It's pure reflexes, he is literally going against his instincts.
i would never be able to keep a stable relationship being so sexually oppressed. he is doing incredibly if you ask me. you are setting the standard no guy would be able to do it. at least hetero men.0 0 0 0Not sure... but maybe say 'A.. a' like saying 'No' just replaced with that, then it won't feel like you're teased.. and will be able to control him?
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0 2My girlfriend and I had a very similar situation. She did not want any sort of sex until marriage, and marriage wasn't possible until I finished college (actually, graduate school). But she understood very well what was happening with me. When we kissed and cuddled, especially if she was wearing short shorts, she could see the effect through my pants, even though I tried to hide it. One day she asked me outright, "Do you need to do something about that. It looks uncomfortable." I wasn't sure what she meant at first, and I asked her if she meant for me to take matters in my own hand. She smiled and said, "Why not? I would rather you do it here than to drive home miserable, or to stop along the way and have another girl do it for you." She dimmed the lights, turned on the TV and told me to get comfortable. It didn't take me long to finish. We spent many evenings like this, and we eventually got married. Life couldn't be better.
0 0 0 0Maybe do something to relieve the pressure in his balls?
0 0 0 0I'm not doing anything like that. No hand or blow jobs. That's no better than sex.
Well, to be fair, sex is better than both of those things. But if you're going to turn the guy on, then you can help his discomfort by relieving his tension. Or you could suggest that he just relieve it himself.
I didn't mean it's not better. I meant, it's still compromising standards just as sex would be What I want to know is how to not get him too excited cause I know it's unfair. To tell him to relieve himself would embarrass him greatly, but it's worth a tactical suggestion.
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