Does it REALLY feel good to get fingered? Or are girls lying to make their boyfriends to make them feel better?

Not on your clit but when a guy put his finger (s) in your vagina. If a guy put one finger in my vagina I dont feel shit but discomfort. (TRYING) to put 2 fingers in there, that crap HURT (like BAD) and it didn't feel good AT ALL. If it doesn't feel good with one fonger why would it feel good with 2?:/ The ONLY time it felt good to get fingered (without my clit getting touched) was when this one guy did the "come here" motion in my vagina (After doing reseach (because the guy wouldn't tell me how he did that) I found it he was touching my g-spot). That was... unbelievably awesome and felt sooo a million times good (that was my FIRST time moaning out loud btw). Anyways my point in saying all that was to prove how a guy sticking his finger in and out doesn't feel good (for me) and I am curious if it feels good/better/differnt/ same for other girls
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  • Depends how aroused she is. If not very, it's not very good and clit will be way better. More aroused, vaginal penetration can feel better.

    I'm guessing you're a virgin.

    Part of it is a matter of satisfaction. Most girls are not satisfied by fingers the way they are with a penis. But I might say that clit is more pleasureable, but there is a satisfaction in feeling filled up and being able to clamp down on something while cumming.

    And then of course there's the g-spot thing, though again, you need to be quite aroused for the g-spot tissue to be engorged to the point that the stimulation there is noticeable.

    • The one guy that touched my g-spot my first year in college made me discover it (best feeling ever) How can a girl be satisfied with a penis than a finger. A penis hurts more than a finger

    • Generally speaking, penises don't, in most situations, hurt women. They feel good. ANd most women who are used to having sex, actually enjoy orgasming DURING sex the most. Vaginas are made to be compatible with penises. They are about the 'right' size for women, once they have gotten used to them.

    • Hm I guess but it'll take a while to get use to so using simpler stuff (dildo, finger, tongue) seems to work better (with a vagina) that hurts like hell because of a penis

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  • Yeah... its all about rubbing that inner frontal wall...
    and I make sure my hands are clean and fingernails cut!!

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  • Lol I like being fingered a lot even if the guy doesn't do the come hither motion. The come hither motion makes me cum for sure but just fingering makes me very wet so I like a mixture of the two. But it is something I like a lot, even more than oral but it could be because the two guys I have been with one didn't like giving oral sex and the other wasn't good at it. So they made it known they would prefer or could make me cum with their hands and they did ;)
    But weirdly enough I cannot finger myself at all, not like they would do it. :(

  • I've actually never been fingered but i used to hate putting my fingers inside myself until i started doing that. now i like it but i like putting a dildo in there better and rubbing my g spot with that. the first time i moaned out loud was like that i think. but i feel like getting fingered by someone else will feel even better than that!!

  • Not pleasing usually. Rather be play with my clit. Fingers just don't fit right, and a lot of times it actually just hurts. I just stop responding and wait the couple of seconds for him to realize I'm not into it. Not faking it for something that hurts.

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  • If my husband was to just stick a finger inside without starting me up first it hurts like hell. What he does is he will start play with my pussy tracing his fingers all over it then he will tease my pussy hole until I'm begging him to stick it in, then he massages the inside of my pussy softly. Allowing it to build up then he massages my g spot which drives me over the edge!

    Pussy is like an old car you have to warm the engine up before hand!

  • You need Lube. Also he is not doing it right. Show him how you do it. Move your fingers in the way you do when masterbating. The G spot is in the mid front of the vagina. So just going in and out does not usually do anything.

    • I get super wet when I'm horny. I honestly don't know how the fingering thing goes unless the person is rubbing my clit (which is direct and easy)

  • It's not my favorite thing honestly. Probably my least favorite.

    Men often use too much force and don't wash their hands prior. Not washing hands before makes the delicate female flower burn with discomfort. And thrusting is unnecessary and painful no matter how the women in porn videos make it seem otherwise.

    Be gentle. Go slow. And wash your hands before and after.

    The "come here" motion is awesome.

  • Well there's no point in doing it, if he's not directly stimulating your g-spot. Just shoving a finger in and out does nothing, but cause discomfort.

  • I think it feels really good when they finger me but in my vagina it hurts a little.

  • Not every girl likes it and who likes, not all the time. Sometimes clit tease is enough. Sometimes they want fingering. Simply mood has to be there.

  • You said yourself that it felt good with that one guy, the thing is most guys just don't have a clue what they're doing.

    • You're totally right but I was asking them specially about when a guy just slides his finger (s) in and out

    • Oh right, I guess some might like that.

    • Yes and I wondering why and how does it feels

  • If you know what your doing... don't be too rough and cut your nails

  • It feels pretty good unless his fingers are rough. At times I prefer to get finger fucked by my boyfriend just because I lile it so much.