The CATCH 22 of older male virgins. Why are women harsher towards them?
On the flip side. Despite women saying they have no problem with virgin men, reality does not coincide with their statement. Women want men with experience and most will not entertain being the first time with a male in his 20's or 30's. Common argument made by women is that they want a man who knows what he is doing, teach them new things and lead them in the bedroom. They don't like male virgins because they are afraid he will become to clingy, afraid of dissapointing his expectations, or he'll just suck. There seems to be an unconscious amount of disgust from women when they hear a man is a virgin in his 20's and 30's, often like he is somewhat defective. So this in hear lies a problem for most men.
- To not be a virgin somone must be willing to sleep with you.
- To not be bad at sex you need to practice having sex. Porn is good but actually trying it out is another.
-Majority of women do not want to sleep with men who are virgins in their 20's and 30's or later. Looking at them as disgusting.
So you can't improve on a skill if majority of women aren't giving you a chance. So the only way for old male virgins to get that experience that woman want is to sleep with prostutes, strippers and risk getting STI.
Does anyone think this is fear on behalf of men and are women being too entitled to right off male virgins?
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