Girls, how can I convince my girlfriend to let me eat her out?

I love eating pussy. Since college I've always enjoying going down on women I've dated. Everything about the experience turns me on--the sight, the smell, the taste. It's just heaven. Sometimes rather than eat pussy as foreplay, I prefer it to be the main event. I've been dating this girl for a few years, and our sex life is great. We're a complete match in every way, except she won't let me eat her out. We've talked about it, and I've explained how important it is to me. She understands, and suggested that I hire prostitutes for that purpose. When I asked her if she was kidding, she helped set me up with an escort. She says that she knows that I love her, and that my eating out other women would be a purely sexual act without emotion or love so she doesn't feel threatened. There are a couple of escorts I regularly eat out (my girlfriend has met them), and it's an amazing experience every time. So far, my girlfriend has been supportive, and she says she has no issues with it. The thing is, I would prefer to go down on her exclusively. I don't know if she's self-conscious or what. I've see her naked during sex and it's not like she has a weird-looking pussy or anything. She keeps good hygiene so I don't think that's the problem. Any thoughts on I how I can talk to her about this?
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  • First of all, if you want to know why she isn't comfortable with it, you need to talk to her about that. Maybe she is self conscious about her body. Maybe she had some type of bad experience, or something upset her or traumatized her regarding it. Maybe she just seriously doesn't like how it feels. Maybe she THINKS she doesn't like how it feels, because she had a past partner who did it in a way that didn't feel good to her. But clearly she knows that it's something you love, so it strikes me as odd that she wouldn't even be open to trying it with you. You should talk to her in a gentle, sensitive way to see if you can get to the bottom of it.

    Also be aware that you can catch and spread certain STDs through oral sex. If you are going to have oral sex outside of a monogamous relationship, it's a good idea to use a dental dam.

  • I used to be like your girlfriend. I could only get off via fingering and penetration. It wasn't that I was self conscious about my hygiene or appearance down there, it was just that some of my exes don't know what they were doing or didn't care to go down on me. That was fine. Then I had a friends with benefits who mainly cared about that. Giving me long foreplay. He would finger me, pin me down and ask talk dirty to me. He'd send me these messages that would go into detail about things he wanted to do orally. He had a way with his tongue. I never came with oral though. But I had multiple organs when he penetrated me and I think oral made them more intense. Try a vibrator along with oral. Talk dirty to her. Ask her to send you pics and compliment her. You might just coax her into trying it...

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  • Holy crap what a women, and yet, what a man you are to reject that offer, and only want her, wow. But it seem you two just aren't compatible, sorry.

  • There's something seriously wrong. She needs psychiatric therapy. I'm completely serious.

  • I'm speechless! Except to say, how can you be sure your mouth doesn't catch a disease?

  • She is an idiot! She is sending you off to go and have oral sex with other women! Again, she is an idiot!

  • Just keep trying. ... And feel free to taste me any day 😊

  • You guys just aren't sexually compatible, either take up her offer with other women or date another girl that will let you go down on her,

  • What the actual fuck :o
    What kind of a woman is she

    • Obviously one with boundaries who still wants to please her man. I'd say a good one.

    • Boundaries? She's allowing him to eat other women out. @BaileyisDarcy

    • What's wrong with that? She doesn't want him to touch her in that way, but knows it's important to him. I'd do the same really. You can't expect one person to fulfil every need you have.

  • You girlfriend is a retard LMAO. She lets you go down on other women? LIKE GOSH LOL. She's gonna be getting puss spit from you that isn't coming from her hehe. Idiot lol

  • just ask her till her that if she doesn't like it that your stop. ask her why she won't let u maybe theirs a painful experience behind it. talk to her. and honestly if she lets u i bet she will like it cause a lot of women love receiving oral I do.