How was your first threesome?

[Anonymous]

I've lately had some conversations with people who were interested in a threesome with me. It was partially joking, but I think it could very well become a serious question in the near future. Both of my 'options' are mff. I would probably be in for it, but I've never had sex with girls before and Im slightly scared I might do something wrong and get myself embarrassed. How do girls have sex with each other? And what sort of think do people typically do during a threesome? Does anyone have any personal first-time experiences to share?

[VirginiaBeachBum]

My first was an FFM with my wife and a girl she had known (both in and out of bed) since before we met. I didn't know my wife was bisexual at the time (and she didn't consider herself to be until afterwards), but as the three of us started having sex, the other girl started paying much more attention to my wife than to me. She went down on my wife and fingering her while I entered her from behind. I thought my wife was just enjoying a good feeling until the other girl laid down. I was going down on her and looked up and saw them kissing before I started fucking her. Then I started fucking my wife and because of the excitement of the situation, came inside her pretty quickly. I finished by sitting on the bed watching her friend eat her out, and my wife doing the same to her while I masturbated. After that night, she told me they had been sexually involved for a couple of years before we met. She joined us many more times, and she and my wife got together sometimes by themselves with my blessing. My wife and I also had a few MFMs with a guy she used to work with, and to be honest, those were the most exciting to me. He was a bit younger than her, and quite inexperienced, so it was fun teaching him things to do with her. His first time entering her he was quite nervous, but I reassured him everything was OK, and that anything she was willing to do with him was fine with me. After that, everything just kind of fell into place with all three of us. I also had an MFM with another couple, but that experience wasn't so good. The other couple lied about a couple of major things, so I had some regrets about it. But I don't have any regrets about the ones with my wife. Those were great! Threesomes aren't for everyone, and some people will judge you harshly, but if you are either in a very secure, trusting, committed relationship, or if it is fully understood that it is a no strings attached situation with all 3 of you, you'll likely enjoy it. Just make sure you set down ground rules and follow them, especially if you have an emotional attachment to one of the other people.

[PinkF]

^Some people are REALLY emotionally mature/ open minded. Most people don't like sharing their significant other. Infidelity is a huge reason why people split up, but then you have people like this. Who really have a different mentality of sex.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

@PinkF Thanks, for the comment. I was always willing to share her body because I always knew her heart belonged to me, and mine to her. It was just physical activity for the sake of fun. I didn't see her having sex with others during our marriage (as long as each of us were open, honest, and upfront about it) as being any different than the sex she had before we met.

[Asker]

Thats cool. I think I'd enjoy a relationship like that.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

So hot to read 😂

[Anonymous]

If I wanted to disappoint two people at once, I'd have dinner with my parents.

[truthbeknown]

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

[redeyemindtricks]

Very nice.

[Asker]

This deserved a mho

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I kinda had one. I didn't have sex with the guy but my friend did.

We were in his bedroom.
My female friend and I started making out while he watch, then he got a boner and start kissing her while I was blowing him. Then we change and she blew him and I kissed him. He was lying on the bed.
After that we changed the position and I was in reverse cowgirl position sitting on his chest while my friend was on his cock. My friend and I made out in this position.
Then we changed again (you could ride him too, I didn't because I'm a virgin), she was on doggy position and I was under her. He fucked her from behind (not anal, just behind lol) and I kissed and licked her tits.
We changed again and she was in cowgirl position and I faced her and kept making out. Then we had an awkward moment and she said I needed to move so she could cum, I did that and I watched them until she cum (awkward but a funny anecdote to share). When she was done his boyfriend asked us to take the load, we blew him together. When he was done he made us kiss with his cum in our mouths. Kissing my friend has been one of the best things I've done. Best lips I've kissed.
Then he kissed us and I loved him for that because he didn't care about the cum. Guys.. Want a 3some? KISS AFTER A BLOWJOB.

[GFEDATY]

All I can say is 'WOW'

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@GFEDATY Said the same thing after watching your pic, beautiful lady ;)

[GFEDATY]

Thanks

[archiz]

damn amy,... eghh.. I am missing out on a lot D:

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@archiz XD should visit to don't make you miss a thing ;)

[archiz]

@yumix what do you say? read the post :P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@archiz hahaha we have talked about this and we all agree I think ;) but wait... Mr Yumix thinks I'm too young for him, he childzoned me ¬¬

[Yumix]

@archiz why have I missed this. and we should give her a real threesome :P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Yumix once I'm 18, no? you childzoner fucker :(

[archiz]

one more year and you ll be good to go. in leb you re still illegal haha why didn t you have sex though? waiting for a relationship or what? It s weird since you already do the rest

[Yumix]

you are above the age of consent, we can fuck as much as we want. but sending nudes would be illegal, but that doesn't matter for this :P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@archiz then we gotta go to Luxembourg and fuck @Yumix :* who all of a sudden is worried about nudes XD archiz... nah man, not waiting for a relationship, it's just that I haven't found the right person. It's not that I wanna put my v card on a pedestal, I just don't want to regret it by doing it with some teen asshole, Yumix on the other hand, is a grown ass man ;) XD

[Yumix]

eh thanks :P and not worried... just need to take care of my reputation I have on here xD

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Yumix hahahaha you definitely got a warning but you don't wanna tell me XD

[Yumix]

nope, definitely not the case lol. 100% honest here :P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Yumix weird change then lol

[Yumix]

eh you really think I was serious? LOL send me as many nudes as you want I won't complain xD

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Yumix nah man, now I'm mad at you XD

[Yumix]

why? :o

[Yumix]

ah the "nah man" was for sending me nudes" eh well you should know me better lol

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Yumix better go to luxembourg to make it legal XD

[archiz]

you two seem to be having fun :p I wanna take part in the nude exchange Xd

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@archiz gotta make a fb group then XD

[Yumix]

@archiz you only want to receive them and not give any :/

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Yumix https://oi59.tinypic.com/f03two.jpg

...

[archiz]

@Yumix eh...:P I might open up to it who knows

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@archiz niiiice, we have a online 3some coming @yumix

[Yumix]

@archiz @WhatTheHellAmy count me in :P

[erandal]

For me the biggest issue with a threesome was always 'what about afterwards'.

What if the experience is awful and you still have to see one or both of those people again and what if you want a serious relationship with one of those people as they will then know you would be ok to have sex with other people. That doesn't make the 'I am faithful' banner appear on your CV anywhere.

I had my experiences with one boyfriend. First we hired an escort in Amsterdam, that was a huge amount of fun and she taught me so much about sex. Second time a friend of his joined us. That was amazing at the time but envy and trust became a big issue after that and we broke up not long afterwards.

[redeyemindtricks]

Embarrassment is a non-issue.

Someone should be fit for the director role, here. If you have 3 follower types, it will just be awkward and not fun.
Make sure someone is willing and able to be a leader, here.

[eurochick]

I have done both ffm and fmm 3 somes. They are fun. With girls and sex u just touch or play as much as you are confident to. Mostly it might be rubbing her clit while he is inside her. Happy to talk more.

[redeyemindtricks]

"With girls and sex u just touch or play as much as you are confident to." ^^ Isn't that what you do with boys, too? LOL

[GFEDATY]

Sound extremely sexy!!!

[Mishae]

Female female male threesomes are from me a drag because they involve bisexual behavior for the female. I'll do it and I will participate in oral sex with another female but I realize that it is mostly for the turn on of the guy who thinks it's cool. I would much rather have male male female threesomes where I get pounded one after another. Then I'm involved in my own pleasure rather than getting off to some guys ego

[ArtDent]

You don't think men are turned on watching you fellate while he penetrates? Interesting

[Mishae]

@ArtDent I did not say that. Don't put words in my mouth. I said I prefer male male female. I've been to both and participated well. It is my opinion that a man prefers female female male. I never said it was holy one way or another. I just said that in general having participated in many threesomes, that a male prefers female female in contrast to most women

[Mishae]

@ArtDent of course it to turn on to a guy. I just said that most women prefer female female male and most guys prefer male male female. So you are wrong when you postulate that I don't believe guys get turned on by all sorts of stuff. Don't turn around my words to say, "interesting." You're sounding like a self-serving guy attempts to dominate the conversation by putting the girl down by saying, "interesting." That is discounting my opinion.

[ArtDent]

Why are you upset? I read your answer, you were clear that you didn't really like playing with women because it was just about turning on men. So I pointed out that an mmf situation is the same thing.

[Mishae]

@ArtDent typical guy. When I disagree with him he immediately says don't get upset. I'm not upset I just pointed out reality. Not interested in talking to you anymore. You're trying to usurp dominance.

[ArtDent]

It's not THAT you disagreed, it's HOW you disagreed. Typical woman going straight to gender shaming.

[LoverMike]

So the pounded one after another is what you would rather have? Just vaginal sex or oral too?

[Mishae]

@ArtDent you are putting words in my mouth. I didn't say I said what I prefer. If a guy gets turned on by it so that's great. I was expressing my personal preference. I resent you putting the comment, "interesting" after as a suffix donating your opinion of me. Just to reiterate, I was expressing my personal preference. Your antagonistic abrasive question was clearly inferred. Asshole

[ArtDent]

I know a woman with a phd at stanford, she's a weirdo too. Do you know her? Her name is Karen.

[PinkF]

Look up 3some porn.

Honestly I have never been THAT horny so 3somes don't spark any interest in me. I find vaginas boring and I attach feelings with sex, so it would end in a horribly jealous mess.

[Asker]

I don't know what to think of vaginas. I find mine ugly and dont really feel the desire to touch any, but maybe if I get caught in the moment. I do like boobs and butts and kissing though :p Emotions other than embarrassment wouldn't be an issue. My most likely "chance" is with the guy im fooling around with and another girl he's been sleeping with. Im not sure how serious the offer was but even still I think it's likely it will come around with someone eventually.

[redeyemindtricks]

Haha, no, DO NOT look up porn. Porn, like anything else involving a camera, is a series of completely unnatural, awkward poses made to create the illusion of reality on camera. With 3 people the poses are even less realistic. Yeah, no. This is one area where porn is so unlike the real thing that it may as well be sci-fi.

[Asker]

@redeyemindtricks yeah I thought so too

[PinkF]

What about amateur porn? Homemade porn? That's pretty realistic

[PinkF]

@redeyemindtricks

[redeyemindtricks]

I dunno. I haven't watched much of that. Remember, the target audience for porn is usually guys, though. When I picture a FFM, I don't really picture much, if any, in the way of interacting with the other girl's pussy. It's mostly just playfun, ya know? Running fingers through each other's hair, maybe licking a nipple, maybe kissing each other (because boy lips are just not as good, let's face it). But, I'm not attracted to women, so that's where I'm coming from. If it were me, I'd just be enjoying stuff sensually (hair, lips, clothes etc), with the girls, and just teasing the living shit out of the dude. That ^^ is if I was gna play with the other girl at all (which we're assuming here). If it was 2 girls like me, it would just be focus on the man's pleasure, because... well, I like men. (: If you had to do just one thing, I'd say get in there and rim his ass right when he's about to cum inside the other girl. He'll still be fantasizing about that 40 years later. LOL (cont'd)

[redeyemindtricks]

The other thing that seems to get a particular reaction from guys, is... "encouraging" each other. Like, if you push the other girl's head onto his cock for a blowjob. Or if you grab him with yr hand and guide him inside the other girl. Or, anything else in the "making it happen" category. Especially if you need to dispel awkwardness.

[drewtacular]

the 3 some I was in was a mmf nothing bisexual. she was blowing me and he was doing her doggy style

[dudeman]

i think threesomes lower you chances of having a serious relationship in the future.

[Asker]

Why do you think that? I've already openly had a friends with benefits so at that part Im already ruined anyways.

[dudeman]

i say that because its true. the more colorful your sexual history the lower your odds are of finding a decent man who will accept you as a wife and mother to his children.

[Asker]

1. I don't want children 2. I wouldn't want a judgmental man. He'd better accept me as I am. I would accept his past too if it were wild. What's wrong with being adventurous? Im an atheist, all my morals are based on practical things. 'Its wrong because its wrong' isn't my thing.

[dudeman]

nothing is wrong with being wild nobody said anything that it was. i too am an atheist. that doesn't mean i dont have a sense of self respect or honor.

[Asker]

I have a lot of self respect. How would that conflict with choosing a partner with a wild background? Honor on the other hand is one of those values based on nothing but itself in my opinion :p it's a natural thing though, all about social status and such.

[dudeman]

no accepting a women whos had a threesome means the man has no self respect. lack of honor is a sign of a dying civilization.

[Asker]

How is acceptijg a woman who has hada threesome a sign of a lack of self respect?

[dudeman]

because she's a low value women.

[Asker]

How does it make her low value? I dont know what's the English word, but in my language this would count as a 'circle argument'

[dudeman]

because she gave herself away easily. that makes her low value for men with no self respect.

[Asker]

I disagree. There is no such thing as "giving yourself away". Im not giving anything, Im exchanging. They give me the same i give them: an experience.

[dudeman]

you're being willfully dense. were done here. your value as a women to a large if not majority of the male population will be greatly diminished.

[Asker]

You're being denser. I've had to turn several people down in the past few months. Most people in my surroundings are very open minded. Most knew about my history and none seemed to care.

[dudeman]

i too am very open minded. what does that have to do with anything. I've had year long relationships with women who have had multiple threesomes. i had no intentions on ever marrying them but i had no problem having sex with them in the mean time.

[redeyemindtricks]

This sort of thing would decrease yr value to men with "low sociosexuality" (google it, read it). It will NOT decrease yr value to men with whom you are actually long-term compatible. In fact, in that sense, it's a pretty effective filter for people you're not well matched with. This opinion owner clearly just lies on the lower-sociosexuality end of the scale, and needs someone who thinks about sex the way he does. Which is fine, of course.

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks I think even men who get around will also view her as less valuable. Even myself I've slept with a lot of women.

[redeyemindtricks]

You don't write like someone who's had tons of women. No offense. If you really DO "get around", though, this standard won't do much, other than to ensure you get thrown into a long-term relationship with someone with whom you're badly mismatched. I've seen players strapped to prudes, dude. It's ugly. It NEVER works out well. The player goes back to playin' and breaks the prude's heart, or, else, the player just rots on the inside while they live their little prudish life together. In the terms the psych people use, it's high vs. low "sociosexuality". If you get into a long-term relationship with someone with way lower or higher sociosexuality, it WILL be a miserable relationship. No way around that. Again, I suspect you're mostly lying; I'm pretty good at reading these things from the way people write. But, if you are NOT actually lying, then you really need to think long and hard about this one, because your standards will lead you into a life of frustration and misery.

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks nope been with prudes in the past. i feel more comfortable with the. I've been with I don't know 40-50 women from what i can remember and i prefer women with not such a colorful history. just because I've got around doesn't mean i want my women to have got around. i have passed the stage of frustration that my lifestyle brings. im simply not going to get married to a women who gets around and marry a low number women. i feel more comfortable with them because i respect them as proper women. that allows me to treat her how i feel a man should treat the women in his life.

[dudeman]

men and women do not want the same things from eachother. thats a simple as i can put it.

[redeyemindtricks]

Don't say I didn't warn you.

No, really.

You're the same guy from that other conversation, where you were all like, "She needs to tell me everything she's ever done sexually." Like one of those Scientology run-downs, where she's just giving you a whole list of shit that you can use as emotional blackmail.

Why, though?

I'll say again what I said there: Women lie about shit. Really, dude, they do. If you do what you're doing here, you're just gna end up with a woman who's good at lying about her sexual history (AND YOU WONDER WHY THEY LIE, hmmm).

There are tons and tons of studies on the sociosexuality thing. There are also tons and tons of studies showing that "fact disclosure" does not do jack diddly shit to promote intimacy or trust, whereas emotional disclosure does.
E. g., www.affective-science.org/.../LaurenFBPl1998.pdf

Like, really, dude, you are pressing all of the wrong buttons for a long-term relationship, here, and none of the right buttons.

It seems yr just way too insecure about "colorful history". Way too insecure.

[Asker]

@redeyemindtricks thank you

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks insecurity has nothing to do with this. its closer to pride issue. i care for facts not for intimacy purposes but for car fax purposes. people lie because they are liars. also no i dont act like this in real life. in real life im good at pretending that this stuff doesn't bother me. im really good at it actually.

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks also a women that gets around im glad i push the wrong buttons. i dont want a relationship with her anyway other then a sexual one.

[redeyemindtricks]

"in real life im good at pretending that this stuff doesn't bother me." Your personal life must be SO happy and satisfying... LOL Really, dude? Pretending to be someone you're not? Wasting time with people you don't even respect? All that, just for some meaningless sex? I mean, sex is pretty awesome, but meaningless sex is not THAT awesome. Really, it isn't. You make me sad.

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks how do i know i respect them or not till i have the car fax. respect must means something different to you than me. like you said girls lie and this is the only way i know how to get the truth. if you pretend this sort of stuff turns you on.

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks also why would this make you sad?

[redeyemindtricks]

Why would it make me sad? That your dating life consists of doing detective work with a make-believe fake personality? Gee dude, I dunno. /: You know, you could always just learn to read people. That's a lot less work in the long run, and it will have better results.

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks i can read people, some people i dont need to do this with. some people im on the fence about. also my personality doesn't change just what i say between the sheets. also reading people is just a guess its not as definitive.

[redeyemindtricks]

Well, still, you worry too much. Have fun between those sheets with yr fake personality. (:

[dudeman]

@redeyemindtricks i worry very little actually. im done with my worrying i have come to my conclusions. worrying is a state of not knowing. im past that. i already have my mind made up thus no worry.

[DBAOracle]

I didn't like it so much...

[neoagent1]

I've had 2, 1 fmf and one mfm. Both times were with a bi female friends with benefits I had. I felt left out of both. She got a majority of the action both times. If I never had one again I'd be fine with it.

[ThatBeachGirl]

I have never had one.

[skeptic007]

I was asked too join an orgy never did it not my cup of tea

[Deadpool7699]

Iv'e had a couple of threesomes, is it you and two other girls or you, aa girl and a guy?

[Asker]

Girl girl guy probably

[Deadpool7699]

ah ok, one thing which is pretty fun if evryones up for it it... The guy fucks girl-1 in doggy style while girl-1 is licking girl-2's pussy

[Mr2kinky]

Mine was awesome. The girls made out while j played with their pussies, then they took turns fucking and sucking me and took turns licking one another.. Great stuff

[Anonymous]

It was amazing. The wife talkef our super hot babysitter to join us for a threesome after we came home from a night out. Sometimes my wife collects her after school for some fun. Thanks to viagra I can satisfy two women at the same time.

[Anonymous]

It was amazing, truly a mindblowing experience, these girls gave me a standing ovation and then I woke up.

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But yeah I'm not ready to disappoint two people at once lol

[Asker]

Could you be a bit more specific? Im wondering what to expect.