Since I am in the military and hit the gym and boxing everyday... I am really too strong for my Girl...
She always wants me to pin her down and make her feel helpless during sex...
Though I love her and don't like to go too rough on her , I do let her enjoy this fantasy while we climax... I can easily make out how happy she is pin her down...
She , almost everyday asks me to wrestle her for fun and saying that she's been lifting this week and she is stronger now... I know very well that she just wants to be pinned down by me...
Now coming to your question, in my case, having a sub partner, whatever you do to them while they are pinned down makes them happy , excited and aroused...
Now, I am not sure if your guys and getting sexual here... but in my case... I would dirty talk to her , kiss her passionately.. all the way from forehead to her lips, ears and neck (She loves the neck part!) and sometimes pin her arms on either side of her belly and tickle/kiss her belly and belly button and also her... you know...
I tell her things which help her imagine and get more excited... like , it sounds crazy, but we play dramas... for example , I would tell her that I am an evil knight who just kidnapped her and now having my way with her... Or something like that..!
Finally , when we are having sex, we try all the various positions... but in the end we have missionary with me pinning her arms above either side of her head and pound her till we reach climax... she later wraps her hand around my neck and tells me that she can't thank me enough for giving her the best time of her life!!! I just love her you know..
So now.. I hope you got some ideas... basic thing is that they love the feeling of being helpless when you do what you want with them...
SO I would suggest you can tease him with words like " I am stronger than you" or " I defeated you or something like that" and observe their expression to make out whether they enjoy it or not ( mostly they do)
You can held him pinned and kiss where you want and also maybe ride him..( Again, I don't know whether it's sexual or not in your case)
Thank you
Tie him up and then have your way with him. Tickle torture him a little. Touch him everywhere BUT his junk to make him crave it more.
Yea, well, I like to do such things if he's into it. It's fun for me, too. However, would be nice to get as much out of that as he does. Feels wrong to be the "dominant" one and to still have all the work to do lol
That's literally what it means to be dominant. Guys do it most of the time very close to doing it every time and we don't seem to have too much trouble dealing with it.
It's not that I cannot deal with it our what I would not begrudge my boyfriend that. But if I do what guys do "most of the time very close to doing it every time" in bed, maybe I can be the cliched guy outside bed, too, and expect my boyfriend to be a little submissive to me 24/7 ;)
I've never playfully pinned him down before sex for longer than just holding his arms down for 10 seconds tops.
What I have managed to do that was a lot of fun and letting him have a lot less control was not pinning him down, but teasing during oral. Sort of like 'just the tip', only that I'd just pay attention to the shaft, occasionally balls for 10+ minutes. Until he started face-fucking me almost involuntarily and... yeah. You know how the rest goes. :P
Sounds interesting. I'm not too much into giving oral, though :(
lol yeah was a nice role reversal because normally he teases me so he didn't see that one coming! You can try the same sort of thing but with sex like if you're on top, only take just the tip for as long as you can. Till he basically forces you down on it in whole or something.
Sounds like something worth trying. Thank you.
We actually play fight a lot and I end up pinning him quite a few times, believe it or not. Anyways, the longest I kept him pinned was for 15 minutes or so. He tapped out within the first minute but I felt like teasing him a bit so I kept his arms pinned down with my legs and started taunting him and even tickling him. Boy, was he mad after but it was all in good fun :D
That sounds great. I’ve been pinned like that for 20 mins. Is 15 mins your record?
I've piI was holding my boyfriend pinned before, during and after sex, about 3 hours (with several short interruptions for cuddling) ;)
Wow, sounds intense. Wanny try that, too, lol. How's it like? 3 hours... does that kind of affect his behavior towards you? If I imagine to keep my boyfriend "prisoner" for so long, just some "cuddling breaks" that don't set him actually free either, I think he'd be crawling on all fours after that lol
Yeah, he is very submissive ;)
Mine is, too. But gotta see what happens after 3 hours. Especially the "after sex" thing is something I did not try, yet. Have always released him right after sex. Should try keeping him at my mercy until he's horny again and does not even want to be released ;)
i have been pinned down by guy friends... 😒 cause i'm weak
Happened to me, too ;) But some guys prefer it the other way around...
i've pinned down a guy friend of mine... he even showed me how to grasp his hands lol
Lol, yea, that's what I was talking about. Losing seems to be fun sometimes ;)
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With 15 I hadn't one, too. Sometimes it's fine, sometimes it sucked. Hope you're on the bright side.
I like it when a girl tries to pin me down!
I once had a girl pin me down, in front of her friends, for about maybe 2 hours
Neither of us is into that, so zero minutes.
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