If a boy gets a boner around you does he like you?

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This boy i am friends with.. i sit by him in class and he's getting boners around me. (happenes a lot.) he doesn't even try to stop it. he just looks at me while he does it to see if im looking. I pretend to not be looking cause i dont want him to think im weird. one day , he saw me looking. and sent me a dm on instagram asking why i kept looking at him. i told him i wasn't looking. we kept arguing and later i told him i was looking. then he asked me why. i didn't answer. then he said "was it because i was hard?". i said yes. i know i sounded stupid. then he said "okay." and we stopped texting. Days after that , i moved my seat in class because i felt awkward sitting by him. I sit by another boy now. the boy who keeps having a boner keeps staring at me all the time. and when he has boners, he turns around and walks past me so i can see it. I always look at him when he does it, and laugh at him. just to make him feel embarresed. but im getting tired of it. its like he's getting in the habit of me looking at his boner. he's always looking at me whenever he has one. so the question is, does he have a crush on me? i think he does, but the one thing that makes me stop thinking it is - HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. so like... does he secretly like me?

Random_Joe · Accepted Answer

Guys like that are fricking douchebags. You probably shouldn't have looked at his boner, but sometimes things like that are hard not to look at. If you like him, don't go for it because he sounds like a player. If I have a boner around girls, I always hide it because I don't want them to think I only want them for sex. If you don't like him, good. Just try not to look at him.

ichot · Accepted Answer

If you don't like what happens when you want to see boners, then why do you keep looking out for them?

How do you know one is a boner and not just a long flaccid penis? What if it's just the folds of his pants?

NerdyGirl64 · Accepted Answer

This guy sounds like a creep to me. He wants you, but probably doesn't like you.

Ferretman21 · Answer

Young girls need to realize boners do not equal liking someone. It means most of the time he just finds you sexy and is attracted to you. It doesn't mean he has a crush on you.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

More likely yes, but at that age... a guy can get a boner for not reason at all.

Answerdude · Answer

If a boy gets a boner when he's around you and there's nothing else around that could be causing it, then it's probably because of you. A boy can get a boner from any pretty girl, not just his girlfriend.

genericname85 · Answer

no he finds you sexually attractive plus he´s probably not getting enogh sex from her xD

convo_king89 · Answer

It could be he likes looking at you but not necessarily for a relationship.

Benk111 · Answer

It means he wants to have sex with you nothing more nothing less.

brian22 · Answer

he's not serious... his actions r too weird. sound stupid to me. If he's not shy of having a boner everyday in front of you, why can't he tell you he loves you, wanna fuck you or something?