What goes on at bachelorette parties with strippers?

[Anonymous]

Ok so we're at that age that some people we know get married, and my girlfriend has been to a bachelorette party. Now there is talk going on that there were strippers there for the bride and entertainment. I honestly didn't think to much about till some dude whose girlfriend also went and that I know got into my head. he started saying stuff that they touch the strippers 'privately' and sometimes even lick whipped cream of private parts. And that he thinks it's shady his girlfriend doesn't talk to much about it Now my girlfriend hasn't been to talky about it either, but she has never evaded the subject either just said it was fun and it was long time ago they had a girls night out and such. Not much details about the strippers. But honestly i never asked, cause I didn't really care at start. I've been at a strip club before aswell (she knows) it's fun to watch but nothing more honestly. He told me to just search the web for proof. Now there definitely is a lot of weird stuff on the web, it even seems to be some kind of type of porn. But that is definitely all staged (clearly). However when i started looking on forums. They do say that most of that is made up. But that some things do really happen. I don't know if these are real stories on those forums (or just bored guys pretending to be girls) but some do seem legit. they say that at private parties with a group of strippers it does sometimes happen girls touch the stripper privately and stuff. And generally the shows are way more wild than in a club. Especially if there are some drinks in the story. Sometime they cheer each other on to 'dare' to touch it and stuff. and so on And that is normal for strippers to get really close with their private parts, slapping on their legs and such is this true? Or as these just fantasies that people live out in stories on forums?

[Thandz01]

Bro it is the bride to be's final night to get the last ounce of slut outta her system and opportunity for her friends to endure their slutty sides to the maximum for one night and one night only, a room full of women of whom some are extremely sexually frustrated so u can imagine the glistening muscle guy stripper with his tool swinging in about some of not all of the women including the bride to be are suck/fucking those very strippers that night. Right then and there in front of their sisters in crime and worst of all loving it moaning for more lmao sry bro it's true I hate it too I'm pissed even typing this seriously and I'm not married nor ever will be exactly for that reason. They all then swear to each other to never speak about the terrifyingly whorish acts they committed that night ever or blood will flow and not menstrual blood lmfao!!!

[Asker]

I'm hoping you're over reacting right now

[Thandz01]

I'm not.. hire a private investigator to watch her that night for $150 so if she fucks up its not too late to call it off lol goodluck

[Asker]

The deed has been done by now

[Under_The_Sun]

hahaha this is funny

[Asker]

@Under_The_Sun he's clearly overreacting i think

[Anonymous]

There's potential for something to happen. It really depends on your girl and how she is, is she trustworthy? I mean I've been to a bachelorette party with a stripper and the men love the attention and some of the girls loved to help him get hard. No one fucked the stripper that I know of lol but there was Tom foolery. If she got a lap dance his dick definetly slapped her leg hahaha if she's not that type of girl though I wouldn't worry about it. She prob just had some laughs, drinks and went home.

[Asker]

I trust my girl, however i do think she probably could be convinced for a lap dance (i mean she's not a prude either) However i'm a bit shocked lapdances go like that. This is the part that gets me sorta worried. My girl is a fun girl and i don't think that she would be a party pooper and refuse a lapdance when everyone is getting them. But still the idea that he grabs her boobs, she handles his thing and so on... is a bit much for me. I can't see myself fingering a stripper honestly. What is this tom foolery that happens at a lapdance? Maybe it's because my 'lapdance' experiences have been in clubs i always tought they were pretty tame.

[Opinion Owner]

In a strip club it's regulated. In some places you can't even touch the stripper at all. A privately solicited stripper that comes to your home or event place is a completely different thing. Was she at a club or did they just get a stripper at the place they hosted the bachelorette party? Just because she got a lap dance doesn't mean he grabbed her boobs or she grabbed his dick. His dick touching her is inevtible though, a lap dance involves rubbing your body on someone.

[Asker]

Well it was a private party and not a club. there were 3 strippers there. You're right about the last part that is probably enevitable. What do you feel woyld be too far?

[Opinion Owner]

I have a boyfriend, too far is getting a lap dance in the first place. The only penis in want rubbed on me is his.

[Asker]

Well I can understand that. But i have been at a strip club while we were a couple (also bachelor party) but as I said it was pretty tame. there was no real touching (except for grinding) and she only went full naked at the very end before she left so she never grinded on me fully naked only topless. i told my girl and she was fine with it. (i mean this was my first and only time in a strip club so she knows it was just in good fun) So when she went to that party i honestly didn't assume it could go like that. I've been probing a bit and altough i don't hear anything scandalous it does seem to go a bit further then what my image was of the whole stripper thing.

[Asker]

Well i just plainly asked cause it's to much in my head. She had a lapdance (can't be mad about it i've done it before) It went a bit further then what I thought but all in all it wasn't too bad i think.

[Asker]

Hey this has been long just a quick update. Thanks for the advice. It helped me get over it. We are even going to get parties ourself now soon! Like you said it was just some Tom foolery. A lapdance and helping him get hard. (No sex ofc) I was a bit worried at first but i'm happy now i hot over it.

[Asker]

Married* not parties

[JennieF]

Yes, that has happened at bachelorette parties I've been at -- sometimes more. Sometimes much more.

[Igivegoodtalk]

What have you seen and participated in Jennie?

[Libarena]

Plenty.

[RebeccaSJ]

Plenty.

[Igivegoodtalk]

What have you seen and participated in Rebecca?

[Asker]

Hey this has been long just a quick update. Thanks for the advice. It helped me get over it. We are even going to get married ourself now soon! Like you said it was just some Tom foolery. A lapdance and helping him get hard. (No sex ofc) I was a bit worried at first but i'm happy now i hot over it.

[Anonymous]

Well, I work as a male stripper and I‘ve seen many things.