Do you agree with this girl stance that doing porn does not make you a whore?

[Anonymous]

This girl did porn for one of those amateur sites, only porn she's done, says it doesn't make her a whore. thoughts? Girl is pretty damn hot and quotes the bible. She's actually a receptionist also.

Her quote:
By now most people know that a while ago I made a sex tape that recently surfaced, and I feel it's necessary to clear a few things up.

1. Making a sex tape doesn't make me a whore. I spent months unsuccessfully seeking employment with no success, so when someone offered me thousands of dollars and said that no one would ever find out about it, I naively assumedyy it would be safe. I'm 20 years old, financially independent, and I had bills to pay. They promised it would never be posted on the Internet, but a few months later it was leaked and it's been hell ever since. My motive for doing it was money and nothing other than that.

1. I was desperate and made a foolish mistake. Unfortunately this is something that has happened not only to me, but many other young girls in similar situations and I need to make it clear how wrongful it is to judge us. Chances are, you've made you're mistakes as well, just in a different way.

2. The interview wasn't real. For those of you saying "I was happy and excited to do it", that is false. I was told what to say. Any "happy demeanor" I may have had was for show.

3. Do not bring my family or friends into this. It is not a reflection of them, or their values. No one knew except for me, and this has been more of a shock to them than anyone else. People have been attacking my family, and those people are sick, twisted, and pathetic if they feel the need to take time out of their daily lives to spread hate to people they don't even know. They are the kindest, most supportive people in existence, and if anyone has anything negative to say, you can say it to me. Gossiping is cowardly. If you have a problem, you can say it to me because I can handle it. They have no part in this.

[Bandit74]

She had sex for money, that fits the definition of whore. Are we supposed to change the dictionary definition to save her feelings. She admitted that it's something she wouldn't have done if not for money which implies she was compromising her principles for easy money.

I looked up the video and during the interview she mentioned that she was seeing guy at the time she filmed the shot. So in my book that makes her a cheater too so I have no sympathy for her. She's one of those girls who are total sluts with some guys or when it's convenient (there's money involved) and then plays the hard to get good girl wit the guys she wants a relationship with. The only person I feel bad for in this scenario is the guy who was dating her at the time.

There's plenty of girls who work multiple jobs instead of resorting to porn. To say she had no choice is an insult to the women who took the more difficult road rather than selling their bodies. There's pros and cons to everything. Same with investments, the potential for higher returns comes with increased risk. Porn is a easy way for women to make a quick buck but yeah, if people find out, they will judge you. Boo hoo.

[Asker]

That kind of reminds me of this girl from that same site who was a baby sitter. She said she really loves her boyfriend, and she can't think of being anyone besides him. She wants to marry him some day. This was in interview part right before she took dick and ended up getting a facial to the face.

[Bandit74]

Yeah they're so full of shit. I'm glad I don't live in California. I feel like that's the main area youd have to worry about whether or not your girlfriend was ever in a porno.

[Asker]

This girl doesn't live in Cali. She flew to cali for the shoot.

[OlderAndWiser]

She had sex for money. That is the reason all prostitutes practice their profession. That is not an excuse, Many girls face desperate times and do not resort to this behavior. She simply does not want to be held accountable for her choice. She may have been duped about the video going on the internet, but she knew she was having sex for money. That did not happen by accident. She is right; we are all sinners. . . but we are not all whores. Calling her a whore is not judging her; it is simply applying a label to her lack of morality.

[Hwlsop]

I used to have sex with a lot of different girls even over the course of a week. That would give me a negative label but I don't anymore. Should I still have that label?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Hwlsop Are you defending your earlier behavior and saying you did nothing wrong, or do you now believe that your earlier behavior was misguided?

[Hwlsop]

I see what you are saying. Yes if I could do it all over again I wouldn't.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Hwlsop That's the difference, and its a huge difference! I'm glad you get it.

[Ra-Horakhty]

I fail to see the lack of morality...

[CheerGirl38139]

Are all of you people that keep quoting the definition of a whore as being someone that has sex for money a. k. a. a prostituue, and saying this girl is "still a whore"...

Are you saying that a one time choice that someone makes, and that person decides they're not going to do it again... that it forever lables that person and defines who they are for life?

Are you literally trying to imply "once a whore always a whore"?

If so, I'm labeling you judgmental and closed minded, and God forbid you ever make a poor choice and people label and condemn you for it for life.

Down vote me as you will. I'm sure many of you will. Whatever you do, don't stop and think or attempt to have any empathy FFS. Attitudes like this are the very reason that it's so often a waste of time to ask for advice on GaG. Just a bunch of opinionated self-righteous people that have no intention of doing anything other than to hawk their personal morals and put down others that diagree.

Sad.

[nalaa]

I think in pretty much every interpretation of the word, porn makes you a whore.

If you mean it as being paid to have sex, well...
If you meant as sleeping with many men, that should be an obvious one too

That being said, what happened to her is hardly porn, it's guys illegally leaking the a sex tape online, after having previously promised they wouldn't. Which I agree has happened to a lot of girls with naked pics and such and it doesn't make them whore.
AND it should without saying that that is no reason to attack her or her family in any way. People are hypocritical. Constantly we get told all men watch porn and it's normal too, but then they go and attack and the women who do it. Hypocrisy much?

[RachelBrigs]

By the technical definition I guess so. If you think she's a whore that's fine and all, but I think it makes you seem a bit pathetic to dedicate so much time and thought into digging up "info" about her and focusing on her as a person. Why do you care so much?

New question; is a guy who obsesses over the morality of a girl who did a porn video a loser, especially considering he takes time out of his life to find info on her and talk about her online?

[Asker]

"bit pathetic to dedicate so much time and thought into digging up "info" about her and focusing on her as a person. " She publicly posted this statement. How is this pathetic?

[RachelBrigs]

And you're obsessing over it and looking for info on her personal life...

[Asker]

I didn't look for shit. I'm just aware there are websites because this topic was posted on reddit and it was fucking mention that they do detective work on these girls. Anyways the face your using shaming tactics and this point so why are we discussing when your just going to continue to insult me because you have a problem with people calling her a whore.

[RachelBrigs]

Like I said, if you think she's a whore that's fine, idc. If in passing a guy said to me "I think porn stars are whores" I'd be like alright. Can't say I disagree. But if he was like "this particular girl is a whore, this is her life story, this is what she's done, this is some personal info I found, this is her face, isn't she such a whore?" I would tell him to find something better to do

[Asker]

"Like I said, if you think she's a whore that's fine, idc. " Strong assumption. My question ask do you agree or disagree with her stance. I never gave my opinion on the matter.

[RachelBrigs]

A) I said IF, I didn't say that you did. B) its a reasonable assumption considering what you've posted. Like I said, I wouldn't necessarily disagree with her being labeled as a whore, but I don't call people whores, cause I don't really care.

[redeyemindtricks]

You can define words however you want to define words. Is she a pink flamingo?

What are you ACTUALLY trying to ask about her?

[BellePepper]

Exactly this

[Cmasterson]

Well, a whore is a prostitute, meaning sex in enhance for money so technically she is one, no matter what the reason for wanting the money, she could've done it just because she wanted to and I would still feel the same. It's not shaming her, i'm just stating what the actual definition is. Everyone always feels the need to justify why they do things that are deemed as "immoral", and she's pretty naive to think it wouldn't end up on the internet if they're paying her.

[Cmasterson]

in exchange*

[AustinMan]

You are in no way a whore. You're an actress and that's all. I confess to being curious about the tape but I think that's natural.

[loofah]

I think by definition she probably falls under whore, but that doesn't make her a bad person or give others permission to bully her and her family. We are all held accountable for the good and bad and misguided decisions we made, it sucks but it's a fact of life. I don't see the point of arguing whether she is a whore or not, but I understand what she means by defending that her life is not over. Good for her, I hope she can rise against this and get her life the way she wants it to be.

[kxera]

I tapped disagree but I think "It depends on the circumstances" or "neither" would have been a more suitable answer.

By definition:
whore
hôr/
nounderogatory
noun: whore; plural noun: whores

1.
a prostitute.
a promiscuous woman.

If the person made one sex tape their entire life and doesn't sleep around constantly, she technically isn't a whore.

[kxera]

If she has sex a lot or has had it with several people then yes, she is indeed a whore or slut.

[GirlsLie]

So not having sex doesn't make me a virgin?

[BuchitaBuchys]

The legit definition of a whore is a person who has sex for money. That's what she does lol She's a whore.

[Felinegirl]

If you have sex in exchange for money or goods, you are technically a prostitute. That doesn't mean she's a bad person in any way, but literally, it makes her a whore.

[Mishii]

This is made up crap I don't believe a word of it

[Asker]

Info of her life: - She was one month into a relationship when she flew to Cali for this shoot, new boyfriend had no idea - Lost her virginity at a house party in High school - Got caught having sex in her bedroom by her dad before - Hooks up with a female friend from time to time, first time was during a 3-some

[Octavius]

@Asker you do know that these are just made up stories the producers have them tell right? Like they hold a card behind the camera having her read it...

[Asker]

@Octavius Actually there is a website dedicated to getting personal info on these girls. All verified.

[RachelBrigs]

Who the hell could verify that information? A detective? No one is going to know any of that for certain

[Asker]

@RachelBrigs Exactly a detective. These guys be calling up family members and friends to find out the truth and doing thorough background checks.

[RachelBrigs]

The "detective" or the "sources" could be lying. Either way, why did you give so many shits.

[Red_Arrow]

Probably every one on here has taken something at some time in their life, from some clothing from a store, to office supplies from work. That is stealing. But does that define us as a thief? We should be careful labeling people. Judge not lest you be judged.

[CheerGirl38139]

For fucks sake I'm glad I'm not the only person that had the guts and empathy to say this.

[Red_Arrow]

@CheerGirl38139 - Common sense 101. Guess they did not take that class. :-)

[FauxGirlNikki]

What does it matter one way or the other? It's her life. If a person does something that your not into than move along. No need to give them some sort of negative label

[ArtDent]

How about an accurate label? Are we allowed to do that?

[FauxGirlNikki]

@ArtDent and who is it that gets to decide the "accuracy"? i doubt that it gets to be her... AKA the ONLY person participating who knows the true motives for her doing what she is doing.

[ArtDent]

Sorry, there are ways to factually and accurately describe her behaviour without getting into value judgments. Nothing wrong with information. What she's doing is an example of 'spin' or 'damage control'.

[babysteph]

It definitely makes her a whore. but for the reasons she mentioned, she isn’t ashamed of it. and that’s fine.

[Berethor]

She is an sex worker there is no way around that, so good luck with finding an boyfriend that would still want her after all of this, even with her good looks. Her trying to play innocent only making it worse.

[ElissaDido]

Still a whore.

[PinkF]

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In the words of Salt n Pepa, "If she wanna be a freak and sell it on the weekend, IT'S NONE OF MY BUSINESS"

[mutedaisy]

She prostituted herself out... That fact still stands, regardless of if she will ever do it again. It doesn't make her a bad person, but it does make her a prostitute.

[xXiTacoXx]

She's still a whore.
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[xcwizit]

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[ThisDudeHere]

Is she a bad person? No.
Is she a whore? Yes.

[thewanderingme]

I guarantee you if she were really a receptionist that did porn she'd be fired. they would make up another reason for it, but they wouldn't keep her on. others would find out and it would hurt business.

[Metlahaed]

By definition, yes that does make her a whore, but so what? What is wrong with being a whore?

[Dansexuall]

Depends on your definition of a whore.. She had sex for money, the actual definition of a woman who has sex for money is?

She may be a whore, but I'd still date her. I love whore's.