Why are girls so protective of their breast, but try to get rights to let them breathe?

[Anonymous]

Girls are so protective of their breast.. like if you are caught staring its basically sexual harrassment if the girl doesn't like it, ... like its just so weird.. girls are so protective of they're boobs.. "only the guys they like can see them, not just any guy" "Boobs are like private parts" Then go off somewhere saying "its not fair guys get to leave with no shirt on" take your shirt off, catch the guys looking and all of a sudden you're uncomfortable. then again Guys and girls both have nipples.. thats all they are... nipples... the only difference between a guys chest and a girls is the amount of fat on her chest thats all it is.. fat... with nipples.. the same ones guys have... Its just confusing. to me like... what is going on here thats like guys fighting to have the right to walk around town with their penises out... when they actually get the right, people are feeling disusted.. why is that out? keep it in your pants! same with girls keep them in your bra! im so confused because half of me is like.. i understand, they should be able to do this! all boobs are is nipples with fat... everyone has nipples i dont see the difference! Then again im like... no.. noone wants to see those out like that, keep them in your bra.. especially if they sag.. then you do it and notice the attention you get and suddenly regret yourself same as if a guy got the right to have is penis out... basically the same thing as girls having the right to go topless, since people see boobs so sexual.. i mean.. the only time boobs turn me on is if im already turned on.. if i just see some boobs without being turned on i really dont care like... either get out of my face with it or put them up im not trying to be mean here i just dont understand society anymore..

[SparklingFirefly]

Well, not everyone is gay but gay marriage is now legal for those who want the services. It's about having the option and freedom to do it if wanted. There are plenty of women who don't care if someone sees their breasts.

I don't expect for a man to never glance at my boobs. But be respectful and don't be shitty about it. Remember there's a brain and person behind them. The problem isn't that men look at women's boobs. The problem is that many of them forget to see women as more than that, and it is insulting.

There's a difference between being oggled by someone, and just having breasts be a normal part of life. If it were normal for women to walk around topless, you wouldn't have the same reaction to them that you do now. The thing is breasts have become so taboo and overly sexualized. It's considered shameful to have them exposed only because they've been seen as sexual objects instead of just being a normal body part, like a man's nipples.

So to conclude, I think people are more concerned with how much shame is put on women regarding their bodies, rather than actually wanting to go topless. It's more about getting people to understand that something went horribly wrong in society when women's breasts became so sinful and hidden.

I hope that kinda makes sense, because I want to help you understand at least to some degree what the thought process is.

[Anonymous]

Tits just being tits aren't sexual. I don't see why a woman shouldn't be able to go topless like a man if she wants to and that makes her feel good, regardless if you find her tits nice to look at or not as some men are not nice to look at shirtless either. Being modest makes me feel good, so I wouldn't do it personally, but not every woman feels the same as me and I don't see why they shouldn't be able to. Genitals such as the penis and vagina should NEVER be exposed in public.

[Asker]

That's the thing, when men get aroused, they don't think straight. which can and will lead to rape which we have enough of. and it might seem ok for younger women to do it but who wants to see and older lady with no shirt on its unsanitary.

[Opinion Owner]

Tits aren't sexual by themselves. Their purpose is to sustain children. I won't hear the "rape will increase" argument as men aren't animals, they have language and thus thought and autonomy. An older woman with a shirt on isn't unsanitary in any fashion, it's natural. Older men don't wear shirts all the time and no ones claiming that they're pleasing to look at.

[Opinion Owner]

without a shirt on*

[dwiller943]

Ummm... Because... Consent.