Girls, Did u once hate, and now enjoy giving a blowjob to ur man? If so, what changed and how did u do it?

[Anonymous]

My wife wants to give me blowjobs, and she does sometimes, but not very often. I just know she doesn't particularly enjoy it most of the time. Occasionally I can see she really gets into it. And again she wants me to be able to cum in her mouth but she finds it gross in her mind. Is there any way I can help her "get over her mind block" so to speak? And just so u know I have often tried giving her oral and more than 9 times out of 10 she just plain refuses. She won't let me. And when she does let me she feels awkward and won't let herself enjoy it. I just wanted to mention that so u didn't think I wasn't returning the favor. She doesn't want me to even when she goes down on me. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[tinyclit]

Just like the best way to learn a new language is by immersion, the best way to learn to enjoy swallowing is to do it every time and as often as possible. Cum is just water, protein, sugars, vitamins and minerals. When you think about it, there's really nothing gross about it. It's love sauce.

[Asker]

Makes sense but when she can't get herself to do it for the first time that doesn't really apply yet lol

[tinyclit]

Perhaps she just needs to get used to cum is all. Are you at least cumming into her mouth yet? If so then that's a good start. If not, then you might start doing so. Or at least cum onto her face, lips, etc. (But not into her eyes, that can sting!) You need to be loving but persistently moving forward so that she can get past her initial reluctance and start enjoying herself. I remember many years ago when I was at that stage. I'm glad my husband motivated me.

[Asker]

Ok I'm trying my best to not seem pushy about it but that's how I'm starting to feel. She doesn't like cum much at all. I've never cum on her face. Most times she doesn't like it on her chest either. And cumming in her mouth is the biggest issue here. It's such a turn on for me. But she's only tried it twice when we were dating (once she kept her mouth on me till I finished and once not even that long and she had to spit it out) and 1 other time early in our marriage where my first shot made her freak out n she spit out right away. And I guess the bj itself isn't that bad as long as she's not pregnant. She's over 6 months along now and we've only had sex maybe 3 times and I think 2 bj's that whole time. When she's not pregnant sex is regular ish at once or twice a week and bj once a month ish. Sometimes more. But she doesn't like the cum on her 95% of the time. And hasn't tried in her mouth for over 4 years. She says she wants to. That's why I'm trying to figure something out.

[Asker]

If she said she didn't want to and most likely never would then I could probably forget about it. But it's in my head pretty bad (no pun intended) lol

[elissadanae]

I never enjoyed it in my past relationships but my current relationship I think I'm in love or something cause I actually love doing it. It turns me on and I love how he taste.

[Asker]

Haha ok I that's great for u! And ur partner! Lol but we've been in love for over 7 years. I guess it doesn't work that way for everyone :( too bad

[BillieJean1070]

I took a while to warm up to the idea. Finally I was with someone I cared for and realized how much he enjoyed it.

[Asker]

I'm sure she loves me. We dated 2.5 years and have been married 5 years so we've been together for 7 and a half years. Happily! :) I just wish I could help her through it. Or I wish I could stop wanting it. But that seems impossible. I've tried lol