Are girls more likely to have "pornstar style" sex with their casual partners?

[Bandit74]

I recently read this take that sumarized a survey about tinder encounters. It found that most of the sex happened on the first date and was often described as "emotionless, hard, wild, fast, fun, and physical ".

( https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a22977-girls-on-tinder-do-smash-a-lot )

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with either type of sex, but I've often heard people say that girls are more likely to have that rough, potentially degrading, "porn style" sex with their casual partners but then mainly want loving sex when in a serious relationship.

What are your experiences with this?

(Feel free to go anon 😉)

[Anonymous]

i dont like any sort of porn star sex or degradation in bed unless its with someone who i care about and i know there's mutual respect, honestly for me casual sex is usually pretty vanilla and i would get a bit weirded out if a guy pulled out their wild fantasy fetishes with me the first time we had sex

[Anonymous]

When I would have casual sex when I was younger there was an element of showing off with a new partner but anything that may be considered degrading I would not do with a casual partner. I need to trust someone in order to allow them to perform "degrading" acts.

[kaylaS91]

I have 'porn-style sex' with my boyfriend. Hard, sometimes wild, fast, obviously physical though not emotionless. I don't find it degrading in the slightest... I want it just as bad as he does. :)

[allahu_snackbar]

This isn't first hand experience but I had a friend who used to clean up on POF. He told me stories and showed me messages, I was shocked and it made me not want to use internet dating sites. ahaha

[Bandit74]

Like what kind of things? 😮

[allahu_snackbar]

Some of the sex acts he got up to with these girls were kind of extreme. Also he once banged 3 girls he met on POF in one day. Normally I wouldn't believe that shit because it's not very likely, but this was one of those occasions where something extraordinary was true. ahah

[Bandit74]

is he really good looking? also what does POF stand for?

[allahu_snackbar]

He's probably a 7 facially but he's tall and dark so that bumps him up. Plenty Of Fish.

[Bandit74]

How old were the girls he hooked up with and were they generally more or less attractive than him?

[allahu_snackbar]

He showed me a bunch of them and it was a real mix from around 20-30 and it was a mix when it came to looks too, some were skanky looking and others were actually pretty hot.

[Bandit74]

We're the ones who did the more extreme things the less attractive ones?

[allahu_snackbar]

I don't know, he showed me one in particular and he told me how he put her in his bathtub and pissed all over her, I would have given her a 7. But that's only one example and he didn't fill me in about each one so it's hard to say, but if I had to guess I don't think there's a correlation between how attractive they are and how dirty they are.

[Bandit74]

Lol was that his idea or hers?

[allahu_snackbar]

Who knows, it was probably his, dirty bastard. haha

[Bandit74]

Lol well she didn't put up muchresistance to the idea so she's just as dirty. Damn, I was kinda hoping more people would post opinions

[allahu_snackbar]

Try reposting the question later, site activity looks a bit low at the moment and when there's only a few people around only the dumb questions get answered. haha

[Bandit74]

good point. I'll give it a try

[JoeCensored]

The question doesn't really make sense, in that there is a guy having porn style sex each time a girl does, so it isn't a girl thing unless you're referring to gay women.

[Bandit74]

I don't see how it doesn't make sense. This has nothing to do with averages

[JoeCensored]

@Asker how are these women more likely than men to have porn style sex when a man is there having porn style sex each time they do?

[JoeCensored]

@Asker excluding homosexuality the total amount of sex men and women have as groups is equal, the total amount of porn style sex is equal, and the total amount of vanilla sex is equal. When each act requires a member of both groups it is mathematically impossible for them to be unequal. If you're referring to an individual girl, that's different, but you're referring to girls as a group.

[Bandit74]

You're misinterpreteding the question. I'm not asking if girls are more likely than guys to want porn style sex. I'm asking if it's common for girls to be interested in porn sex with the guys they hookup with, but then not be interested in that type of sex once they are in a relationship.

[LittleSally]

It depends on the person, not whom they have sex with...

[tiredoftrying]

I have porn style sex regardless.

[Bandit74]

consistency! 😬

[tiredoftrying]

Yes. I don't see the point of having sex if it's not for pleasure.

[Homicidal_Queen]

I would. I am honestly into some really kinky stuff and although I am a virgin, when I am dating someone for a long time, if they take my virginity, I'd do A LOT of stuff with them the more we have sex.

[Strider90]

Congratulations you're in the Porn Matrix.

[JessTheMess]

I honestly have no opinion on this..

[Strider90]

Long live the porn matrix.

[CT_CD]

Usually true. They'll have porn star sex with some random guy they just met at a club but make a potential boyfriend wait.