I accidentally called my girlfriend 'loose' during sex it was the wrong word... she's sending me insulting texts now?

We were doing it. But for some reason when I stuck it in my dick wasn't really consumed by her vagina. I expected the walls to accommodate my dick but it never really did that (my first time fuckin a chick). It was a lot more loose then I expected. I didn't know how else to describe it so I said in the Moment she was a little loose. She got a hurt because her face changed I decided to put back on my Jean's because I was still inside her but she wasn't moving anymore she was clearly thinking of a comeback. She told me I was rude I tried explaining what I meant but I can't describe it without saying the word. I wanted to carry on but it was awkward so I dressed she said I needed to leave and that I'm a idiot. Now she's sending me text of swear words. I feel like I've dealt with a fair dose of insults surely she's over it? by the way this happened 2 days ago.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You could gently explain to her that you were a virgin, had no idea about female anatomy, tell her she's beautiful and that you never meant to insult her, you've never had another woman to compare against.

    Tell her you're the idiot here, and that it was just your inexperience talking.

    It's probably your only chance to try to fix the situation. Just kind of ignore all her insults.

  • Dude, you fucked up. You should always be careful when choosing words to describe the intimate parts of your partner's body. It would be the same as a girl calling a guy's dick small. It's not something he'd take lightly.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You deserve it. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if she broke up with you. Saying that will forever be engrained in her mind. She'll never be able to have sex with you, without thinking about how you aren't enjoying it enough. I know you didn't mean to hurt her, but it's common sense you don't say that kind of stuff to a girl

  • It was your first time? Have you been with guys before? The anus is a muscle so I could see how you would expect the vagina to do the same.

  • Well I've heard some awful thing during sex but that takes the case. That was pretty stupid of you, I'd personally dump u for that

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  • Maybe your dick is small instead of her being loose? That is pretty offensive... but hey, it's your opinion.

    • Tell her to do Kegels. They are vaginal exercises that might help tighten her up.

  • Yeah no, if I were her is never contact you again ever.

    • I'd not is. Swype text.

  • She'll eventually get over it... calling a girl loose can be very offensive but hey if she's loose she's loose

  • U deserve it

  • well... you're an idiot, how could you say something like THAT during sex? it's the BIGGEST turn off a girl can hear. would you like it if she had told you your dick is small?

    personally I would've dumped you two days ago...

  • Well that was a rather tactless thing to say in that moment (even if it is true).

  • I think she is overreacting

  • You done fucked up.

  • If she sends you more insults, just hit her back with " ocean pussy"

  • You should have waited till marriage so your sex life could be ruined for life when you blurted that out.

    May not be repairable.

  • Yikes. You're probably beating your D too hard with a closed first to ridiculous porn image after porn image. This is actually a thing devastating people's sex lives.