I'm straight but still attracted to women. Does this mean I'm Bisexual?

[baepink]

Im straight and dont like going down on women very much unless its the right girl. When I see a half dressed women or nude, it turns me on more than a nude men. I still need a guy in my sex life though.
So does this mean I'm Bisexual or what is it?

[FakeName123]

Women are physically aroused by pretty much everything. Not gonna lie, many women even react to viewing bonobos having sex physically. Here is the study: indiana.edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf

The key is that womens sexuality is a lot more split in physical and mental arousal than it is for men. Men have a boner and chances are they are also mentally aroused - the same often isn't the case for women. I have explained more about that in my recent MyTake: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24617-what-do-women-want

So why do you find (half-) naked women physically more attractive than men? Because a mans body is by no way aesthetic in terms of visually appealing, but the beauty and aesthetic of a mans body comes from its functionality and strength.
A shoe-designer whose name I forgot once said in an interview: "Put a naked man in shoes and it is a naked man in shoes. Put a naked woman in shoes and it is art."

Additionally womens sexuality is also perceived a lot more based on emphatising. When a man watches porn he replaces the actor mentally in said clip. When a woman watches porn she emphatises with the actress and how she might feel. The same happens when you look at a womans body. You emphatise with it on a personal level as you can relate your own body with it.

[amphet11]

It isn't because of aesthetics its because of the sexual narcissism in female sexuility. Check your link by dr chivers, gay men weren't aroused by women, they were only aroused by men, there isn't some innate aesthetic that causes everone to be sexualy attracted to it. And I feel from a purely aesthetic standpoint, the male body while in shape is better looking than the female body.

[poopedmypantsagain]

No it does not always mean that and so what if you are, girls and women just like to talk more among themselves then the men do.. that is a proven fact.. and what ever makes one happy in this mixed up world no matter what it may be.. is a step in the right direction... myself I wear diapers and rubber pants daily.. I am happy with my life.. hope you are as well... take care

[Anonymous]

Lol. I think it's the same with all of us. Most of us just claim being bisexual as a joke anyway. Its apparently not as shameful to be lesbian or bisexual in society as it seems people find gay. There is a fine line to demarcate these things in psychology so I don't think you are actually bisexual unless you feel extreme about it.

[AnnaLeighMarie]

I have the same problem and I consider myself wholly bisexual, I get turned on by both guys and girls, I sometime masturbate to pictures of naked/semi-naked women and I've been in a few lesbian relationships. I assume you're not really straight, but bi like me.

[peachblossomluck]

Go with your fluid sexuality and stop trying to classify yourself. It's not like you're going to have to wear an arm band and be denied access to a water fountain or restroom unless Donald Trump achieves world domination or something.

[aRandomeGirl]

Well try with a girl and you will be set :p

[candy_41111]

There is so much beauty in the world. I find myself captivated by it too! Its totally normal! If you didn't think something like the curves of a woman attractive in anyway... I'd think you were a robot.

[MyMintFrappe]

You're definitely bi. Don't blame you though cause those girls are HOT!

[bryon]

Bi courious maybe. Just the thoughts doesn't change the who you are at this point. How ever acting upon those thoughts could change that if you prefer the company of women over men

[whatsername]

It means that you're allowed to find any sex attractive and labels are stupid

[joeb73]

woman's body's are a thing of beauty. i feel there are some bi tendency with you. my suggestion is if and when you ever find your self wanting a long term relationship let with what ever sex you choose let them know so it will not be a shock and for all you know they might like the idea

[RainbowFanGirl]

You're bisexual. :)

[Iron_Man]

Thats not straight

[Yumix]

if you are sexually attracted to men and girls then you are bisexual, but you have a preference for men when it comes to sex which is okay. most bisexual people have a preference.

straight would mean that you are only attracted to guys which is clearly not the case how you said

[Jared____]

Wow I'm actually also straight and attracted to women

[fuuuark]

Yes bisexual, how the fuck could you think you are straight, I swear women don't know what it means anymore.

[fuuuark]

And probably closer to being lesbian than straight because the female body turns you on more than the male body.

[baepink]

Thats sexist... and no they turn me on equally. I just think a women's body is more attractive naked and a man feels better. I think Im straight because that's how I was raised and I don't know how to make up my mind about this I guess.

[fuuuark]

go to the dictionary and look up what heterosexual and bisexual means, you want to have sex with girls but think you are straight? ? Please tell me they didn't let you pass high school.

[baepink]

They dont teach that in highschool dumb ass

[baepink]

tf off my page.

[fuuuark]

They teach basic semantics thought

[fuuuark]

*though

[baepink]

maybe in your school not everyone even goes through that class

[baepink]

never heard that in my life

[fuuuark]

You are obviously sexualy attracted to girls, you say so yourself, so then by definition you can't be straight, seriously go look at a dictionary.

[fuuuark]

Hahahaha classic, they don't teach that class hahaha, semantics just means the definition of words

[abc--123]

I would guess bi curious

[jmmmfi2]

It means your really gross I'm afraid

[Anonymous]

Well dahh, of course you bisexual

[Anonymous]

not straight then. i've met fully straight women and they have zero attraction to women

[Anonymous]

You are bisexual