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Do girls think virgin guys are losers?

Im a really confident guy. Im ok with girls but i could get better with social skills but confidence isn't an issue. I really just dont believe in sleeping with women i dont have a deep connection with i just dont think this is right and i feel like lack of sexual control and just using for pleasure can be self destructive and its meaningless. I really want to love the person i have sex with not necesarily wait till marriage but maybe i just need that connection. Its getting hard being im so old and no sex but although i have got a lot of female friends that deep connection like knowing her inside and out just wasn't there. virgin guys especially in my circles get a bad rap and they think we are weird or just total losers or whatever else a virgin girls is a treasure a virgin guy is the bottom of the barrel.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This is one of those things women lie about, or just dont understand about themselves. Women are attracted to guys that other women like. If they know you've slept around, or at least have other women interested in you, then it's much easier for you. Not to mention everybody likes people that are good at sex, because it will be a better experience.

    I'm by no means a player, but if I want to get with a girl I make sure she finds out (not by me) that I've slept around a bit. Then, magically, she becomes interested and curious. It's stupid and kind of gross, but unfortunately women are wired that way. If you're still a virgin, I recommend finding a really nice girl (probably also a virgin) so that you two can learn together comfortably. They are very, very hard to find though, so good luck!

    • yeah man i was kind of thinking similarly it seems girls like guys that have lots of girls around them. I was talking to this girl all night once we had great chemistry i never mentioned my sex history but my brother said he's slept around a lot and she was more curios about him even though honestly me and her got along better. Its really fucked up. but if your a confident edgy guy that stands his ground will that still lower your value.

    • Yes, I'd say it would. Because then it would seem like you confidence is just an act, even if it's not. They would think you're compensating for being inexperienced. It's dumb, I know. But it only gets worse as you get older.

    • yeah that sucks i don't want to change for something like that and i don't want to loose it to a sloot i can just not answer if they ask maybe its time though to just loose I'm a fuckin 20 year old virgin

  • An real loser is an virgin guy who is ashamed of his virginity. As long as you have an good reasons for being an virgin and proud of not being an philanderer, then you are fine.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Although I'm a technical virgin, I used to think that, as stated in your question, virgin guys were kind of losers. But turns out the man I'm with is a pure virgin (never even kissed before me) & he treats me beautifully (calls me every day, says "I love you, princess"), better than any other guy I've ever been with (before him I've never been with a virgin).

    • you lucky duck

  • No, I think it's stupid how people talk crapola about virgins. Personally I wouldn't think any different of a guy I liked who was a virgin and a guy I liked who wasn't.

  • Trust me your type of attitude is IDEAL to every girl... keep that up and you will find someone I promise you...

    • honestly i think sleeping with a lot of girls gives a guy an air of mystery and attractibility even everything being the same the dream of girls is a bad boy that cheats on them but comes back or something. I think virgin guys can act like pussies around girls though maybe thats why

  • I'd wonder why he didn't just hook up with someone.

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  • Oh pipe down. You're not a loser because you're not a man whore.

  • Not at all. As a virgin girl I would want to be with a guy who is a virgin.

  • No i think theyre amazing.

  • Not at all I actually prefer virgin guys.

  • I love virgin guys, it's hot how they're so careful to decide who the right person is.. mature a 👌😏❤👏

  • Not if it's by choice. You're a loser if you're that overly thirsty whiny guy jacking off to some weird ass pron while complaining about getting no play.

    • na man i don't look at porn I'm horny as shit but i just don't want to think with my dick

    • You good then

  • Not in the slightest.

  • Not at all.

  • Suped hottt

  • I guess if you pitty yourself about it, yes.

    But that's up to you.

  • Why are you virgin?
    -because you are a loser, yes then you are loser
    -because you want to wait for marriage/religious-personal reasons, That's great!! just don't be all self-righteous n shit.

    • Agreed

    • more for religious personal reasons i dont judge but i would prefer virgin girls

    • sweet man! all the power to ya!

  • Worry about it less, gain confidence. Gain confidence, more good things happen. More good things happen, you get on base. If you get on base you may score a run.

    Out at third... maybe next inning.

  • You are fine dude, nothing wrong with waiting or doing. Its just idiots trying to act superior... or dominant.

  • pretty much yea lol

  • i perfer virgins

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  • Absolutely not. Having been with only two men that have stupid high body counts, I think it’s a great thing. There’s no ‘hit it and quit it’ mentality (for the most part…)
    I’m crushing hard on a virgin and would love to experience it with him. Not necessarily teaching him the way or how I want it done but to share that emotional connection and actually having it be special.
    There are plenty of girls who would agree and disagree with this statement.

  • they'll say no but go fuck studs that will leave them hurt and broken. they'll gay shame and mock you behind your back. not all, but quite some of them. IF you are alpha, you should not betray your ideals for their twisted fetishes. think about it rationally, if she judges you for that she is too dumb and low level for you... .

    • I agree i think it actually is lowering my value to most girls but if she's that stupid fuck her in anyway so in a way its a filter

  • Don't listen to women. They say they like men who are virgins, but they are just lying to themselves. They like men who have experience... and when a guy isn't a virgin, it shows that he is "somewhat" desirable by women, which attracts them even more.

    • yeah i know I'm confident in myself and being a virgin but women have fucked up minds

  • Hopefully not.

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