Can a pussy be too tight?

The last guy I was with (I've only been with 2 guys) said that I was the tightest he'd ever felt. Even when I'm masturbating and completely dripping wet, I can only fit one finger in & my gynecolegist has to use the small clamp when I go to her. Sex thus far has been painful both times to begin with and I bled after both times & was just really really sore. I'm starting to just accept it as my body but for guys, can a pussy be too tight? Like can it be painful for you guys? and girls, do you think I'm tighter than the average sue or is this a normal thing that I should stop worrying about?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • sounds like me so i think it's normal.
    some boys complained of pain during intercourse (and usually it hurts me and we have to stop).
    sex has almost always hurt even though i get really wet. i've been to a few doctors about it. they just said i'm small there and there's nothing wrong (they didn't say i have any disorders) and when i went for cancer screening the smallest speculum was too painful so he had to do it without.
    i've never been able to be fingered by more than 1 finger and i think it's because of the width and how hard fingers are.

  • Despite popular belief, there isn't that much variation in vaginal tightness.

    If you're too tight for sex, you're probably nervous and unaroused. If you solve the arousal and nervous issue and you still can't take anything up there without extreme pain, you could have a disorder that basically causes your vagina to squeeze itself shut when you try to insert something.

  • Your inability to relax your vagina has to do with psychology not anatomy. You are very nervous at this point. Don't worry you are normal.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Evidently your petite there. It can of course be so tight that you cannot comfortably enter, but that's rare. Speak to your gynecologist next time you see her.

  • hmm, u must find a guy who does not want to hurt you. he must understand you and you must help him to make you have a great time with sex and have a climax

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  • If you're bleeding then it's pretty obvious you weren't as wet as you thought. Try introducing lube and see how it goes.

  • I am 53 3 kids and my pussy is super tight

    • good for you

    • You say you're 53 years old but your profile says 44 years old

  • Why the hell would a gynecologist use a clamp on you? Do you mean speculum?

  • hahaa!

    fuck.

    i would say nah shits normal. don't stress about it.

  • ... where have you been all my life? giggity.

    • Hahaha

  • Are you new at sex? Or maybe you are just naturally small or narrow down there

  • be happy to have a tight pussy better than having an oven. And no tight and wet is ideal.

  • Find a guy with a smaller dick :/

  • dont worry about hurting the guy.. the tighter the better for us.

  • How much time did you take when you had sex? A vagina can stretch. Think about it, a baby's head has to fit through. But it can take a while.

    I don't think you should worry. You'll get there.

  • Did someone say tight pussy

  • Not in my experience.

  • I've never ran into this problem, sometimes I'm too big for girls and it's painful for them but I've never ran into a pussy that was painful to me

  • For a girl it can i guess.

    But for a guy it might be hard to get into, but worth the effort <3

    Find the right guy, and you will find the right fit.

  • having a tight pussy is a good thing and the more sex you have the losser it will get. if it keeps being painful and bleeding talk to a doctor to see why

  • maybe if it was so tight that you can't get it in

  • You can't imagine how a tight pussy is on demand among men. You're lucky, many men will get heavenly pleasure by fucking you.

  • Yes. I had sex with this girl a few times and we had to finish with a blow job because it just hurt too bad

  • I once got laid with a virgin and she had damn tight vagina , but It was tough for me initially. she had a pain but it was one hell of a experience.

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