How many straight men love anal stimulation?

[Anonymous]

If you're one of those straight men who enjoy anal play, explain how you'd have a woman do this? For how long, when during sex? I need some more details and advice in this area.

[Pennpa]

I'm not anti gay rights, or anti-gay; but I am a 100% straight male. As far as anal play goes, I never saw the value in it for straight guys at least. Then, I fell deeply in love with a very sexual girl and she pushed all my buttons visually. 5'1", 105 pounds but just curvy enough. She was very sexually aware, whereas I was not. I was kinda boring in the sack honestly. Once I told her that I loved her, she reciprocated and opened my eyes to what sex could be like. OMG. We had a 4 hour session and I she opened my eyes to what sex could be. I'd never had. Woman take the lead like that. I had about 60 pounds of muscle on her but basically owned my ass physically and mentally. She shattered my boundaries. It began with the best kissing of my life. We stripped each other naked. Then she laid me back on her bed and kissed my nose, then my bare chin and worked her way down. She licked circles on my neck, bit my ear lobe. Then she worked her way down my chest, sucking my nipples hard and licking me like she was cleaning me or something. I can barely keep it together as she licks the spaces between my abs. I'm ready to pop. I gripped her waist to plant her on top of my wet penis. I had to fuck. It was too much to handle. The nasty little things she was saying in my ear. Then she stops me, grabs my dick hard at the base and runs circles around the head of my cock and in the urethra. Then down the shaft, up and down. Fully sucking me hard by this point. The tip of her goes to the balls, glides her rounds to that taint area, just flicking her tounge. It's feels crazy, but I'm nervous because I've never had a girl head down that close to my butt hole. My virgin butthole. I say "whoa, where are you going?" I'll never forget, this little ex-gymnast just took control. She told me to to shut up and only tell her if she hurts me. I'm nervous. I told her. I don't play with the butt hole. She flips my legs in the air and holds them back with her arm like she's changing a diaper. She rims just the tip of her tounge around the very edge of my anus. I couldn't breath. It felt like the best feeling of my life, but the most nervous. It feels so amazing, but so wrongs. She switched her voice up, bit more sultry. She licks the crack of my bare behind, and tells me "you like it when I clean you. I can tell you like it, you like it when a pretty girl licks you clean. Then she took her head back for a split second to get a superior angle. My legs are back even further, my...

[Pennpa]

... butthole is wet from being licked, and I'm freaking out. Then I actually ripped one totally by accident right in her face. I actually farted in my girl's face. I thought it was over, she must have known I was humiliated, because made no deal about it. She just went back in and licked me really softly, then her tounge went further inside and applied a bit more pressure, and her little tounge was all the way inside my butt really eating and finished pulling her tounge out with the suction of big kiss. I exploded inner in her hand. Those tiny hands. She rubbed me off for a bit mad flips me on my stomach. I'm thinking I'm getting a massage. Lol, fart again by accident, this one is loud and sounds wet. And she just spanked my behind so hard for like 4 minutes. Then rides my warm ass but cowboy style, rubbing one out on my red cheeks and lets out this scream as she soaking wet. Tears coming out of her eyes. Soaked in sweat... TBC

[Anonymous]

Males who think it's "Gayish" need to check their homoerotic fears...
I have been doing self pleasure with my ass since I was a teen, it is a very pleasurable area, but I am straight. I introduced it to my wife after a few years of getting her comfortable with ass play from me to her and she loves doing it.

[Asker]

Right I think I'd know if my man was gay by now. He checks out women not men, doesn't watch gay porn. He's into my ass the most but still enjoys my boobs and loves my vagina! Besides I don't have a penis and he's not asking for one. so what red flag do men really want me to look out for here that's ignorant thinking..

[Opinion Owner]

yeah there is nothing to look out for. You guy isn't gay nor does he have hidden or repressed gay feelings. He simply enjoys pleasure and the anus is a very high pleasure zone. Unfortunately it is often shamed by ignorant people into being either gross or gay so men won't talk about it or try it. These fools don't know what they are missing but that's their problem. But back to your original question... how I got my wife to do it, was she started with one finger while giving me oral, then it went to two as she stroked my prostate while giving me oral. Eventually she wanted to try pinning me and I was ok with that and now it's just a regular part of our sexual routine.

[Anonymous]

My guy is into it.

He was adamant he wasn't interested in it. But he was trying to get me to let him mess with mine and I was having none of that nonsense (that shit is painful) so I countered with, "well how would you feel if it was you?" And in an attempt to get me into it he said we could try.

And we did. And he was shockingly really into it (the male g spot is up there) and... no dice for me haha I'm still not letting him anywhere near mine but he's all about his.

[ak666]

I don't like it, but it has nothing to do with homosexuality or anything of that sort. Otherwise want might call having anal sex with a woman as being "rather gay", as the guy is choosing to have sex with a hole that men have in common. I imagine it might just be a stimulation point for some guys.

I just don't feel comfortable at all about it.

That said, to be honest, I haven't really tried it. Every time a girl gets her finger near there, I'm jumpy and ticklish.

But I imagine it's like asking whether a girl likes anal sex. She could say "no" even if she never tried it, and I would respect her answer. I wouldn't think it's dishonest even if she never tried it, as just the basic thought might make her jumpy and freaked out and kind of turn her off. I mean, at the heart of this is a poop hole, and not every finds poop-related stuff sexy.

Mostly I just like plain old-fashioned sex perfectly enough without a girl sticking a finger up my bum. That kind of thing makes me uncomfortable, and when I'm comfortable I can't concentrate and enjoy sex anyway.

[ak666]

want/one/

[Boatbish]

MY MAN LIKE IT
BETTER THAN U

[MrMysteryMan]

I'd be down. I had a girl finger me while giving me head and it was AMAZING! Or getting my anal area/taint licked, especially while getting head or a hand job at the same time. I always do the same when giving to the girl.

I'm not so sure about a dildo or pegging. That's getting a little too... well, let's just say I rather be the "pitcher" and not the "catcher". I would feel very MAN-ly getting bent over like that.

[samanthabee]

I know my guy roomate does... hehe

[Asker]

Gay or guy? Lol

[samanthabee]

He is very strait. and he has a vibe to use... he does not know that i know he has it... lol

[Asker]

I seem to attract men who are into it I'll open a guy up never been with a man with a vibrator though. Maybe he's bi? Who knows

[samanthabee]

I think its just another way to stimulate a great orgasm... my roomie REALLY got off when he used it...

[Yumix]

why does he need to be bi? guys have the same amount of nerves down there PLUS the prostate... that stimulating alone can give the guy a great orgasm. so it makes more sense for the guy doing it than for girls... but since everyone screams gay as soon as you admit it most won't even try and think the same. it's very well possible that he likes doing it without being attracted to guys at all

[Asker]

@Yumix I'm saying bi if he's using a dildo? Lol

[Berethor]

Not many, and those who do are usually not so straight in the first place, because it's gayish.

[NJ_Casanova]

No thanks

[Spencer10]

Love? No. But do I like it every once in a while? Sure. Stimulating the prostate can lead to amazing orgasms. Not something i want to do every time but if the woman wants to try a little anal play I will give it a try.

[ConsultantIsBack]

um not for me

[CheerGirl38139]

________ ha!

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[ConsultantIsBack]

@CheerGirl38139 ok maybe you itd be ok wait wut?

[alfonsosloan45]

They aren't straight if they do.

[REALisRARE]

This is definitely not true. Enjoying something that feels good doesn't change what gender you're attracted to.

[Asker]

That's not true, its just not commonly talked about in the straight community from men to other men. A woman performing anal play on a man would make him straight. If he wanted another man to do it, it would make him gay. Of he enjoys the feeling it has nothing to do with what he's attracted to! Let's be more open minded here :)

[alfonsosloan45]

Not based on the traditional forms of masculinity which I bet you hold him accountable for.

[Asker]

So you're saying it's not manly? I feel bad for men. I swear, spit, wear sweats and baggy tees from time to time and enjoy taking the lead in my own life but that doesn't make me a lesbian. Or any less of a woman. I'd never hold any man to that. Society makes me sick.

[alfonsosloan45]

Do you expect men to pay for the first date? Or do you expect men to ask you out? Do you even prefer any of that?

[Asker]

Eh not really, I'll just as much offer to pay the bill and step up to tell someone I like them if I do even ask them out on a date. I go with the flow.

[alfonsosloan45]

Offering to pay does nothing. You should be paying.

[Asker]

Sorry but thats off topic and i don't see where you're going with this? Explain more if you'd like. I'm currently in a relationship and have put a lot of $ into it. Dates, gifts, bills and much much more even though I feel that's none of your business. I'm not going to fight about a bill with a man I first met when more than enough women are capable of paying we know men like to so let them anyways we're talking first date here. For example when I was dating I let a man pick up tab pay for everything didn't even offer first date at the bar second date with the same man he wanted to pay and when he went off to the bathroom or was at the pool table I bought him shots and beer anyways and brought it to him. I don't ever personally want to feel like a user and it's a nice gesture to show a man you're dating you're not selfish. But depends on the man some take great offense to a woman who pulls out money. Specially first date if he asked you out.

[NJ_Casanova]

That's Bi-curious?

[Berethor]

Asker the act himself is very gayish, even if it's with an woman, straight men would not want to have dicks or other similar things in his ass. Woman on top is not the same thing as sticking things in a man's ass, and woman on top it's an much more okey way for woman to "take the lead". An "anal play" on man is both gayish and unmanly.

https://www.wordnik.com/words/gayish

[Asker]

@Berethor what's gay about enjoying a certain feeling or even willing to explore woman and man? Gay is simply man Attracted to another man. Sexuality doesn't own sexual acts. Lesbians give oral but can't claim that act. They also use dildos but are lesbian. Where are you guys pulling your logic from? Defend your average straight man who likes anal play. :)

[ThatBritishLad]

I'd bang a trap.
... N-No homo.
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[GreenTiger]

I like the idea of it and watching it on porn, but I won't try it in real life lol. I'm perfectly happy with the Vagina for now. For now.

[BruceTrails]

Not my thing I'm afraid.

[frederikwinter]

I like licking, kissing and some weak penetration. But the wish has to come from her.

[Slater76]

It feels amazing when the prostate is stimulated. Love it 😍

[willdublin]

nothing to dowith sexual oritentation.

[Anonymous]

During a deep throat blow job is best for me, but u have to find his cum button, it's umm not your ordinary bust a nut to say the least

[Anonymous]

i like sticking things in my ass and massaging my prostate.

[Anonymous]

As to respect the other person involved I will post this as anon.

When my girl ate me out I was amazed at how awesome it was! It took quite a bit of trust on both our parts, but it was totally worth it. She's bi and she said she just thought about it like she was going down on a girl. Loved every second of it :)

[Anonymous]

If I could find a girl into pegging...

[Anonymous]

i do but only rimming