Girls, do you like to be pinned down during sex? How rough do you want it the first time?

I like rough dominating sex. My favorite position is holding her down flat on her belly and pounding her pussy from behind and keeping her pinned down with some force the whole time! My favorite is holding her hands behind her back or holding her head down. She loves feeling so helpless! How rough is ok for you the first time you have sex with a guy? At what level would you want to discuss things first?
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  • I'd assume first time should always be slow, intimate and romantic so we can understand and communicate with each other better because when it is rough you feel it is all about your fantasies and not the real person with you. When we get to know each other better I wouldn't mind it rough but I am not into bdsm or pain or crazy stuff like that. Just something reasonable like being tied up or helpless or being dominated is cool.. I think it is hot. Some other times I like being the dominant one too so he has too be prepared for that as well.

  • YES YES YES. being pinned down is so hot oh my gosh lol. but not like how u describe. for me, it'd be lying on my back and him holding down my arms on either side of my head, making love to me passionately, not... animalistically.

    on my first time, I'm not gonna lie, i don't want him to be rough with me. I'm already scared enough that id get hurt. id just need him to be really slow and gentle. as we gain experience, we'll try more things. i think that's very fair.

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  • The sexy kind of rough. Not creepy or angry rough.

    A lot. Don't schedule it or anything, have a whole meeting about it, but communicate about it, and let it happen naturally.

  • No, I like tender, loving sex :)

  • YES YES YES! I LOVE ROUGH SEX BUT NOT EVERYTIME I HAVE SEX

  • Yeah sometimes.

  • Well, In my opinion: You could start by showing interest. Like pushing her against the bed, stomach up. And start things up, if she shows interest, you may proceed with whatever method you use during sex. Again, just my own opinion.

  • Nope, I'm always the dominant and I do the pinning.

  • Rough sex is such a turn on but I'm not sure if i'd feel comfortable doing it the first time with a guy I didn't know extremely well. If we've discussed that we're both into it then I think it'd be ok.

  • Lol not so rough the first time I want is slow and then a little rough.. The pinning down can come the second time lol