Losing virginity with microhymen?

So i am completely terrified to lose my virginity , just like any other girl but here's the problem... My hole is the size of a raisin , i can't even fit ANY finger in there. It hurts so much. I want to lose my virginity soon but its a thought process that feels like "oh i wanna get shot today , but damn its gonna hurt 😂 might even kill me" Any tips? Like y'all dont know how scared i am to lose my virginity insecurities+average pain+more pain +Big thing +Small hole=Death Bed.
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Also how would you explain the way it feels?
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  • Everyone's body is different. I know there are some girls who had extremely painful experience, and some other girls who had no pain at all. For me, it took about a month to have actually sex with my boyfriend because he couldn't fit in. We knew I have to feel comfortable, relaxed and aroused enough to make it less painful. So he did his best to make me feel loved and comfortable. I was wet but we even used a lube but didn't help. He literally couldn't get in.. and I felt like my body was splitting into two pieces. But we tried every other 2-3 days (We couldn't try every day because it was too painful for me).
    And finally I got used to the pressure like penetration feeling and he finally was able to put the tip of his.. the pain was there but it wasn't unbearable. And my boyfriend was very patient and he was so sweet that he didn't try further if I was in pain, he is the sweetest guy >_<
    We kept trying.. It took about a month to actually make my body to accommodate a strange invasion lol If you are not aroused enough it is hard to fit even a finger. a size of a raisin.. sounds pretty normal to me (not extremely small). So don't worry and take your time and do it with someone who really cares about you.

    • Yea lol my hole is probably smaller than a raisin its like the size of a green pea

    • Thank you for MHO. And don't worry you'll be fine :) just be patient

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's scary for sure, and will hurt the first time, but when you do the deed, you body will make the pathway lubed, as well as becone less resistant to entry (lacking proper terms, think defrosted beef. Hard when frozen, less so when warmed up.)

    It why guys should be taught the importance of forplay.

    Obviously I didn't have that issue and heard this second hand, so if a pink contradicts me, trust in the pink

  • Two choices, one involving others.
    You can have it snipped in your doctor's office with local anesthetic. Your reasoning is comfortable use of a tampon.
    Another is to buy a topical anesthetic like OraGel and "relieve" your hymen with fingers or a suitable object like a round handle hair brush. Both will leave you with an ache later but little trauma at the time.

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