Why is my girlfriend such a prude or whatever?

[Anonymous]

I am 22 and she is 18. I am dating this girl, we have been dating for a month and we're not official yet. Anything remotely sexual bothers her. She used to go on omegle back then and I asked her "whats the weirdest sexual thing you ever seen on omegle?" and she was like "lets change topic I am umcofrotable" She's form Germany and one day I told her that I saw a man on omegle with a huge penis and she replied with "in germany the average size is 5.7" and I asked her "how do you know?" and she replied with "scientific studies, but can we change topic, I am uncomfortable talking about this" Then one say I asked her and she said that the topic of Sex is just uncofmrtable for her and she does not like talking about it. I asked her is her problem talking about it in general or talking about it with me? She said her problem was talking about it with me "she almost made it sound like she is ok with talking about it with some people" I didn't want to ask who, but I assumed her girlfriends, it would really make me mad that she can talk to other guys about this topic but not her own boyfriend, but the reason I assume girls is because I know girls talk about these things to eachother. Anyways I asked her if we knew eachother better or if we became official would you feel more comfortble talkign about this topic and she replied with "maybe but don't get your hopes up" All I know that she had 1 boyfriend before me, thats it. I feel like I can't talk to her about anything sexual or ask her anyhting sexual. Like I'm a virgin and I would like to bring that up, or what if I want to ask her about her past (I don't think a girl has to be forced to disclose their sexual past, but I dont think its wrong for a guy or girl to ask and for the other person to answer if they want) And how do I even bring up the topic of us having sex if the very theme of it is something she avoids.

[FakeName123]

"maybe but don't get your hopes up"

This sounds really bad bro. I think you should take out your balls, put them on the table and confront her about this. Don't get your hopes up sounds like she isn't exactly sure about you as a boyfriend.

[Mesonfielde]

She probably had one boyfriend who gave up after she was constantly rejecting him sexually. It's a red flag if someone's literally "uncomfortable" with the idea of sexuality in general.

[Vesuvius87]

It's only been one month. Give it a break. What else do you talk to her about besides sex topic?

If all you talk to her about is sex topics then no wonder she feels very uncomfortable.

[samhradh_leannan]

You've only been dating for a month. Maybe she needs to get to know you better before she feels comfortable opening up to you sexually.

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't need to talk about sex to have sex. You start kissing; it's passionate. Your hands start groping and roaming. she moans with arousal. You feel her boobs and she doesn't stop you. etc.

[Katy16]

Maybe she's kinda innocent, that's not a bad thing

[jacquesvol]

She was educated that way.

[skeptic007]

I wouldn't trust her

[Anonymous]

It make's some people uncomfortable.. you should respect that. everyone is different and some people just aren't as open as others.

[Anonymous]

If she's not fucking you, she doesn't want to ever fuck you. Girls are just as horny as men, if not hornier.

[snowangle]

Lol so if she doesn't give it up after a month at 18 years old, then she's never gonna want to do it with him? That's bull.

[Opinion Owner]

She should want to fuck him, that's why she's with him. If you're celibate/chastity, you don't date

[Anonymous]

She ain't ready, don't force it.