Can you fuck a guy when they are sleeping?

[Anonymous]

[Peter0]

I will point out that in the US (and probably Europe, Canada, etc) that counts as rape.

Even if you have permission beforehand (because he can't give consent at the time it's happening, because he's *asleep*)

So make damn sure your partner really wants to do it before you go down that road ;)

[NJ_Casanova]

If any of my girls are over, she is welcome to do so.

[Melirain]

Doesn't matter if you're dating. He has to give consent beforehand, or no, that's rape.

If you're just asking if it's physically possible though, then yes. Guys can get erections in their sleep.

[sextalk345]

No, hun that is considered sexual assault, please refrain from that unless he said you could before he fell asleep.

[SarahsSummer]

Yup! I Start my guys Sunday morning bj while he's asleep, but he does wake up fairly quick.

[detlef]

Yeah. That's the short answer.

Incredible the number of responses here referring to a woman's having sex with a sleeping partner as "rape." I do not understand how anyone who regards himself as a man could seriously make that assertion. No actual man could possibly mind his partner's initiating sex with him occasionally during sleep.

[jjmarvin]

Lol i think it's hilarious how much it bruises your ego that a guy would refuse sex.

[detlef]

@jjmarvin Has nothing to do with my ego (then again, how could it conceivably?). Has to do with masculinity. You have laid bare its absence in your response.

[jjmarvin]

So to be masculine i should be butthurt and weakhearted over other guys behavior? Lol! Buddy, being a crybaby because some guy, who isn't you, didn't want sex at the moment, and literally NEEDING to reaffirm your own masculinity by dismissing his, is not masculinity. I am masculine, and you can cry and pee your pants to prove how manly you are all you want, but it will never start making sense.

[detlef]

@jjmarvin There is no overlap between my statement and your description of it. Show what you've written to any woman you wish to have as a sexual partner.

[jjmarvin]

Yes, my man. I do it all for that halfway-across-the-world gag vagina. I don't blame you for coming to that conclusion though. If i was a virgin at age 40 I'd have my bitter days too lol. Hope you have more rational days.

[mutedaisy]

We are too rape happy in this society. Loverd can't even be spontaneous without being accused of rape by other people.

[idkwtftoputhere]

There's no harm in talking about the matter about "spontaneous sex" sometime beforehand to at least have their consent. @mutedaisy

[mutedaisy]

@idkwtftoputhere your comment is misdirected.

[idkwtftoputhere]

What? I was replying to your comment hence why you were tagged. @mutedaisy

[mutedaisy]

@idkwtftoputhere it was an attempt to reply to my comment. Of course you're going to talk about it, but my comment is directed at that fact that everyone is accusing it as rape, when no. The couple is being spontaneous.

[idkwtftoputhere]

@mutedaisy It can be interpreted as rape though because she doesn't have his consent and sex without consent is basically what rape means. So, no, my comment is not misdirected.

[mutedaisy]

@idkwtftoputhere tell the question asker that then. Not me so stop tagging me please -.-

[detlef]

If anyone who believes they disagree with me could advance a coherent, text-based criticism of something I actually wrote, that would be great. Also, if anyone could tell me how the term "rape" could logically be applied to the activity I described, as I described it, I'm all ears. There's a bizarre and recurring tendency on GAG to be broadly accepting of contempt toward women, up to and including the rape of a woman, and yet somehow to be horrified when the tables are perceived to have turned. For anyone reading this, I of course stand by everything I wrote. It is simply common that in loving, sexually active couples, one partner will initiate sex with the other during sleep. There is no intrinsic force or absence of consent. This practice has been openly discussed for millenia. Certainly based on the asker's phrasing, the term "rape" cannot be accurately and unconditionally applied to this practice.

[RationalLioness]

Can I? Yes. But it can be construed as rape, so be careful. You need to make sure the guy consents first.

[jjmarvin]

Haha that's a pretty mature and logical way to put it! To many people are getting way too hype on both sides of the coin. It's either "OMG RAEP!' or "if he says no he's a pussyfaggot!" Lol this is the kind of thing gag cracks me up and pisses me off with at the same time.

[Tdieseler]

My ex tried.. i found it cute...(needless to say, she woke me up and i... well.. gave her what she wanted)
You CAN fuck a guy while he's asleep.. there's a second head that thinks on its own.

[Joc4Position]

No she can't.

[Tdieseler]

@Joc4Position I didn't say she won't wake the main head up lol... just meant she can try... so technically...

[Joc4Position]

Main head?

[Tdieseler]

@Joc4Position you DO know guys have two heads right?

[Joc4Position]

So which is the main head?

[Tdieseler]

@Joc4Position The one on your shoulders? Im hoping thats yours too lol

[Joc4Position]

I guess so. I still don't understand what you're talking about though.

[Tdieseler]

@Joc4Position Eh.. i don't blame yah mate... its not the first time. I don't let it bug me. I know what im saying and I know how it applies. People can down vote me as much as they want... but there's one thing i'll always stick to when i answer questions on GaG... everything i say, I've got literal real life experience in. If i don't, i don't answer while i go test it out. I said its possible... its effin possible, been there... twice.

[Joc4Position]

I didn't downvote you broski. If you into girls waking you up and riding you then by all means.

[Tdieseler]

@Joc4Position Didn't accuse you of the down vote lol... I don't know who those were, but in my experience on GaG, the more down votes i get, the more right i feel. some people just hate truth. Its all good though... if you ever do get woken up by someone trying to fuck you, especially in the morning... its not a bad feeling at all... plus... gives you something to do with that morning wood eh. :)

[Joc4Position]

Oh I feel you on that.. the downvoting stuff anyway. Nah man. It's not for me.

[Tdieseler]

@Joc4Position I usually don't down vote without putting a reason why... i can up vote without a reason though. Its these catfish trolls mate... got nothing but to troll and down vote people. I call em virgins :) (that last part was just to make me laugh)

[Joc4Position]

Lol.

[SmoMan]

Well unless they give you consent ahead of time that would be rape. Otherwise its a hell of a good way to wake up in the morning.

[hellionthesage]

Is it all right if he has sex with you in your sleep? I think as long as their is an understanding between you two then their is no issue. But if you would object to the inverse then I think that would answer your question.

[TheMainGuitarist]

It's rape. It's an unwilling sexual act. You could, but it would be considered rape

[ShocknAwem]

That would be rape.

[mutedaisy]

I've given him head while he slept, he gets semi hard then wakes up super hard. If I tried full out sex it would just wake him up. Same with me... You can't stealth fuck someone unless they are drugged.

[notxing]

yes it happend to me

[BroDudeBro]

That's rape and if a woman did that to me, I'd go to the Police and I'd also try and take her to court and sue her for damages.

[ticlemelmo]

Even if she was your girlfreind for 3 years?

[BroDudeBro]

@ticlemelmo Yup even then man. Rape is rape.

[I_am_repulsive]

As long as he consent to it yeah..

[S1lverado96]

I'd wake up quickly but it would be awesome for me personally

[MrShinyPants]

Yes, the phallus can easily be aroused

[xOGxDub]

I guess you can but itd be weird...

imagine a girl in the kitchen cooking, a guy wakes up and goes to get some food and the girl goes

"I f'd you in your sleep,"

Id think she was crazy

[RedThread]

Hell no! If I can't consent don't try anything sexual with me.

[Shyguy_1988]

Have to get him hard when's he's sleeping... not sure how well that would work, sounds like rape, l

[jjmarvin]

Um if it's discussed beforehand that that's all coolsville then sure. But if he doesn't wanna you should obviously stop. Idc how long you've been dating.

[Jayded1]

Yes. An erection is a biological response. Men in comas can be fucked.

[Iron_Man]

No why do you ask?

[chrisbigman]

No, since I'm a heterosexual man.