Guys, NO HOLDS BAR what's your HONEST opinion on the Cukholding (?) Fantasy? Yes? No? Why? Etc?

[MasterMurloc]

I just want to know what are everyone's outlook on the cukholding fantasy? I looked into it and I see what it consists of. There's different kinds? Humiliation? Domination? Submission? If you fantasize about this as a male , why? What would be the best part for you about it? Would you want the girl that was involved to be your wife, or the girl you love? Would you want to eat what they call the "creampie" out of your girl? If yes or no , why or why not? Just in general what are your outlooks on this fantasy. I'm very interested. I've studied many paraphilias and this one just confuses me. The different reasons one would fantasize about it is what I'd like to know. & if they'd still love that girl after or if they ever did to begin with?

[hellionthesage]

No, its pathetic and disgusting on multiple levels. I ask her out, I pay for the date, I give her everything and then I watch as some one else just comes in and has sex with her? Why the hell would I do that? First and foremost I believe in a monogoumus relationship and quite frankly the idea of some one else sleeping with the woman who is suppose to be loyal to me is disgusting. If a woman I was with ever suggested it I would break up with her, if she thinks that my money and my time are good enough for her but whants to have sex with some one else then she obviosly isn't worth my time and money. I don't get it and just hearing about it make me feel dirty. I mean how does one get off on being used like a tool? To be reduced to a non person to have the person you invested so much into that you love treat you like a thing that is easily discarded? Thats just messed up. then of course take into account that sex causes oxytocin to be released in the brain creating emotional bonds and the cuckold is most likely going to lose his girlfriend/wife to some other guy. I think its sick on the guys part and sick on the womans part. Its just messed up in my opinion.

[Laowai]

This is bizarre, don't understand it at all. My best guess is that it is supposed to compensate for some weird deep-seated insecurity. No man in his right mind wants to watch the woman they love and cherish get penetrated and jizzed on by another man.

Interesting that most of the commentators think this is a woman's fantasy. Based on internet porn, seems clearly to be a male fantasy - a sick and twisted male fantasy.

[sinful1620]

I would probably angrily murder a woman who forced me to do this.

[MasterMurloc]

So you see it as a female fantasy of domination?

[sinful1620]

I think this fantasy is the female equivalent of two fantasies for men: rape fantasy and being worshipped by two girls. And I'd likely dump a girl for asking for this because I wouldn't trust her afterward.

[MasterMurloc]

But, what if the girl was the one that was being asked to do this? Would you want to see that?

[sinful1620]

This is why the fantasy is so fucked up. No, I have zero interest in shaming a grown woman like that. It's incredibly fucked up. If she really wanted a threesome with another girl she'd have to find a way to make me comfortable with it. Threesome with another guy she won't be able to ever make me comfortable with that.

[MasterMurloc]

But, I'm not talking about a female wanting this to happen. I'm talking about a male, wanting his girlfriend to do it.

[sinful1620]

I think men who actually enjoy this shit are either sexual deviants who get off on humiliation or they're sex abuse victims subconsciously reenacting their abuse.

[Bimbobambo]

If someone touches the pussy of my Girl, he is one head shorter.

[elric]

This is one of the most abhorrent of fantasies to me. You are actively calling yourself useless and despicable.

[MasterMurloc]

That's what the female is doing or the male? The male in the watching situation?

[elric]

yes, the male nbeing cuckold. this is from the perspective that the male gets off from this being done to him. I would not be able to call a man, a man, if he had this done to him. Now, if the girl is forcing this on him... that is a different story.

[MasterMurloc]

The female isn't forcing anything, this is all him.

[elric]

I know, I was adding. I think my opinion of the whole thing is pretty obvious, hah..

[BertMacklinFBI]

like none lol. wtf. that's such a shitty moment let alone a fantasy to be lived.

[Xelebrum]

I don't even know what exactly cukholding is. :|

[Bimbobambo]

You dont wanna know...

[MasterMurloc]

@Bimbobambo yes, best comment.

[MasterMurloc]

Google it; then get back to me.

[Xelebrum]

OH HELL NO, FUCK THAT SHIT

[MasterMurloc]

😂 lmfao

[Xelebrum]

Any guy who actually lets his wife fuck other guys, and ENJOYS it, is a little bitch with no self respect whatsoever.

[MasterMurloc]

I agree.

[Insecure1636]

I'm not into it unless I'm the other guy. I don't see the fantasy of being restrained and watching my girl get fucked by another guy.

[the_rake]

For a lot of guys it's not even really a fantasy, it's just that the majority of girls you hit on already have partners (or so they say!). Cuckolding seems like one of the few ways to get around this problem if you want casual sex.

[MasterMurloc]

But, if you're in a long term relationship say years committed would you want to see your girlfriend in that position?

[the_rake]

Obviously not, but as a single guy, women don't exactly make anything easy for me so if I want to satisfy my survival instincts (related to reproduction) I don't really have much time to consider the morality of it all. If I could possibly be ethical about it, I would.

[the_rake]

It seems I misunderstood: I thought you were asking why we like to be cuckoldERS, not cuckoldED. The idea revolts me.

[MasterMurloc]

Lol, thank you.

[FakeName123]

I personally don't find any appeal in it, but I think the fanatasy is part of an inferiority complex. "I am not worthy of my girlfriend/wife".

[MasterMurloc]

That's what I've read and heard. Humiliation of some type. Also, the fact that their wife/girlfriend is so hot they want to watch other guys lust over her. So many different variations.

[FakeName123]

Sure, I still think no normal guy wants his girl to be with someone else. Personally I also think sexuality is an extension of personality. So while your points are accurate, it all comes down to inferiority-complex, being undeserving as well as self-punishment for the first two.

[MasterMurloc]

Yeah, I've pretty much thought that. I just find it odd because most people that have this fantasy (males) are extremely possessive of their wife/girlfriend. Or, maybe I'm wrong. From what I've noticed, from expirence they don't even like it when you have male friends.

[FakeName123]

I haven't exactly gone into the psychology of guys who are into cuckold. Let's just say that they appear to me quite low on the social ranking hierachy for such desire. But the possessiveness could make sense. Often people do have those opposing extremes instead of a balance inbetween. Guess its the mind balancing itself out.

[Resoglass]

Fucking ew

[Gommers]

It's for faggots and betas. Anyone that engages in cuckholding should be put to death.