How do I convince my girlfriend to try bondage?

[mollie37]

So I’m really into bondage and I like to be dominate in the bedroom and now I'm dating this girl I really like but she's not as adventurous as my other partners. We’ve both seen 50 shades and she might be a bit curious about bondage, but I’m afraid that if I tell her I want to handcuff her to the bed, gagged her and have my way with her I might scare her off. My previous partners were more adventurous and were totally up for it and we had no problems with it, but now I don't know how to ask my girlfriend to let me tie her up. So if anyone has any advice I’d really appreciate it.

[lumos]

50 shades is like the shittiest piece of "literature" that you can use as a base for all things S&M, just saying.
I don't exactly have any personal experience from S&M but from what I've read, the best way to bring it up is in a non-sexual setting (no pressure) and taking baby steps. Also have a safe word.

[ekc8295]

It's not something you can jump into the deep end with. Ask to incorporate small, safe things into your normal routine. A simple blindfold. Light spanking or biting. If she likes that explore other things together. See what parts appeal to her and which don't.

[Bullfrogman]

Your right. I takes trust. And safety. Start out with just the hands. If she feels uncomfortable in any way quickly untie her. Remember this. When someone's in an awkward position and they struggle hard they can easily pull a muscle or even dislocate a joint. I remember a man sued a dominatrix on I believe Judge Mathis and won She may never like it. On the plus side if you go slow she has a better chance of going along with this. This is definitely not first date stuff. When you get to using gags use a very thin cleave gag so she will be able to talk and warn you

[heythereee]

Start small, like just use a piece of cloth to tie her hands. Then you can try now w Herr if she seems comfortable

[Fortres]

My opinion the sexist bandage, I wish I had thought of this when I was with my girlfriend who liked bandage, tie her wrists to her ankles. She's tied to herself, and can untie herself if she needs to, but you're in complete control if she let's you.
Woof

[Raynera]

Tell her, how sexy it is! ❤️❤️❤️

[Anonymous]

Just start slowly. First try just handcuffing then go on to the next step etc

[JuicyBrain]

I came here to say that. Maybe start with the just blindfold, then just one hand tied. Make sure you build trust with her. She won't accept unless she feels she can trust you entirely.