Why does my friends with benefits always makes eye contact while talking to me and during sex?

[Anonymous]

When ever he says something he always making eye contact I find that awkward I get shy. Also when I'm giving him head he stares at my face and I tell him it's awkward and he says it's a turn on.. why? Also when he masturbates he just looks at me with that same stare he does and he looks right at me not my boobs or anything just my face and when I try to return the eye contact it hurts my eyes. Especially when we make eye contact it hurts my eyes and u end up turning away. Also during sex when we do it missionary he stares at me and it's so awkward. Everyone says he probably likes me or thinks I'm cute that's why he does that but tbh I think he don't like me at all that's why he'll rather b a friends with benefits. It was his idea in the first place not mine. So why does he stares at me like that? by the way I'm 19 he's 25

[Anonymous]

Talking is control, also selling, temptation, getting what you want
and eye contact is feedback to all that... "are they buying this?", OK to continue getting what I want?, green light? ... "I don't know how far I can push this, but I'm having a great time and will push it as far as I can!"

Also in play is direct eye contact can be a sign of his daydreaming all sorts of things about/with you from what a princess to now she's naked, my sex slave doing... who knows what.

[Man_Over_Game]

Knowing that someone finds you attractive is attractive. He probably enjoys being wanted more than anything else. Your tits and ass isn't telling him you want him, your face is.

[theguyisback]

Eye contact is the most intimate connection.. He has an emotional longing for you in sexual situations 👌🏻

[theguyisback]

Hey thanks for MHO 👍🏻