If your friend had a dying wish of sex with you, would you grant it?

[FreshWaters]

Lets say a good friend of yours found out they didn't have long to live..
maybe 2 or 3 months if they're lucky.

When you were visiting them in the hospital they confessed to still being a virgin, and before they went they wanted to lose their virginity.. with you.

You have no attraction to them because they're a really good friend of yours but... they only have a few months left at tops.

Would you grant their dying wish?

'For all the people in a relationship who choose yes, would you ask your partners permission, or not tell them?'

(I apologize to anyone who has been in this situation, i'm not making fun of the situation at all, and my

condolences to all lost loved ones.)

[sjoes006]

Okay so this is like asking if I paid you &1M would you do it. So I ask you even if she said yes would you enjoy it? Have you ever had sex with someone who clearly doesn't want to be having sex with you or doesn't enjoy it? Waste of money in my book.

But if one of my very best guy friends were dying and asked me this, no I would not. I would be very hurt and question our friendship privately to myself. I wouldn't abandon them. If they had no one else and let's say he had cancer I would take leave from work and sleep in one of those uncomfortable hospital chairs that turn into beds. I would love them until the end and give up everything to help them if they had no one else.

But the idea of either of them ever asking such an absurd thing to me is ridiculous. I've been best friends with them since college. If they wanted to take advantage they had plenty of chances to try.

Both are married now and one has a kid. In friends with their wives who I've also know for many years. Still though if i ever went to jail or needed bailing out and also had no one else I know all it would take is one call. I'm incredibly lucky to have friends like them.

I don't think one could consider a person who would make such a request a friend. 😕

[FreshWaters]

Thats why i meant a virgin one... and i put myself in that situation... i think i would probably ask someone but itd have to be someone i planned on doing it with someday anyway

[aficionado]

Yes, but only if that friend was a female (because I'm straight) and if I was not already in a relationship.

thankfully, I don't have to worry about this, though. No way any woman's last wish would be to have sex with someone like me! :P

[FreshWaters]

At that point i dont think they'd really care.

[aficionado]

No, women always have options when it comes to sex, although may not be for relationships.

[FreshWaters]

no i mean because she doesn't have much time left.. for me it wouldn't really be about who it was with though.. as long as she was atractive enough for me to actually want to