HELP. Im so insecure about my body my height, my face... :(?

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Why are guys only attracted to skinny tall girls with huge boobs :( Im so effed, im 5'3 and 125 pounds, I hate being short I want long legs like a model, Im even planning on having a limb lengthening surgery so i can be taller as well as breast implants.. Even worst the guy I have a crush on, I was standing near him and i overheard him talking about this other girl who is 5'7 with huge boobs and he was talking about how he's so in love with her butt.. that really crushed me.. i know that sounds ridiculous but omg i could have fainted.. i feel trapped inside this ugly body. WHY ME :(((( what do i need to do.. I think i should wear more makeup and dye my hair blonde. thats a good starting point but what else can i do

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

Every guy likes different girls (and tastes change over time too) if, the guy you're into isn't attracted to you that's just bad luck, happens all the time. Your weight is totally normal so I wouldn't change to much about it. There are a lt of guys who like shorter girls. DON'T DO SURGERY PLEASE. It can have serious consequences, they're probably going to break your legs and then make them grow back together but farther apart (or something similar they're all gruesome).

Try and just look as good as you can, don't try and look like people that have completely different bodies than you have but make the most of what you have, look as good as you can. If you accept yourself and find your own style of beauty you will be fine. People who try to look like someone else usually look unnatural and weird and they will nevery achieve the real look anyway because they're just trying to fake it with surgeries etc.
You should try and have more confidence, you're a girl, that's already 90 % of what a guy is looking for :P. Guys are attracted to a lot of girls, often they don't approach you because they're nervous, not confident, they have shit to do, they're having a bad day, they think you're out of their league, they don't want to approach you in front of a bunch other kids that will gossip and laugh at them, watever there's a thousand reasons. It doesn't mean that you should destroy your legs.
Just relax a bit and don't think your life is over. If you really want a boyfriend then just meet more people, go out etc. The more guys you meet the higher the chnce one will be into you. If you only focus on one guy you'll have trouble.

ksoma · Accepted Answer

Short isn't bad. And big boobs are not always great.
A short body can still have great legs, even legs that are nice and long, for the overall body. And breast implants are fake. If i saw amazing breasts, and knew they were implants, I'd lose my interest.

It's quality, not quantity. Fake tits, more makeup, etc etc, do not make things better.
Look at your body, and think about what you can do to make you better, as you are now, rather than get painful leg lengthening surgery, or fake boobs, or anything else.

Last girl I was really into was 5'2", about a hundred pounds, and absolutely perfect. Yeah, the tall, statuesque model type with legs that go forever may be a fantasy, but fantasy is not reality, and sometimes we see things almost the opposite of our fantasy and are surpised to realize that we really want THAT too.

Supergirl0812 · Accepted Answer

Stop it! I'm 5'2 at 115 now. I use to be 5'2 at 160! Don't get me wrong I've had my boobs done twice and I had a baby just 2 years ago and drop 50 pounds. I have probably dated some of he most gorgeous guys ever! Ever! My current boyfriend is 6'2 at 235 and 14% body fat, blue eyes and gorgeous!!!

If you don't like something you can change it but a lot of guys love petite girls!!!

upallnight · Accepted Answer

Just be yourself. No need to go blonde or wear more make up, you don't wanna look fake, cos that's what most woman are!! Have you ever heard the expression less is more? Well I stand by that a million per cent! It's more personality guys go for, but I do agree that there has to be some kind of attraction. Go out and show the world how you don't care head held high and be confident.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We can't all be amazon women. You sound like a healthy height and weight to me. You're going to meet lots of men who will like your body very much. Soon you won't be able to fend them off. You'll be complaining to us about how they're all over you. :)

Pinkbison01 · Accepted Answer

If you don't like your height, wear heels, wear a push up bra, but please remember, DO NOT change yourself for a guy, if he can't accept you for you then maybe he's not the one for you:) you'll be okay:)

MikeKane · Answer

Don't worry so much most guys prefer shorter girls, my girlfriend is 5' 1" and I'm 6' 4" lol I love her little body it's amazing her little petite boobs and legs UGH! I love petite girls! Boobs don't matter very much as long as they are there. Don't get all caught up on anything like that he chose you for a reason and it is because he was diggin the way you looked 😍😉

Baskervillian26 · Answer

This sounds like bullshit. I may have met 1 or 2 guys that like tall girls. Everyone else wants to be taller than her. That's a very common preference. You're not getting shin extension surgery. That's beyond retarded.

abc3643 · Answer

I had a girlfriend like you - even shorter and heavier and she had breast reduction surgery so I missed out on her righteous boobs her having them reduced to an A. *sigh* What did in our relationship was not her body per se. And, believe me, she did things that turned me on and still, 27 years later, make me think about her.

The key is to play up your assets and that can be personality and grace and femininity. For instance, that girl I just mentioned always had lovely manicures and that was something that I'd fantasize about so that was key for me. You can also be a good dresser and wear heels for height. By making your legs longer visually, it makes you look skinnier. Guys love legs though so don't be afraid to wear a skirt.

If you want PM me for more as I try to remember things you might be able to do.

mysterydude · Answer

Ur to focus on how others look. Just because u dont have a model body dosnt mean u have a good one. short girls are cool to and a good personality can trump big boobs. Focus on how to highlight ur good traits. A models body isn't the only kind that looks good. learn how to imbrace urself and how u can improve urself. Dont focus on what ur not

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

I'm sure you are over worrying

AWiserFool · Answer

Do not go through all of that for a guy. NO ONE is worth it. He either loves you for who you are or he will never love you.

JHAYES317 · Answer

You’re a woman…stop with this nonsense…it’s better to be short.

gobsmacked3 · Answer

im sure you are awesome as you are

notenough · Answer

hun shut up and enjoy life

Yumix · Answer

many guys (like me) don't care about height or boob size... you can still be beautiful and sexy! So don't worry about that :)

troyboy96 · Answer

Hey short girls are hot!! 5'6" is like my limit. I really like shorter!!

Alex_988_2 · Answer

Would you date a lesser attractive guy? Everyone has standards. Some are shallow. Choose a man you would like you for you not your body. Bc he'll leave you when your body changes.
Now tell me why like him? he was good looking or average or below? Or you liked his personality.

_love_you_ · Answer

Small girls are nice too :-P :-)

Anonymous · Answer

you are not ugly. you are insecure. guys won't hate you the way you are now. they'll hate you if they see an insecure plastic barbie.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you're over thinking this. I'm 5'4 i have nice waist small boobs nice hips and a big firm ass and my legs are not the longest and people still see me attractive

HELP. Im so insecure about my body my height, my face... :(?

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