It seems as so that you don't want to have sex because mentally you're just not with the physical attraction. I have been down that road. It's not your appearance that makes you physically attractive, it's your attitude... Someone can be sexy as hell, but being disrespectful, or having a ugly attitude can highly effect one's attraction towards you, and Im sure that's where you stand with him.
Him disrespecting you is making you not want to be intimate, and I think you should discuss that with him, tell him how he makes you feel and how that effects the way you see him now. Sometimes when people are in a relationship for a long time, they tend to get too comfortable and forget who they really are, or once were, and the reasons why those two people fell in love in the first place, and need a reality check to snap out of it.
U put that in perfect
I read somewhere that sex starts in the morning when you first greet eachother. What you said is true, you have to treat your spouse the same as when you just meet them.
Thank you! I hope I have helped you! :)
Personally I feel like you should never with hold sex, however if you're not in the mood then it's simply you're not in the mood. Also a lot to do with it is your resentment towards him thats why you're not wanting to have sex with him, so sit him down and TALK to him tell him what he's doing wrong.
Sounds like maybe the relationship needs some help. Have you thought about therapy?
Ya I should make an appointment
Stiff him. You don't have to keep to his schedule especially when it's rather demanding and if he's going to act like that you definitely shouldn't. He clearly takes you for granted, whether you need to snap him out of it or if he'll just always be this immature isn't my call.
Yeah if I was in a relationship that long I would expect the sex to die down a little and if it was hardly ever I'd probably complain but your situation is way out of proportion. Your completely on the right her and he's just being immature
Anyone who makes their girlfriend feel bad is being quite selfish.
You have differing libidos. That's normal in life. If he can't understand that, he's being rather childish and selfish.
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I have the opposite problem 😂 I'm the one who wants sex all the time. Though he shouldn't make you feel bad about it. He has to respect that maybe you're just not in the mood at the moment.
Seriously... he has a hissy because your not in the mood! Dude needs to grow-up, the relationship is not all about sex!
Breakup.
There's no point saving this shitstorm. He doesn't respect you, you don't put out, seriously, just pull the plug. It's already over and neither of you seem to realize it.
You've been together since 14? Jesus Christ... But anyways, break up with him or tell him to calm down..
everyday? Not wrong. I can't even see myself doing it, because after a while it would be come more like a task than an intimate moment you share
What @ksmiles4u. Me thinks it's time to have a talk with him or move along.
It's a difficult situation if the appetite is so different
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