Has face fucking become a "normal" thing these days?

[Anonymous]

I remember when face fucking was something that you only ever heard about in the most extreme porn videos. Actually the guy who was the first one to do it in his films, eventually went to prison because of his creepy and disturbing stuff. Now, it seems like face fucking is popular topic. What really shocks me is how many women now bring this up and say that they enjoy being face fucked and gagged by a guy. I could see how it might be an appealing trend to guys, but with girls I don't quite get why it has caught on with them so much. Seeing as there is nothing in it for them, and actually they really only get the raw end of the deal, pretty much just choking, painful deep throat and just trying not to vomit? It makes sense with guys, but I guess I'm trying to understand how this has caught on so much with girls. Is it for bragging rights? Desperation? I know that there are still many who are very much opposed, but now it is not difficult to find a girl who will say that she likes to do it. I notice on here, it's quite common. In a different question with a poll, 27 girls voted no, 5 votes yes, 16 voted yes even if it makes them gag, and 3 voted yes even if it makes them puke. So 24 in favor, and apparently 16 of which have no preference to NOT gag?

[Maik567]

Come on its not that hard to figure out. I think there are two main reasons why some girls like it.

1. Because they enjoy pleasuring their partners, and deepthroating/letting him fuck your face is something that really shows how much you want to give him pleasure.

2. Being dominated, some girls are really into that and want to be treated basically like his fucktoy sometimes. And grabbing her head and fucking her throat is exactly that.

That being said, I still think its a pretty small minority who really enjoy doing it.

[Asker]

Sounds like an overcompensation on either account. Really, throat fucking? When did that become a requisite for anything? This was considered an extreme of porn theatrics, but now it's the goalpost for sexual gratitude, or sexual domination?

[Maik567]

Is it extreme? Yes. Does that make it "overcompensation"? Not at all. Like I said, its still a pretty small minority and by no means is it a requisite or something you can expect from everyone. Anyway those are the main reasons I think people enjoy it, I dont really understand why you seem to have a problem with this. If you dont like it then dont do it, simple as that. No need to judge others for their sexual preferences.

[Asker]

Not really judging, just trying to determine weather it's a more preference, or like I said, more of a goalpost of the standards in these relationships, i. e, "a good submissive girl lets her man throat fuck her, this is something dominant men want" or, "if you really love to please him a face fucking will really show him". Rather than women coming to the conclusion that yeah, face fucking feels great, and it's so much fun that they just want to do it. Not to prove something, or meet a standard. Especially considering that domination isn't synonymous with abusive, only as of late has there become a hyper-focus on extreme abuses in what defines and constitutes male dominance, where of course, one does not have to necessarily be abusive or violent in order to actually dominate.

[malealpha00]

i throat f**k every chick that i sleep with but i don't really think about what it's like for them since the whole point of it is to make me feel dominant and to make my d**k feel good

[lePoivre]

Well, me being the way I am, I don't get much from sex in the first place so it wouldn't be much different. I enjoy making my man feel good and will do many things to give him pleasure. I don't think I would be willing to go as far as gagging/ choking though.

[neilsmart]

its just hot !!! simple as. its hot allowing a sexy guy to dominate and it boosts their ego. chicks should strive to please their guy which makes her feel good so its win win

[TheBasil]

People just love to try out everything they see in porn...

[SnowPrincess13]

I'm submissive to my husband and love giving him complete control over me. I love the feeling in my throat after I've had his cock shoved down there. Having tears and spit running down my face is a huge turn on.

[Asker]

So it is a feeling of yourself being violated or defiled, that you like?

[ChemLover89]

how is any sexual act "violating" or "defiling'" if the recipient is enjoying it? SnowPrincess13 says she "loves" it, so... clearly there's no violation or defiling involved. What an ignorant question.

[Asker]

@ChemLover89 Not ignorant. Have you heard of masochism? That’s when people are turned on by their pain and humiliation. She describes a painful scenario and how she likes the signs of her own body’s distress. So yeah, sounds like masochism. Masochists like to feel violated and defiled.

[cksutherland]

people have always been face fucking. we just still have mainstream sexual norms and taboos that are often informed by archaic religious ideals. it is nuts how many of our sexual taboos are rooted in the catholic church's obsession with controlling other peoples sex lives... everything from anal sex, homosexuality, polyamory, they're rooted in religious sexual oppression.

yes, lots of women and men love face fucking. nothing strange or new about it. some people will put up with it because they want to please their man. others really get off on it because of the dom/sub dynamics and having a guy dominate them really turns them on.

[Asker]

This question is pretty old now, I'm surprised it's still getting answers. But like I mentioned, I've been around long enough to remember when this topic wasn't really a thing, and the notion of "face fucking" a woman might get your nuts crushed. Back in the day, a blowjob was only about letting her do her own thing, not forcing it. I wouldn't exactly fault the Catholic Church for insisting on that method, if they did. Only when they started to show "face fucking" all the time in porn, did people start to talk about it, and now many seem to talk a big game like you need to be into all this hardcore BDSM stuff or be considered sexually dull and vanilla. It's hard to tell these days who truly enjoys what when it comes to sex, because I'm sure everyone is measuring their own performance against what is "hot" in porn videos. In some ways, I feel kinda bad for this generation of women and all of the BS that porn subscribes them to.

[COCOCHANEL]

that and face-sitting have been normal here for at least 15 years

[esotericstory]

No lol I dont think so at least.

[Anonymous]

Regularly facefucking is good. All last three girlfriends allowed me

[Anonymous]

I am unsure of its prevalence nowadays (for good reason. Sex is deeply personal for most couples), but I personally LOVE face fucking.

I for some reason have complete control over my gag reflex (so I guess it's not a "reflex" in this case). When my boyfriend first tried deepthroating me, I was a bit afraid since he has a huge penis. After about a month of on and off practice, he was able to get deeper and deeper down my throat. His favorite practice position was when my head was off the bed upside down and he was ramming himself into my mouth.

Well, months and months later of rigorous sex together, *my* absolute favorite thing for him to do to me is fuck my face. It turns me on so much since I don't gag, ever -- I love feeling his big cock going in and out of my mouth and sliding against the back of my throat. It's soft, it's warm, it's RAUNCHY. It's beyond intimate. It makes me feel dominated, extremely desired, and like we're doing something really really naughty and that not many people will ever be able to do. I love feeling him pleasure himself freely in my mouth and down my throat. I love feeling his cock up with my tongue and hearing his responses. Hearing his out-of-control moans and grunts, watching his abs tighten and him throw his head back while he's having immeasurable pleasure is seriously the biggest turn on ever for me.

For those of you who don't get it and can't imagine even understanding it, it's probably because you have a very strong gag reflex and have tried it or have had someone try it on you, only to have the experience followed by some awkward struggles. For those who have had good experiences and also don't have a strong gag reflex, deepthroat fucking is one of the hottest things that you can receive and give. It's a rare thing to be able to be able to do and get done, and I like it that way.

There's no desperation tied to the act. Yes, I want to please the man I love beyond comprehension. But the reason I love it is not only because my man absolutely goes nuts just thinking about throatfucking me, but because it turns ME on. Him ramming his cock into my throat repeatedly, forcefully, to the point where I'm moaning and so turned on that I can't help but pleasure myself while he's doing it feels good to ME, myself, and I. It's a win win all around. So, if you don't get it, I strongly suggest not trying to hypothesize or throw your own irrelevant experiences into the mix -- you can't begin to understand the intimacy behind this rare feat if you don't have the right physical "features."

[facef]

you're gold