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My boyfriend wakes me up in the night for sex?

my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. I'm 19, he's 25. I just recently started staying the night at his place. Of course we have sex usually before bed, and again in the morning before he gets ready for work. however, every night I stay over, i wake up in the middle of the night to him poking me with his boner. once he realizes I'm awake, he puts it in. I'm just wondering if any of you girls experience the same thing with your significant other or if any of you guys do this to your girl. I don't really mind that he wakes me up for sex, although it does disturb my sleep. I'm just wondering why he does this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Waking u with his boner is not cool. At all. If I absolutely could not wait till morning then I'd start massaging u or something till u woke up. And as to why he wakes u, the obvious answer is u make him really horny. But more specifically I'd say he has a pretty high sex drive. If ur having sex twice a day like everyday and then he still wants more in the night I'm pretty sure his sex drive is just really high! Hopefully u can keep up with him!

    • man, i dunno how much longer I can keep up with him.. lol, I'm not used to this at all. thanks for your insight, you've been really helpful!

    • U r very welcome! And may I suggest something? If ur sex drive isn't as high as his, whuch it sounds like it isn't, I'm pretty sure ur gonna burn out after a little while if u try to keep up with him. Instead of having sex with him everytime, try giving him a blowjob sometimes. Like in the night could be bj time. U could tell him he's tiring u out with so much sex, but if he needs it then ur happy to help him in other ways. If u or him r not into BJ's then a hand job could work too. Or even a fleshlight or whatever those things r called lol or he could even masturbate n u watch. Or let u sleep while he does lol options r endless

    • Hey thanks for MHGuy!

  • I don't think he should be doing it all the time, but if he doesn't its says a lot about how good your P is. RESPECT girl.

    • haha thanks! :p

Most Helpful Girl

  • I know this question was posted a million years ago, but it is selfish for someone to wake you up for sex. Sleep is important and depriving you of sleep isn’t cool at all and neither is having sex when you don’t want to. You tell him, firmly, that you’re tired and not in the mood and if he tries it again, go home. You’re going to have to learn to say no and if he can’t respect that, then he doesn’t deserve you.

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  • He does it simply because you make him horny.

  • consent. comunication

  • Well he's horny but I don't think it's right to wake you with his boner. I wouldn't do it. I'd let my girl sleep. There will be plenty of time for sex when you're both in the mood

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