Guys, If your girl gets dressed up in lingerie tries anal but stops you because of the intense pain.. are you disappointed in her?

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I went & bought lingerie & he seemed realllly into it & then during sex i was like "lets try the thing you like" & he's like "fuck yeah" *shoves dick in dry asshole* & im like "owww oww okay nope oww your dick is too big for this you're ripping me in half" *screaming & bleeding internally* he was all "yeah but its already in baby" me "yes babe but you're ripping my asshole in half.. im sorry" he seemed bummed even though we still fucked & he came twice.. I don't know before he went to work i got up to say goodbye n he gave ms this limp fucking side hug with no kiss.. maybe he's over my pussy already like literally as i was sucking his dick he was like "fuck i really need to get going cNt believe im doing this when i have work" like normally hed drive allday allnight just to get to me without thought of anything else.. would you hate your girlfriend for tapping out on the anal?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

You can't just do anal (especially your first time) without some prep and lube. That's like putting some kid with no driver's license into an Indy car and then being surprised when he kills himself by crashing on the first turn.

While I'm sure he was disappointed in the SITUATION (which he contributed to ruining), he has no reason to be disappointed with YOU - and if he is anyway, then he's a dick.

Read my post here on what SHOULD have happened...

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1313095-what-s-the-best-way-to-do-anal-sex-for-the-first-time

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

How about this alternative?

broadsword · Answer

Absolutely not your amazing any guy would die for this level of effort and enthusiasm. Anal takes an awful lot more prep. You must prepare and he should care and be patient. Lots and lots of good lube a few fingers to relax and open your anus.
Still lot and lots of time.
Iam sorry but your guy doesn't sound like he's worthy of you.

bryon · Answer

Ohhhh hellllll naw. He didn't do one damn this to ease into his long awaited prize , he abused the privilege and ruined the whole experience for the both of you. You have no reason to be down on your self , this is on his Azz. There is no way in heck I could be mad at my girl for stopping me if I went in like a rabie 2x4 loosed upon a china shop.

TickleMyPickle4Fun · Answer

I just dont understand guys who can get their cock to fit in a girls ass! I have tried lube, fingering her hole and there is STILL no way it is going to fit! One of my ex's told me it had to do with me "being as thick as a baseball"... but i am pretty sure i am not so much bigger than most guys... so what's the deal?

godfatherfan · Answer

What a disaster. It is on both of you for not doing it right. he knows better then to not use a TON of lube. Also, I found that when we "planned" anal, and it wasn't "in the heat of passion", we had to try many different positions until she found one that didn't hurt. So anal took a long time but was well worth it.

guynextodoor · Answer

i will never hate her for such a puny reason but surely makes for some hilarious memories for life lol

Dansexuall · Answer

Only a beta male would stop. My girlfriend wants to try anal tonight and iv already warned her that nomatter how much it hurts or she cries or begs me to stop, I'm not going to. I'm going to absolutely destroy her. I'm going to. drop a viagra too do she really is in for a hard time lmao