I have a weird pregnancy fetish? Kinda embarrassed?

[Anonymous]

Since a young age (like 8 or something) any time I'd play games with my friends back then, it had to involve babies. I used to stuff my shirt and pretend I was pregnant whether I was pretending to be a human or a tiger or whatever. If I was alone I'd play with my barbies and pretend they were pregnant too. I remember asking for another doll when I was around 11 and continuing to pretend I was pregnant and al the rest. Then I began to draw families with children and the mum would always be pregnant in the pictures. Sometimes if draw myself with my very own family too. I'm an adult now, and have always been curious about pregnancy. Now, I've yet to have sex. But any thought of my boyfriend talking about pregnancy sends me through the roof, I get so turned on. Anytime I see a pregnant belly I get so turned on. I've even saw me watching videos on YouTube of a growing belly and I actually end up masturbating. I don't know how to stop all this? I feel it's pretty abnormal. I'm completely straight by the way, just can't explain why I've always been like this? Im totally normal otherwise.

[ThisDudeHere]

Well whatever it is that you do with said fetish, just make sure you don't bring someone in to the world simply because you wanted an inflated belly. A child should come when you're ready, not when you're horny.

[Asker]

Yeah I know that's what I'm wary of. I don't want any kids right this moment, but I do want some in future.

[orphan]

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wet yet?

[orphan]

if it makes u feel any better... i knew of a guy who liked to wtch girls taking a shit... in his defense all the squinting and pushing and facial expressions do mirror an orgasm.

[Asker]

Nope

[orphan]

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how bout now? gross.

[Asker]

Nah don't find that appealing to be honest

[orphan]

i'd like to see this youtube video you referred to in your question please.

[Asker]

Why?

[orphan]

cuz unheard of to me. i'm curious. that's all.

[Asker]

It's just like the stages of a pregnancy. Like the stages of a growing belly.

[orphan]

show me and i'll stop replying.

[Asker]

It's not just a video though. It can be any video

[orphan]

show me the one you masturbated to. no judgements.

[Asker]

Noooooo

[orphan]

why? did u comment on it?

[Asker]

No. Just can't be bothered.

[samhradh_leannan]

You definitely seem to have a fetish. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but if it's impacting your life more than you feel comfortable with, I would recommend seeking the advice of a therapist of some sort.

[Asker]

It doesn't impact my life or anything, it's just like I've always had an urge to be pregnant and have a kid. Not sure why :/

[samhradh_leannan]

Well, as long as you're not unhappy and not inhibited from living your life the way you want to, I don't think you need to worry.

[Asker]

No everything's fine :) maybe i just have a really strong urge to be a parent or something

[Mandycandy42]

If you're really curious, stop taking any contraceptives and see what happens with your boyfriend. Let yourself become pregnant your first try.

[Asker]

I'm not ready for a baby though. Why are you telling me to get pregnant, how will that help anything?

[Mandycandy42]

Will satisfy your natural desires and curiosities. Nobody is really "ready" for a baby actually.

[Asker]

Yeah that's true although maybe my boyfriend wouldn't want that. Some people seem more ready for babies than others though!

[Mandycandy42]

Nobody really "wants it" in this matter, but for you, seems like you have baby fever. You;d be surprised at how much you are actually ready.

[Asker]

I do want it I just feel I'm not at the right stage in life right now. Yeah I think maybe I do have baby fever. It's quite tame at the minute but it can get really really bad at times.

[Mandycandy42]

If it gets really bad, you're probably ready even though you may not feel it right away. Like I said there really is no "right time" Happened to a friend of mine with her boyfriend, surprised and shocked at first but grew into it, and once the baby was born, became amazing loving parents.

[Asker]

That's lovely to hear :) maybe I am just ready to have a baby, I guess.

[Mandycandy42]

Thats how I feel at least. Your body is telling you in so many ways that you are ready. Plus your at that age where you can handle having a child. Things can come together for you, and having a child may prove to what you are wanting at this point. Men can have baby fever too, judging by your last man.

[Asker]

I feel ready in so many ways 😳 Like being around babies makes me feel mushy. I don't even want to go out anymore, can't imagine any better feeling than cradling a newborn in my arms. I think my last man did have baby fever? And him asking if we could have a baby over and over only made it worse. Kinda wish we'd never split, we would have been good parents.

[Mandycandy42]

Thanks for the MHO, as you feel and know you are ready, will you try to become pregnant?

[Asker]

Not quite yet I don't think! Soon though :)

[BellePepper]

It is a weird fetish but pretty much any fetish is weird. As long as it doesn't interfere with your life, you're fine.

[Asker]

Yeah it doesn't interfere but I just don't get why I'm like this :S

[BellePepper]

Maybe your brain is just like REALLY into fertility or something?

[Asker]

Maybe. I'm not sure :S not sure why it fascinates me so much.

[astrOnaut01]

I've got the same thing, except I never pretended to be pregnant as a kid and all that. It's just a weird "fetish", everyone has them.

[Asker]

Well you're a guy I suppose! Haha. Do we really all have weird fetishes? People must be good at hiding them.

[astrOnaut01]

Well, it would be more accurate to say that most people have some sort of kink/fetish. Perhaps half of those people are into "weirder shit" like you and I are. A lot of them hide it out of shame and some maybe don't even know yet.

[Asker]

Well I'm kind of ashamed of mine so I do tend to hide it. Even as a child I used to think... this is weird.

[astrOnaut01]

There's nothing to be ashamed of, but it is a good idea to keep it to yourself. At least until you meet someone you are totally comfortable with.

[Asker]

Yeah I think so too. My last boyfriend used to get incredibly turned on when we would start talking about pregnancy etc. When things were getting hot he'd sometimes whisper 'let's make a baby' and insist he was being serious.

[Polocrew]

That's pretty weird, yea

[Mauricio11]

It's completely normal. You just have to find people of the same kind, like me.