Need advice? Friends wife, sleepover, hot tub?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I was at a friends house over the weekend. My wife and I and he and his wife. We went into the hot tub, just chatting etc... My wife went to bed and so did his. I went inside to pee and the girls went to bed. I came back out, he and I had another drink and then went inside. We went to the basement for a beer and both passed out. Sometime he must've gone up to bed with his wife. Mine was in a spare bedroom. I woke up in the a. m. To find his wife (who I've always been attracted to) in the basement cleaning up a bit. She was like right next to me and I realized I had an erection that was peering out of the shorts he gave me to wear. Literally at the same time she saw and had a kind of smiling reaction. She sat down immediately on the couch next to me as I pulled the blanket over to hide my erection. She pulled the blanket down and said, "just let me see"! I totally refused and told her I was embarrassed but she like fought to pull the shorts down. I know I shouldn't have but I let her. She grabbed it and like gave it a quick stroke and held it at the base and looked for a few seconds. Said she heard I was big from my wife but didn't believe it and said that I should call her when we could both be alone and left to go back upstairs. I am so torn. I know I shouldn't. I know I should probably tell him but I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't want to experience a wild time with her. Please give me a little strength or advice on how to handle this.

[AustinMan]

It's partly a moral decision and partly a practical one. I'll leave the moralizing to my evangelical brethren. On the practical side, will you marriage weather the storm of your wife finding out, perish the thought. I'd go for it but that's just me. I would, however, be quite dominant, rough, and demanding of the naughty little wench.

[Asker]

Believe me. The thought has run through my mind. My marriage would definitely be over and I don't want that. Just picturing her tight little body and what fun it would be is clouding my judgement.

[AustinMan]

Any chance they'd want to swing?

[Asker]

As bad as it sounds. I wouldn't want my wife to sleep with anyone else. I know, double standard.

[MissIndependent111]

@Asker Please ignore everything this man says. Nothing good will come out of listening to his advice.

[TazWax]

Go for it. But only if you would be OK with your wife doing the same.

[Asker]

It's very good advice. I would be crushed. Temptation is everywhere... Doing the right thing is sometimes so hard. Thank you

[TazWax]

Yeah, just make sure you tell your wife. Or just make sure you don't make the other chick upset she might try to put what happened all on you be smart.

[MissIndependent111]

Good advice. Tell your wife first. Considering how scummy the other woman is I bet she would try to blame you.

[MissIndependent111]

She is a slut. Tell her husband and your wife that she sexually assaulted you.

[Asker]

My worry is that somehow I get blamed. Like she said I exposed myself or who knows. Guys usually come out like the bad guy in these things.

[MissIndependent111]

Don't worry you will be fine. Just expose her. She deserves to be revealed

[Asker]

Got any ideas on how to? I feel that because it was two days ago in already looking like a shady guy.

[MissIndependent111]

Make sure you have your wife on your side. Then proceed on revealing the other womans actions.

[MissIndependent111]

If it will be 2 against one she will have no excuse.

[Asker]

I've now just received a text from her. She knows my wife is out of town on business and said she needs to come over to get this platter she left at our house during the holidays... Wtf!!!

[MissIndependent111]

Damn don't let her in. Just leave it outside for her to get it. Tell your wife immediately when she comes back.

[Asker]

This is crazy. She just sent me a pic of her in this black dress then said it was an accident.

[MissIndependent111]

Block her from everywhere. Don't respond

[Asker]

Why am I such a pig. I am leaving the house to ensure I don't do this but I have this biggest urge to do this. I'm such a scumbag...

[MissIndependent111]

Just don't do anything stupid. Follow my advice and DO NOT listen to@AustinMan he is just trying to rationalize that sluts actions and protect her. I suggest you block him.

[StickStickity13]

Stay away, this will ruin two marriages

[Asker]

Yeah. You're so right. She's just so hot. That's the only thing running in my head. The reprocussions would be devastating though. I wish she was a big fatty and this would be so cut and dry.

[StickStickity13]

The risk outweights the reward big time