house on weekends and everytime I do, this is the stuff that happens. I've woken up with her riding me, blowing me, anything you can think of and she's done it. Her new thing is swaddling or whatever they call it so basically we just sleep together while my dick is in her at all times, if she gets horny then she fucks me and goes back to bed. Any thoughts?
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Pane unasked her why she likes sex so much she says it's because she wants to make up for all the time we lost by not dating earlier. She also says it's because she wants to show her love for me in as many ways as possible as much as possible. That works for me.
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That's supposed to say *When I asked*. Not *Pane unasked*
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  • Do you know how lucky you are? I wish I had a girl like that. But I will never have a girl like that. You should be eternally grateful for having a girl like her by your side. I was a virgin until August 2015. During that month, I paid $500 total just to have sex with four girls. I was becoming very suicidal before I lost my virginity. I didn't know who to ask for sex. I never tried dating girls. I barely talked with girls even though I was very attracted to them. I don't even got a job but people still want money from me. Now, I'm beyond broke. You're getting unlimited sex for free and you're complaining. I honestly doubt any human would be alive today if they were in my body.

    I think you amplified my depression. Thanks a lot. You've literally increased my suicidal thoughts with your post. People like you get everything in life and still complain, then people like me are practically bottom dwellers, yet we're not allowed to complain. The worst part is military helicopters got me on surveillance 24/7. I can't even leave my house without the military following my every footstep.

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    Fuck this planet.

    • This comment made me laugh so much and the helicopter pic took me out 😭💀💀

  • Ohh to be young again. My first girlfriend (a preachers daughter) LOVED to fuck constantly everywhere and anywhere. And who was I to deny her. In the car, behind the church, kitchen table, bjs everywhere and just swallowed it all up. Enjoy her/it while you can my friend. My current girlfriend absolutely loves sex but it's just not the same as back then. Just make sure to use condoms you dont want baby at age 18. curious when she blows you does she finish and swallow or is it just partial bjs like suck a while and stop?

    • Finishes and swallows. Its great

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  • I'm kind of like that especially right after I had my first time, I think if my first time hurt I wouldn't like it as much but it didn't hurt it was just fun. One timeI pulled my boyfriend into my car and started kissing him and then when he got hard I pulled out a condom, he was a bit surprised but he loved it and kept talking about it for weeks after. I think most girls will do things like that. BUT she should NOT be having sex with you while you are unconscious and sleeping! Consent is needed every single time, even if you don't mind that's a bad road for her to go down, sleeping or unconscious people can not provide consent. If my boyfriend wants sex in the middle of the night or to go down on me he kisses me neck and it wakes me up and then he asks.

  • I was like that the first year after losing my virginity. I wanted it constantly. I thought it was fun. It was so new and empowering. It feels incredible. I wanted to experiment. I still love sex a lot. I'm not turned on 24/7 but I still have a very perverted mind. So some people just enjoy it more than others. I'm not sure how long y'all have been together but for the first year of having sex it's so new, I think it's normal for her to be that way. I was.

  • Its cute she loves you but she needs to pipe the fuck down. She shouldn't be doing sexual things to you when ur sleeping thats almost like rape, but not cuz u like it, but she's doing it basically without ur real consent. Plus ur questions saying a lot, ik boys think about sex all the time so for a boy to ask this question is concerning...

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  • "Champagne problems", bro👍

  • She has a high libido. As long as you are comfortable with everything, which it seems like you are, then no problem. Just make sure you guys develop a relationship beyond sex... or don't get lost in the sex and lose sight of the feelings.

  • No, your girlfriend is a rapist...

    If a guy did these things to a girl, he'd be in jail in a heartbeat...

    Not saying she actually is, maybe you gave her consent, I am just pointing out the hypocrisy of it.

    • Yeah double standards lol

  • Hey hommy! I understand your concern. She appears to have high but healthy sex drive compared to most women, and probably higher than yours.

    Sadly, you cannot keep up to her needs. And rightly so. There is very little you could do except addressing the problem with her head-on.

    Handle the discussion tactically without making her feel insulted, eccentric or emasculated. Otherwise I fear you could push her into self-pleasure (masturbation), porn or even seeking extra sex from other guys who can pleasure her more.

    Someone once said there is no such thing as too much or less sex. It all depends on one's perspective. For example, I dated a girl who once thought I'm a sexaholic because she couldn't keep up with daily or even weekly sex. She made feel I was abnormal, and brainwashed me in thinking women are not into that much sex.

    Then after I dated another girl who is sexual match. Sex for us was spontaneous. The moment we start to kiss anywhere except in public, 8 out of 10 times it would lead to sex.

    I bet you there are millions of guys out there whom your girlfriend would be an ideal mate. Trust me, your girlfriend is my type of girl. A girl who is not afraid, timid or constrain by social conditioning to express her sexual needs.

  • First of all, did you give your consent to be blown or fucked during your sleep because if not, that's super creepy and technically rape...

    But having a high libido is not equivalent to sex addiction. Sex addiction stems from childhood sexual abuse and often sex is not for physical pleasure but because it's the only thing that makes them feel loved or close to someone. So all yourself, does that sound like her or does she just have a high sex drive?

    • didn't he write he's cool with the sleeping thing? So thats not the problem 😅 I couldnt imagine how a guy wouldn't like this anyways. I mean alright, his case is a little extreme since she does it every single time and after the 3rd time cumming also isn't enjoyable anymore I'd say. So yeah there is that, but every now and then waking up while she's giving head is pretty cool.

    • @Bimbobambo no he said he was OK with other stuff but never explicitly said that he was fine with her fucking him in his sleep. If this was a man fucking a girl in her sleep everyone would go crazy, double standards basically. Sex without consent = rape.

    • "I woke up to her giving me a blowjob which was fine. I went back to sleep. Then I woke up and she was blowing me again. This happened 4 times" He said "which was fine" read again. And also after the 4 times he didn't say he didn't want it, he was just curious if its normal that she has such a high sexdrive. I see what you're saying and I agree with you. But this guy was fine with it.

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  • don't really see her as being a sex addict. I think she just really likes sex

  • Do you dislike it?

  • This isn't weird I'm exactly the same with my boyfriend. I love having sex with him I love making him cum. It's a huge turn on... and I love making live to him. We've had sex in a car no big deal. We've had sex at his workplace at the back office. It's sexy not a problem

  • Well before I say anything, I'll say be careful she doesn't get pregnant! But you that already...
    WOW that is a lot of sex. She is definitely a high sex-drive person no doubt. Since you've known her for years, do you know if she has a lot of mood swings or ups and downs? Does she live a fairly stable life, or does she go into periods where she "lets things go" and doesn't function well? Any major alcohol or drug issues?

  • You can have a crazy high sex drive without being a sex addict, she also sounds adventurous.

  • She isn't a sex addict, she just has a turbo charged sex drive. Normal around that age, especially in women though people thing it's more common in men. When you wake up getting blown and fall back asleep, I don't think that was her intention, so that's probably why she tries again and again... She wants to get fucked!
    Orgasms don't tire women out like they do men.
    Still, you should try to give her some anyway.
    Or allow your hand to spend more time down her pants. She clearly wants more stimulation.
    It doesn't have to come from your penis.

  • That's the point where I normally wake up from my dream. You lucky bastard !

  • She's just young and very much in love with you. Sex addicts want to sleep with others too.

  • She truly loves u and feels like ur her sole mate she always wants u to b happy and never leave so she will do her best to do that and she is so turned on by u that just by looking at u she wants sex ur the luckiest guy in the world can't wait till I get a girlfriend an fuck she told u she masturbates to your pics that's not something a girl just tells u or dose fuck u r sooo luck man

  • Ahem, what's the problem here? I mean, unless you don't like her/don't want sex with her anymore? If you do, enjoy every single minute of it while you can. Most relationships don't work out in the long run, so appreciate it while it lasts. You're quite lucky. Most guys would really dig a girl that wanted them that much.

  • you are one lucky guy, I don't see any issue other than why you wouldn't want this. She may think this is what she has to do to keep you interested in her but with the back story of friendship I doubt it. Sounds like she knows you pretty well or she thinks she does. She may be nympho and just love sex or just loves your cock. In my experience this usually ends after the firsts few months so enjoy it while you can. If you don't care about her ask for a 3 some if you do care ask but make the 3rd person a stranger that you don't have to see every day.

  • It sounds to me that she is turned on by the idea of getting the chance to have sex with you or at least do sexual things whenever and wherever it is possible., and once you're aroused you really can't just "get yourself unaroused" all that easily as sex is a base desire that even overrides the need for sleep or the need to eat.

    You're lucky! Your girlfriend loves you and desires you.

  • Dude. .. That the kind of girl every guy wish for... You are lucky to have her.

  • Good thing you got her while she's young.

  • How can you turn it down if she wants the D so much?

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