Girls, my girlfriend wants to have a threesome with her EX-FWB. Good or bad idea?

My girl and I recently decided to have a threesome with a guy. We have done it with a girl in the past and she wants to try with a guy this time. Fair is fair. We got lucky finding the girl though and we are not that keen on meeting random people online for sex. We also cannot see doing this with any of our friends. So.. she mentioned the possibility of her EX-FWB! She bumped into him recently and he still is still unattached. She wants this to include guy-guy stuff too and she can vouch that he'd be safe, discrete, good in bed and no drama. However since the guy considers himself straight, it would basically be me giving oral and receiving. She'd be having sex with him too of course. I know she has no romantic feelings for him at all. She is excited about this though. He was someone who gave her reliable, amazing sex when she was single and in grad school and didn't have time to be in a relationship. She doesn't have any regrets about it and she's thrilled to be able to share him with me now that we are looking to find a guy. She also is excited because I guess he's been working out and looks better than before. So it will kind of be familar in a safe way for her but also a new experience. I can't seem to find any reason to say no. I'd rather it be with someone she trusts than someone off the internet or from a bar. Its just that it's her EX friends with benefits.. Anyway, just seeking opinions.. good idea? Bad idea?
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  • I would say bad idea... only bc htye have history so it would b like YOU joining them, not the other way around...

  • If she trusts him and you truly believe she has no feelings for him and vice/versa then go for it!

    • She does. Thanks for your opinion!

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  • It's called getting flipped.

    • I'm not sure what that means

    • does it mean she is making me do something I don't want to? That's not the case. I asked for the first threesome and she agreed. She asked for this one and it sorta happened that her ex friends with benefits is the best option for us.

    • Getting flipped (aka getting the train ran on her.) is with two guys. Threesome is with two girls & a guy. She might keep fucking him if he has gotten finer or if he is better or if he has a bigger thang.

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