I let a guy I touch/suck on my breasts first time meeting him? What's wrong with me (kind of long story)?

I (20F) met this guy (22/M) on tinder around Nov. 24 we messaged back and fourth until he gave me his number the week after. After that, we met up at his school, with the intention of studying. Never studied.. and just ended up talking. Went to starbucks, ordered a couple things, talked. It was pretty cold, dark, and raining, so after we left starbucks, we just sat in his car for about 2 hours and just talked about stuff. Around (I think) an 1 1/2 hours later that's when he started making the move on me... moving closer, putting his arm aroud me. We started kissing.. and within a few minutes, we were making out, within minutes of that I was on top of him, and then, he was on top of me. We made out for about 5 minutes. Took a break, talked a bit. And then proceeded to make out again. As he was on top of me, he was kissing all over my neck and I felt him feeling my breast, and then minutes after he started sucking/kissing on my breast... while I felt him up.. or he put my hand on his penis. Now.. It's not that I felt uncomfortable or anything (maybe slightly.. cause it was all new to me?).. when he was kissing my neck... I was making light moans and signs.. and assuming he heard them, he probably thought maybe he could go further, which he did... and I didn't stop him He wanted sex I knew that for sure. By the way he was touching me. He seemed pretty into it, and would always tell me to relax and stuff, and he would say things like "I want you so bad" .. but I stopped him twice before anything got too intense. Because I know for a fact that I am NOT ready for sex, and that I am a virgin (I told him this) Meeting this guy, he does not "seem" like the guy who just wants to "hit it, and quit it". We are both in school, he's working on obtaining his master's degree, while I am finishing up nursing school. After that meetup and dropping me off, he texted me like an hour later to see how everything went/how I was doing, saying that h
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So it looks as if the rest of my story cut off? But I guess what I'm wondering is... is this guy really interested in me? I met him on tinder... which is a hookup site. On the other hand... I feel sort of a.. slut... dirty... for even doing these things when I barely knew him.. and I don't know what to really think of myself... I feel like maybe I shouldn't have gone that far and let him touch me like that. But I did tell him via text, afterwards, that I wanted to take it slow
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After we met up, he texted me saying how he enjoyed my company, and said that he was really liked me. Part of me feels... i don't know. Is there anything I should watch out for? Honestly I have zero to little experience when it comes with guys.. it's hard to know if this guy really is interested in me because he says all these things like how I'm sexy, charming, funny, talented, have a good heart, and he wants to meet up again.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Nothing wrong with you. Maybe it moved quickly but you guys are in college right? No problems there. You're okay. Girls are doing worse things and if you enjoyed it... Why not? You didn't have sex? You held on to your values? Sounds like you are perfectly fine to me and I bet he thinks so too!

  • Just be careful. You're a virgin, you like him, he wants sex and he can probably talk you into it pretty easily. Be careful not to do anything you will regret :P

  • What do you mean what's wrong with you? Sounds like a great night. There's nothing wrong with what you did.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why do you think something's wrong with you? Everything you wrote sounds completely normal and fun to me

  • He wants to go out again
    He enjoys your company and sex is just one of the perks of being with u

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