When it comes to giving a blowjob 'correctly' and him finding it super hot, enthusiasm trumps all. Whatever you're doing, looking like you're enjoying yourself will make it feel a million times better. So just look like you're really into it, ideally actually be into it, and you're halfway there! The mental aspect of knowing the girl has your dick in her mouth and is not only genuinely enjoying herself, but wants to do what she can to let you enjoy it, will make ANY guy feel like a king way more than any porn-star quality techniques.
Focus mostly on the head. The shaft itself doesn't have that many nerves on it so though paying attention to the area as a whole feels good plus builds anticipation, make sure to flick/lick around the head when you're coming up. It's a good way to maximize surface area being touched to just put the outer fourth in your mouth, swirl your tongue around it and the head, while paying attention to the shaft/balls with your hands. Two birds with one stone!
Most guys like some ball play. Start gently, with just barely making contact with your hands to feel out this particular guy's sensitivity to pain down there. Once you've got that taken care of, it feels good to suck on one ball at a time, though again not too hard as it's quite a delicate area. Most say to minimize hand use during a blowjob, as they can give themselves a handjob the best. But as long as you make sure to incorporate some mouth action, I'm sure you'll hear no complaints.
My guy loves it when I get the whole shaft nicely lubricated with some spit at first before paying attention to just the head & last 1/3 of the dick. Don't forget to include lots of tongue action here, like swirling, etc.. While you're doing that, right under your mouth, work the shaft with your hand. Moving up and down in tandem, or doing twisting motions works well. Another variation on that is to work the last 1/3 with you hand, doing a twisting/stroking motion with extra stimulation on the head with your palm when you move your hand outwards and at the same time, pay attention to his balls with your mouth.
You should write a my take. There's not many gag pink texts with this experience.
@ConsultantIsBack lol Already have, one about tips on how to give head for the first time. Maybe once my exams are done on Tuesday I'll compile another MyTake with some tips on how to give really good head once it's no longer a novelty. How to spice things up. :P
Oh do it! Link to that my take?
On the underside of a guys penis looking at the head of his penis is a small band of tissue called the frenulum. It is the most sensitive part of his cock. Licking that part while you are going up and down on his dick is a real turn on. In addition at the base of his head licking around that base is also a turn on while you are going up and down. There is much more to this. Practice going way down on him and holding that position is called Deep Throat. Try that too. Alternating between a fast movement and a slow movement is also a surprise
I'm with godfatherfan, here's what I like:
1) keep in simple
2) have him cum in you mouth and linger until he 100% finished, at least 30 sec. then milk and/or suck the cum out of his penis into you mouth.
Optional and/or for the future
- go as deep as you can
- it's a BJ not a hand job, no hands for the first 5 min or until you are getting tired
- swallow if you're up to it, for many guys this is on their bucket list and moves your BJ to the > 95 pretrial of the bell curve.
Most importantly try to sense what is working for him and do more of that. It's really about what you boyfriend likes and he may be learning what that is as you go along. He has told you to surprise him. I'm not sure what that means, I love being woken up with my wife's lips pressed against my pelvis and my limp penis fully in her mouth and growing.
He'll enjoy your effort,
I believe I have just the thing:
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Thank youuuuuuu
So glad we could help. If you want to return the kindness, let me know, The three most important attitudes you can show him are to be eager, enthusiastic, and adventurous. Do you have rough sex?
Well sort of, we're starting to get there
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Here is a take by a GAGer (credit to @nessavanice ). It is a bit long of a read but all the opinions, both from guys and girls, pretty much said it was spot on a good take. I'd check it out if you are interested in it.
Stay away from any special things til you get the hang of it. Many guys, like myself, don't care about deep throat as I never feel anything different so why chock yourself for nothing. just keep the teeth away. and let him cum in your mouth. we never care if you spit it out, but let him finish... or never start...
what? you told him you want to practice sucking his dick and he said no? wtf is wrong with him?
Stroke n suck. No teeth!
I always love that submissive look up. Like she's going down on the guy then looks up at him with these submissive watery eyes. So hot.
That guy isn't your boyfriend. Am I right?
You should find some videos on xvideos or redtube. If you stick to the amateur ones they should be easier to replicate yourself.
I tried it, but I don't think I'm doing too good of a job
Sounds like you're already to a point where you need someone willing to practice with.
And that's where my problem begins.
Just do it
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