Why don't girls admit it they want a big penis so it can hit all the spots?

[Anonymous]

As a guy I can honestly admit I like a muscular ass and nicely shapen one on a girl with a genorous boob size. A huge cock would be able to reach this area called the A spot: Girls should do the same without having the stigma of being labeled a size queen rightThe A-Spot, AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the ‘female degenerated prostate.’ (In other words, it is the female equivalent of the male prostate, just as the clitoris is the female equivalent of the male penis.) Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity.

[mishiii]

This is yet another overhyped sexual piece of garbage. First of all the existence of the a spot is quite controversial. In fact it is taken from one paper published in proximally 1997 that is still controversial as to whether it is real or not. Everything else written about the A Spot. Is based on that one article. So no one has been able to reproduce the findings or the location or the mere existence. Next, the vagina canal is approximately 7 inches long it doesn't get much deeper. Radiographic studies of sexual intercourse have proven or shown at least that a penis longer than necessary does not hit the A Spot, but rather bangs right against the cervix. Pushing on the cervix pushes on the entire uterus which stretches the round ligaments holding up your uterus. And you know what that causes? Pain with a P! So in actuality along penis is uncomfortable not pleasurable. Ask girls who have had a guy with a bigger penis and it's painful. And don't tell me the guy just has to learn how to use it. That's a crock of shit unto itself.

[Asker]

the number of women that respond positive to having experienced orgasms from penile friction in the fornix "A-spot" is significant so there's no way it can be discarded, and who says you need to go balls deep and bust your nuts sex is partly about finding what works best. Now Madame IK you are angry because a guy "dared" to suggest what women want and don`t voice Im acting like a mouth piece and you finding it patroniszing and going on an assault.

[mishiii]

You represent the crock of shit that causes women to question their own sexuality and ability. I Am Telling You That the a Spot is deep within a girls vagina 2-D to be stimulated except by a longer penis which risks banging against the cervix. You know nothing about and female anatomy, you are quoting bullshit in order to sound like you know something. Don't listen to this guy he is a crock

[Asker]

Sorry if you are insensate down there

[mishiii]

You infuriate me because you attempt to sound like you know something. Guys like you are intimidating bullshit artists. Cody a corner and masturbate

[Asker]

I will never now for certain since I'm a man I can only go with what others claim! You sound like a feminist to me am I right?

[mishiii]

I am certainly not a feminist in the sense that you believe it feminists hate men. I love sex I enjoy having multiple orgasms I enjoy knowing my anatomy. I love having my clit licked and that is the seat of orgasm and stimulation. Just as you said it is the embryologic equivalent of the penis. Ask any guy if he likes his cock sucked. If a man wants to know what to do with a woman, learn to lick a her clitoris until she reaches orgasm and then fuck her. Stop at this a spot G spot C spot M spot is a lot a shit. By the way the G spot is located at the top of the vagina above the bone you feel when you first enter. That is the embryologic equivalent of a man's prostate.

[playdatesx]

I do know what spots you're talking about but did you ever think some girls can't handle that much? Some girls actually don't like a huge cock.

Let me tell you my personal tale. My boyfriend is 8" x 6" and he has reached my fornix (the closer one, not the other one) before. Yes, it's amazing with I have sex with him because it took a fuckload of time to adjust ourselves and learn how to become sexually compatible. You imagine sex is just by default amazing with a big cock? No. It took a bit of time for my boyfriend and I to adjust to this, because mind you, before him, I hadn't experienced anything over 6"x 4". He was my first "large size".

Lots of ripping in the vaginal walls (not the hymen), blood, rips and tears, burning and stinging for me. Sex wasn't fucking easy. I'm tiny, he's huge, we fucking love each other to death, and we're very sex-positive, but jesus christ sometimes I'm terrified of that thing.

[jaydays]

so maybe average 5.5 inches won't be big enough anymore after that

[thisdudejimmy]

@jaydays why would it matter since you already found the man she needs just get bigger lol

[thisdudejimmy]

She*

[Anonymous]

I agree with @RedThread! The guys on this site need to stop obsessing about the size of their dicks. I have smaller than average tits but I don't obsess about the fact that maybe 50% of guys prefer bigger tits, because guys vary in their tastes and I've never had trouble finding men who find smaller tits attractive. The guys on this site really need to chill out.

Also, a big dick is zero guarantee to an orgasm, or good sex, as most women need clit stimulation for that to happen.

I once slept with a guy who wasn't excessively well endowed, but was the best at oral that I'd ever had in my life. You can bet I'd rather sleep with that guy again than a guy with a big dick who had zero interest in getting me off!

[Asker]

Fair enough

[RedThread]

Thanks for the shout out :)

[Barnone]

Did you ever consider a woman may love and be sexually attracted to male for other reasons than just his penis size? Sex does not make a relationship perfect, there are other aspects to a good healthy relationship. Chemistry is not just a guy with a big penis. If that were true women really don't need men, they could just insert something anatomically fitted to her preference.

[Asker]

ik that I meant for sex not relationship wise

[Barnone]

Casual sex is not my cup of tea so I can't answer then.

[Asker]

if you could choose between a bigger than average cock for your man and a normal one which you prefer?

[Barnone]

I can't choose so I don't see a point in pretending to have a choice. If he has all the great qualities I find attractive then the size of his penis is irrelevant to me.

[Touglyforfemales]

She means the guy has to be rich and good looking also.

[Barnone]

@Touglyforfemale Considering your screen name I can see why you would write something so stupid.

[Asker]

That last comment made me laugh ouch

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lmao! I love this answer!

[cavmanier]

I want to point this out for you. You said:

"when not aroused its 4 inches actually but it can expand 200x when aroused other wise every time you have intercourse the penis would hit the cervix simple logic dude"

There was a study done on not aroused vaginal length. The average is not 4 inches. According to the study I saw it's closer to half of that. The median is 62.7 mm or 2.4 inches from the vaginal opening to the cervix which is the end. The longest vagina in the study isn't even 4 inches. It's 3.7 inches. The smallest vagina length in the study is 1.6 inches. The study is based on MRI images.

So women can vary just like men. They are not rubber holes that can stretch to any size like many people on here have said. Some can fit a long penis but most can't.

humrep.oxfordjournals.org/content/21/6/1618.full

[Crazyced]

Did they remeasure the aroused length for those women? Or else it's like flacid penis, not very relevant.

[Asker]

it did not mention aroused length and I disagree with you simply by logic if the length was 4 inches average than child delivery would be a heck easier no need for complex obstetric procedures and by your anecdote i think you probably didn`t arouse the girls enough no offence

[cavmanier]

@Crazyced The poster proclaimed vaginas are 4 inches and expand to 200x (I think he meant 2x) when aroused. So he's saying vaginas can fit an 8 inch penis. Maybe he was generalizing. No I have never seen a study that measured the length when aroused (don't think that exists) but there was one that may suggest an idea. There was a study done where an MRI was taking during sex. I'm not sure where the details are but I remember reading that contact with the cervix was routine and pretty much always happened with the couples recorded.

scienceblogs.com/.../...a03e603-coitus_mri_key.jpg

I don't know all the answers but I do know some women cannot even take 5 inches. By take I mean insert all the way. Every girl can fit an 8" tip inside.

Asker length won't affect child birth directly. A shorter vagina would actually be easier for the baby to travel pass if width is constant.

We'll never know if people I've had sex with were aroused. I wasn't necessarily talking about me. I based saying girls aren't all the same size on many variables.

[cavmanier]

I wasn't trying to be antagonistic either. I was trying to help you. I'm okay with you not listening to me if that's what you want.

[cavmanier]

Oh but my point @Crazyced is that women are different sizes down there, just like us. They aren't rubber than can be stretched to any penis size. There's a modest limit for most women.

[Asker]

I appreciate your input even though I disagree with you from lack of evidence

[cavmanier]

What part do you disagree with?

[Crazyced]

But the only way to gather that limit is to measure the aroused length. I can see why it would be very had to study that. Not much logistically harder then measuring an aroused penis. I don't think an MRI is necessary needed either. But I'm not a scientist. I also don't think it's that rare for women to be able to take 7-8 inches if properly aroused. But then again, I didn't do a study on it.

[Crazyced]

*can't see

[cavmanier]

@Crazyced I was mainly pointing out that girls range in size like guys. If that's the case they have a limit (depth especially) just like how guys vary. It would be interesting to see their aroused size researched. Yeah I'm not sure about the common sizes. A lot of porn stars seem to be able to fit around 7 to 8 but not always. I've seen porn stars only fit about 6 or so. My guess is they don't really represent average women. I bet they tend to be bigger down there lol. I mean I bet small women wouldn't be as likely to want to have sex with big guys.

[Poppykate]

Of course women have a limit to the depth they can handle. (it is common sense really!) I find it hard to believe that no one has complete a study on aroused vaginal lengths. ( I guess the study of it wouldn't lead to any significant findings.) Anyway, I enjoyed your intellect discussion, most enlightening. By the way, you are seriously good looking! 😉😘

[cavmanier]

@Poppykate A lot of people on here don't understand that. I've heard that "any women can fit any penis since they can have babies." Babies are only partially in the vagina at one time though lol. I know I would love to see more vagina studies 0_0! Seriously lol. I know some of this stuff because I looked it up when younger out of curiosity. I once had a similar curiosity like the asker. I bet there is a lot we can still learn about vaginas though! I'm glad you enjoyed our conversation. I enjoyed trying to help him. And thank you for the kind compliment :)

[Poppykate]

I think the reason is due to watching to much porn!. ( unrealistic expectations expressed in another study the I read in the course of my psychological studies which is quite shocking). You took down the eye candy! Shame! thats ok about the compliment, you earned it!

[Attractive_Guy]

Girls are too lazy to admit it because they don't want to talk about it.

[Asker]

I don't know about lazines exactly maybe shyness

[Attractive_Guy]

Why would they be shy about it exactly? Especially when out and out they say the direct opposite versus avoiding the matter altogether?

[Barnone]

Too lazy? Or maybe it just isn't true for all women. I don't assume all men are pigs so please don't assume all women are so callous.

[Attractive_Guy]

@Barnone What exactly is callous about admitting to, or at least specifying the reality of, something? People are just so sensitive these days; anatomically speaking regardless of actual "size" of the object of insertion (making "big" relative / subjective / however you hipsters say it these days ) the... Oh no one is listening.

[Barnone]

Not being sensitive about it at all. But to assume I'm hiding some secret about preference in penis size is rude. I have never judged a man nor have I thought to myself I need a big penis to be sexually satisfied. The question asked, "why don't women admit", how should I admit to something I don't even consider when I'm involved with a man physically. And in my opinion it is callous to think women will only be satisfied with a large penis. Just my opinion.

[Attractive_Guy]

@Barnone But I am not talking about you, I'm talking about a general population, and I'm referring to the fact that over the course of the internet's life, since inception of the message board, this question has been asked time and time again. In all that time, over 30 years, no one has a general consensus on how this shit works. It is a generalization I am making not trying to assume you or any other individual is doing X, Y, or Z. Can't a man make a generalization without some kind of sensitive hussy* showing up these days? I guess not. :( *you're not a hussy

[Barnone]

Ok, I understand what you're saying. Maybe I should have worded my reply differently. I should have replied as 1 woman and not for all women. 👍🏻

[HannahDJA]

I prefer average over huge. I have a smaller vagina, so 4-5 inches actually hits everything perfectly without being painful or preventing me from getting off.

Also, I have a sensitive gag reflex. So anything bigger than 5 inches makes it hard for me to give blowjobs without making gross gag noises, haha.

[shadowlegend]

Because it's not the case for every woman. We're all different sizes and so we don't all want huge "things" in our vaginas.

[InquisitiveMale]

Because the majority of importance is placed on how we use it and the level of sexual anticipation/tension they can create before it's unsheathed- sex is first and foremost a mind game.

With that being said... adequate size certainly helps but it's not like we need to go very far- women are fairly petite on the inside. So long as you're of average stature, you've got all the physical tools you need for your trade.

[Ebbndflow]

honey I'd be the first to tell you, I LOVE big penises :) Avg is cool too but when you have a guy who's packing and knows how to hit walls like he's playing pinball and getting all-the-way to the bottom right out the gate, that's one that I most likely want to keep around. I am definitely not ashamed of the fact that I like em a substantial size. When I see him pull out that gold Trojan I say hallelujah deep inside my spirit cuz I know it's about to get real!!!

[Ebbndflow]

there are instances though where men with big ones don't necessarily have a lot of skill. But God bless them! Avg sized men still have my heart because how skillful and innovative they've been in bed. But I'll work with a guy with a big one and isn't necessarily skillful because there's potential there.

[roxyreigns]

maybe the reason that girls don't say they want huge cocks is because they don't want a huge cock.

[playdatesx]

Basically.

[Asker]

very mature

[Barnone]

Brilliant

[roxyreigns]

was that aimed at me somehow, that "very mature comment"? how does that even work here

[Asker]

where you implying if a girl goes with a guy with a big cock he the guy is "dick head"?

[roxyreigns]

i didn't do that

[Crazyced]

Funny. But to be fair to men, it's very much in contrast with the 'what girls say and what they mean' take.

[roxyreigns]

@Crazyced i have never been even remotely like the "what girls say and what they mean" thing and i can't imagine being like it

[KaranSharma55]

its just her opinion.. why people judging here

[roxyreigns]

@KaranSharma55 judging by the upvotes i think i've been judged pretty positively

[KaranSharma55]

yep... lol

[BuchitaBuchys]

I can't speak for other girls, but the most well endowed man I had nearly killed me with pain. It was not pleasurable at all. Even with lots of foreplay and lube. I literally felt like he was hitting my cervix when he went really deep and I would scream, not in pleasure but in absolute terrifying pain.

I think you'd have to be really skilled if you have a big dick. And based on my and my friends experiences, big dick men are usually less skilled.

Think of it this way:
Big dick + unskilled = PAIN
Average dick + unskilled = bad sex

[Jxpxtxr]

Why does it always have to be "all or none" to some people on this site?
Example: "I like a big butt so ALL guys like a big butt" or "I know that ALL girls like big Ds - why? Because I just know."
What kind of logic is that?

The reason some of us say we don't like a humongous dick is probably because we really don't. Ever considered that?

[Asker]

Where did I ever say "all" read the text of the question carefully, you girls make things up I tell for your future relationship with guys take into consideration what spews out of your mouth of wild accusations

[Watermelonoma]

dont be a dick asker

[Jxpxtxr]

Well yeah.. I think the only one who has to re read anything is you @Asker - as I clearly stated "Example" now chill your titties lol

[TheGamingOne]

You do realise that a big dick won't result in more pleasure, a vagina isn't that big, almost all penises will be able to completly fill a vagina.
the pleasure comes from friction with the skin inside the vagina and if you have a big penis then this friction will actaully be much less, then when you have small dick

This is also why the penis lenght doesn't matter at all, the thing the matters more (still not that much) is the tickness of the penis

And about this A-spot, it would be very odd if your dick is big enough to reach it (wich about every +5inch dick will be) and somehow a very big dick would result in less pleasure?

and after reading a little bit about this A-spot i learned that this spot is not claimed to be better, and often even worse then the G-spot, or clitoris stimulation
Eventhough it is a intresting topic, but the topic seems a bit dead since i couldnt find any recent data about it, therefore i wonder if it is relevant at all

[Elis678]

Few women have cervix orgasms. Actually a lot of women don't to have their cervix touched, cause it's a lot sensitive and can hurt really much. The pleasure come from the clitoris friction, the clitoris is the part for orgasms. The so called g-spot, is nothing more than a clit extension, some women have it more sensitive than the others, but the penis doesn't really stimulate. It takes the pressure of two fingers to stimulate it.

[TheGamingOne]

@Elis678 I know the g-spot is basically the clit, However it is still a good spot to stimulate a orgasm however i think if you want to pleasure a girl properly you should not just fuck her you should stimulate thier entire body, find out what erouses her and do that too during sex (kissing neck, hand on thier throat and apllying light pressure, stimulating nipples/tits or even as simply as talking dirty to her

[Elis678]

The direct clit stimulation is always better as there more nerves, but it's good you know what the g-spot is. Not many guys (or even some girls) know how the female organ is built.

[Asker]

my point was to hit the a-spot it take a long penis

[TheGamingOne]

and as i already said the vagina is only about 5 inch deep, so no... it doesn't take a long penis A rather small one will do even And a big one will becuase of less friction often reduce the satisfaction of sex incase you going to say the long penis thing again, read the first to sentices wich i also already said in my previous comment

[Asker]

when not aroused its 4 inches actually but it can expand 200x when aroused other wise every time you have intercourse the penis would hit the cervix simple logic dude

[TheGamingOne]

first of all i think you mean 100% :P, 200x is a bit... much secondly yes, the avarage vagine unaroused is 3-4 inch when eroused it can double in size BUT, just like with male's it also depends on how eroused they are, and people rearly adchieve 100% arousal (i can't spell ignore it :D) meaning that in most cases it won't be much bigger then 5-6 inch big Because if they are 100% aroused theyll get a good and quick orgasm since if they are very aroused will come very quickly so when it actaully matters the vagina won't be 8-6 inch deep, only when they are close to climaxing the vagina will be this deep

[Asker]

Think if its not aroused to as much as I said how would a babies head circumference fit?

[madhatters4]

because just as not all guys like giants boobs or big butts not all girls like or even can accommodate sex with larger penis's... i know from experience

[randomfellow]

In fact a lot of women actually want a big penis, even if they don't say it

[randomfellow]

Oh and i'm not really happy about this but it's true They always choice the bigger one when it comes to choice a partner

[Zendrya]

But I don't want one...

[chriss]

it depends on the girl some care and some don't

[Asker]

Obviously

[TripleAce]

I wouldn't say they want 'big' ones but they surely prefer a iittle above average. And below average gets a lot of hate.

[Bandit74]

To avoid drama

[the_rake]

basically what op is saying is:

having a big dick + knowing what you're doing = chick satisfaction 100% guaranteed

just knowing what you're doing means you can hit some of the spots but not necessarily all the spots.

a big dick means you can hit most of the spots but if you're a bit on the clumsy side it's probably not going to be very enjoyable for the woman in question.

[Asker]

spot on

[RedThread]

The amount of insecurity coming from men and their dick size on this website is freaking insane. Women vary in their preferences just like men do.. It isn't impossible to grasp.

[Asker]

the opposite for men would be a tight vjj

[COCOCHANEL]

all i know is with bigger/thicker all i felt was constant pain

[Asker]

it takes extra careful navigation

[Ihav2fart]

#StoryOfMyLife

[elizabethryan]

you have bad imagination

[Asker]

you like dick new girl?

[IncognitoBandito]

They're afraid of hurting guys feelings