Honestly do girls have just as high sex drives as men?

I think in trying to be politically correct we are trying to say women and me have the exact same sex drives but this doesn't seem true. Infact it seems men and women have a completly different philosphy as it relates to sex and relationships. When I see a women i think about her body. Its not like thats all i care about and it couldnt be further from the truth but its the first thing i realize. In talking to girls they seem to care much about physicle attractiveness but things internally like confidence attitude or something like that. I think about and crave sex almost constantly throughout the day. I dont believe in always acting on my urges if i did i would go isane. If girls and guys had the same sex drive though given my sex drive is similar to other guys we would be having sex non stop and pretty much do nothing else. Women dont seem to really crave sex in that way with girls I've talked to they say they dont really think about sex but more so emotional attachment. I love the idea of love and emotions but i dont crave it 24 hours a day i want it sometimes though. I think in the same way women dont crave sex it would be nice to have it but they really crave attatchment. So Im not sure whats going on with women but i dont think we want sex equally male testerone forces males to want to have sex and women have way less testosterone. Men have to have tons of sexual self control to function. I dont condone male sluts i think its wrong to sleep with a lot of people you aren't truly attached too but girls that sleep around saying they need sex as much as men is bs. Women do y'all want sex all the time 24 hours a day like me or am i right about the emotional attatchment?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • On average, no.

    The top 1/4 of women have sex drives well above the average man though, so it's not unusual for women to have a higher drive than a man. And I'd say the higher drive women often want sex even more often than high drive men.

    More men than women want sex every day.

    More women than men want sex three times a day (indefinitely, not just for a special weekend).

    My advice if i were living life over again?

    No matter how sweet and pretty and nice and how well you get along with a girl, if her sex drive is significantly lower than yours? Forget her and move on. Plenty of girls will match your drive, find one of them.

    • hey remember that women dont have semen so with me its not really wanting sex but the discumfort and anxiousness i get from tons of buildup of semen so maybe thats what is the difference

    • I think that the fact that men build up semen - which has an expiry date - 'normalizes' Mens sex drives. Not very many men want it less than weekly and not many men want it more than twice a day - though both exist. There's nothing requiring women to 'release' but there's also nothing stopping a woman from having 20 orgasms over hours a day of sexual activity. Show me someone who wants sex a couple times a month, 3/4 chance it's a woman. Show me someone who would like sex 5 times a day, 3/4 it's a woman.

  • Men are like microwaves, and women are like ovens: you can turn us on quickly and more often, but women get hotter when you preheat the oven.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My sex drive varies depending on where I am in my cycle. Some days it's literally all I can think about, and other days, sex is appealing but not a huge need.

    I've never cared that much for physical attractiveness. I want a nice face and a healthy body in a partner, but I don't look at every attractive guy in terms of sex. I want a lot of sex with my partner, but not with a lot of men.

  • Umm, I don't want to have sex with every guy but women like sex. After all we have a biological programming to get pregnant wether we do or not doesn't take away from the biological primal need. And yea, we talk and think about sex all the time.

    • so you crave sex during much of the day and will do the things many men do to have sex to satisfy the painful desire you have to satisfy men (not really me) spend thousands of dollars get stupid cars clothes houses that most of them don't want for women they waste there time at clubs for only a small chance for sex so could we analyze the difference through action it seems men do a lot more for sex than women

    • Lol, no. Women's sexuality is different. We think about sex, want it. We can find many men physically attractive but the numbers of men we find sexually attractive without knowing them is small. Either way we think about it, after all many women have toys.

    • ok i see your point I'm sure guys think girls are sexually attractive all the time without knowing them that doesn't mean they want sex as much as guys do though. Im not saying girls don't want sex I'm just saying the male sex drive is much higher

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  • Women are just as horny from my experience.

  • I think they do, it may be a different kind of drive but it just as high. like you said they go for emotions as well but that doesn't mean they have a lower drive

  • Yeah.

  • It might be the same, depending on the person.

  • I'm a Guy and I don't think about sex all the time.

    • your 15 bro its coming

    • Then I would rather stay 15 rather than becoming a sex-obsessed monkey.

    • me tto id ont wnat to be a sex crazed monkey its just the testosterone

  • I need sec at least 2-3 times a day tbh

  • Yess

  • Definitely.

  • Once they find a guy who does it for them they have at least as high a sex drive.

    • if thats the case how can girls say they are not sluts for sleeping with a lot of guys

  • Women have no idea how high a man's sex drive is. It's not even close. It's not politically correct, but it's true.