How to ride the dick?

I can never seem to get into a good motion/rhythm on top, I get tired pretty quickly/my body gets sore, it never feels that good unless the guy thrusts upward as well and I in general feel unconfident and almost clueless. How do you ride the dick really well? How far apart are your knees from his body and what kinda motion feels the best for guys? How do you move from just your hips? Any tips/advice would be appreciated!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

  • Two tips ask a friend/ stripper that would be good. Watch porn and see how they do it, I even seen an article the other night where you can get sex lessons and learn all these moves and shit for oral, anal, and all the different positions. I'm sure the guy is happy either way when your riding him

Most Helpful Girls

  • When I'm on top, I straddle my boyfriend, so knees on either side of his body and get him in sometimes without even having to use my hands.
    What kind of motion usually feels best for him? There isn't really one he doesn't like but he seems to enjoy when I do a more up-down movement, keeping him in by just the outer half of his dick. Just going back and forth with that, to give maximum stimulation to the head versus shaft. When I do that, I control the movement more using my thighs/upper legs, getting some leverage with my arms on his chest/shoulders.

    That's just something I eventually found after a few months of grinding, moving my hips back and forth, that he likes best. A tip I have for you to ride your man best is to just take it day by day. Experiment with what angles work best for you, gauge his reactions to different movements and stuff and figure out which ones work best for both of you. It's a learning experience more than some sort of set rule.

    • Nailed it.

    • @scottishgentleman ... no pun intended! haha but thanks. :P

    • Haha! I didn't even meant it like that!!! Oh the shame! :)

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  • After a while you should get better at it. Also switch position during sex. It is always good to do differint things.

  • The most important thing to ride top is to have your orgasm first. Have him lick you to orgasm then ride them

    • general rule for anytime you have sex. give or let her have her orgasm first

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  • Sounds a lot like my wife. My fav is up and down with her leaning close into me.

  • I watch porn and I try to copy what I see, I can ride like Abella Anderson

  • Use a chair with out arm rests.

  • Honestly when I'm on top, I just think of what feels best for Me. Move your hips, make a circle, or an eight. It sounds selfish but you're also pleasuring him at the same time.
    And look up twerk videos :p you can do that

  • Also, at least for me, if I get a nice slow motion going and it's feeling really good she can ruin it by pushing against me really fast because she is not giving me a chance to feel it she just wants it over in a hurry.

  • You own a horse called Richard?

  • I wish I could follow this. Damn you, gag!