My girlfriend and me are virgins and want to have sex need advice and help?

Ok my girlfriend and me are going to lose our virginity to each other in 3 months I'm really nervous and need help. and advice from both males and females mainly I ask from guys give me details of how it's going to feel and from females everything else how it's going to feel for her and what you have expected we both are going to use lube and we both decided what position we are going to do we are going to do cowgirl her on top me on bottom and we both are going to Forplay first but when it's time to do it I need advise thank u so much.
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  • Make sure she's comfortable, relaxed, and really turned on (emotionally and physically), don't have any goals for your first time other than to have fun and spend quality time together exploring. I imagine that first time for two virgins is a little clumsy and awkward since neither one can really lead the way, but again... just have fun and laugh at the awkward moments, don't expect anything from each other as far as performance, and be flexible enough to try other positions, don't plan it out too much, ya know? It sounds like you've got a step by step strategy planned out... I vote you toss that plan in the garbage, and when the time is right and you're both ready, make out, strip down, and explore each other!

    Some tips to remember though... Be nice and clean, both of you... Pay close attention to the areas that will be the center of attention.
    Have condomS ready and practice putting it on before the moment of truth comes. (and put it on the right way... have extras in case you need them)
    You'll probably have no problem getting hard, but you will want your girl friend to be super relaxed and turned on so her vaginal muscles aren't tense and her natural lube will be flowing.
    Girls are different than guys, the emotional / mental aspect of sex is just as (or maybe more?) important as the physical, so get her mentally and emotionally turned on...
    Oral sex (from you to her) is always good, and would be a good way to get acquainted with your new best friend ;-) Kiss, gently tease, and lick all around that area, the clitoris (from a sensitivity standpoint similar to the head of your penis) is right up top, the little knob that's tucked away behind some protective skin... It's very sensitive so be gentle, but use your tongue in that area for sure. A light touch is very good there, almost like you're trying to tickle her rather than pushing down hard. But the pressure can build up as you go...

    Have fun dude, it's the start of a fun adventure for both of you, you'll learn a lot as you go, and communicate with each other! So important! Let her know what you like, what feels good for you, and listen to what she says feels good to her and what she likes!

    Good luck!

    Oh, and... *High Five* ;-)

    • Thanks helps a lot can't thank u enough

    • Hey no problem! Have fun, be safe, and don't worry about any of it. This will be the first of MANY times you get to have sex. Consider this one just a shake down run to get familiar with territory, by the time you get to time #5, 6, 7 and beyond (which will probably be what, 3 or 4 days after your first time? hehe) you'll both feel a lot more comfortable and be able to concentrate more on the fancy positions and experimenting with different aspects of it. Also, keep in mind that reproducing is probably one of the top activities that we're all HARD WIRED for. Humans have been doing it since the beginning of time, you didn't need to stress out about how to learn to breathe or swallow or control your movement, once you're ready to make it happen your instincts will take over and it will kind of happen on it's own...

    • Ok this is the best advice anyone has given me helps so much thanks bro

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  • Well first of all, congrats to the both of you! You're going to love it! The more and more you do it, the better it gets as well so don't worry if the first tome didn't go as well as you would have liked. I suggest you look at videos about sex positions, giving cunnilingus, and how to foreplay. There's A LOT of valuable info online if you just do some research. My suggestions are, don't plan the sex, just do what feels right at the moment and let passion take over. Foreplaying is really important for the both of you, but more so for the woman. It takes longer for women to get turned on and also takes longer for them to cool off. Make sure you're nice and clean, everything is trimmed (including your nails). Ultrathin condoms are the best feeling ones. If you jerk off a lot you might have a difficult time cumming. If you get off really fast I suggest you get thicker condoms, such as ribbed ones. Also candle light sex is amazing and sets the mood really well (scented for bonus points).

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  • Why don't you Google it and watch porn.

    • Porn is fake bs I'm actually making love with her of passionate sex

    • There is all kinds of porn, including homemade amateur porn that'll look exactly like what you're gonna be doing with her. Seriously man, open your eyes.

  • I dn think U'll listen to my advice but I think u shouldn't do it, just think about it, 99% of humans now lost their virginity, what u can call the other 1%, I would like callin them special!
    & if u r wondering from who this shity advice is comin from? I'm not Gay, I'm not A hardline religious, I'm just a person who lost his verginity at a very young age, & I feel regret! Look I'm younger than u haha
    Yes I agree it feel so gud but for some reason I wish I saved it 4 later!