Why are some men selfish in bed?

Question

Like guys who expect blow jobs but don't want to eat pussy in return

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

Well, at least the selfish guys are easier to figure out. If you just watch them pleasure themselves and use the same "technique" on them, then WHOA you'll magically have them eating out of your hand.

With guys who try too hard to be selfless, things are much more apt to get unnecessarily complicated.

Also, the other problem with "non-selfish" men is that they are very, very rarely dominant enough for women as submissive as me, because they make the mistake of admitting their sense of chivalry into the bedroom.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's the million dollar question. I believe that relationships are a give-and-take, and both partners should be willing to finish off the other. Especially since a lot of men can't make a woman orgasm through penetration alone, they should be willing to go down on her in order to help her orgasm, especially if she goes down on him.

loofah · Accepted Answer

Hmmm... the ones I've heard saying that relate it to manliness and how it's submissive to do so. Then there are a few who consider vaginas somehow more gross.

I couldn't be with a guy who had a selfish mentality, but I could work with someone who is grossed out or scared by the experience. It's all about intention.

Mishii · Accepted Answer

Most guys are immature. There immaturity leads to a lack of understanding of girls. They are clueless. They also vision bed because they have no understanding of female physiology or emotions.. We call them clueless but in actuality they are stupid

imhungry4 · Accepted Answer

personally i dont do that if i get blown i expect they would like the favor returned by me eating them out but some guys have either never tried that before and not sure how it will be so they dont want to try it or some have tried and had bad experiences and some just generally dont like eating girls out but do enjoy being blown it all depends on preference

RedThread · Accepted Answer

Some people just want to get off. I find it pretty shameful to be honest.. I want a woman to remember that she was with me and not for negative reasons.

Craftsman · Answer

Dunno. I always thought pussy is an excellent appetizer for the main course to follow, and I've never waited when I had the chance to dine.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

There is a great diversity in our species and much of it makes me feel good about being who I am.

WhatTheHellAmy · Answer

Whoa, most men love eating pussy lol

chriss · Answer

because its their personality

Heyyakk · Answer

He's not into you if that happens. Or probably doesn't think you're "clean".

Dubhlann · Answer

Same reason some women are selfish... because some people are selfish.

TadCurious · Answer

I don't know. I've never understood why any straight guy in his right mind wouldn't want to go down on his girl. It's one of my favorite sexual things to do.

oxynous · Answer

It is not for trade. Or you give him oral expecting nothing in return or you don't give. Your choice.

FakeName123 · Answer

For the same reasons some girls are selfish in bed. They just care about their own pleasure and not about their partner. The partner in that act is simply a tool to make them feel good and nothing else.