Overreacted? yes.
Your not nearly ready for sex. At least not psychologically. This is what sex is. Sometimes your doing it together. Sometimes your just doing it for him. Believe it or not, sometimes he will be pushing himself through it just to satisfy you. I have been there plenty of times when I was just not in the mood but did it anyway. The problem is, that it is exponentially harder for men to do it when we don't feel like it. women just have to lay there. or suck a bit. guys have to get and maintain an erection. when your young that is easy, that won't be that way forever. when guys get older the time it takes between to get hard again gets a lot longer. I rarely want to have sex more then once a day. Or I should say I usually WANT to, but the little guy doesn't have it in him.
You either need to understand this is how a relationship with sex works, or you need to stop having sex until you can handle that part of it.0 0 0 0This is par for the course when you cash in your v-card before you are really ready. These sorts of thing should be discussed way before you actually do it, and before you lose your virginity. Have you discussed other forms of sex like him giving you oral, like anal sex. You both should know exactly what each other will accept or reject.
I don't think you over reacted. I thing you just gave in to incredible pressure to try what you did. I also think it's true that he just wanted to finish, regardless of your feelings. I'm afraid there are many men like that. Not all, but some, especially when they're inexperienced.1 0 0 0
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What he did was really sexual assault. He basically clearly knew you were uncomfortable but was focus on only his needs. He didn't care about your feelings.
I would dumb him.0 0 0 0Any man that cares about finishing his needs and not your feelings isn't worth it.
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2 0He's a douchebag, leave him. He FORCED you to do something you did NOT want to. That's wrong. Won't call it rape but he sounds like a dangerous man.
1 1 1 0She wasn't forced into anything. She made a choice.
@alfonsosloan45 Under unreasonable pressure.
@alfonsosloan45 : 'I didn't really want to but he kept pressuring me like "you can do this right? Pleaaaase" "hey baby, please? Just finish it already", so I started doing so, forcing myself into it. I felt horrible, as if I was his sextoy, as if he only sees me as someone who can pleasure him' Read this
Maybe he was too horny but he admitted he was wrong so stop thinking about it :) x
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