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Can a exceptionally beautiful, sexy, smart, charismatic and funny 30 year old girl get guys AS MUCH as she used to when she was 20?

OK, so I just watched some crappy reality TV where an ugly s*** in her 40s called a 29 year old PERFECT girl (sex bomb) a "granny" aka grandma. My question is, guys, if you found an EXECTIONALLY gorgeous girl (both face AND body) who is sexy, hot, confident, independent, succesful, strong, funny, charismatic, carefree, fun, intellligent, clever, would you feel: "Oh CRAP" once you discover that she is 30. First of all, I don't think that 30 is old, but even if it was, if she looks WAY younger, would her age not be a problem anymore? Would you dump her just because she is OLDER than you thought? BASICALLY, CAN A 30 YEAR OLD GIRL GET AS MUCH GUYS AS SHE USED TO 10 YEARS AGO IF SHE HASN'T CHANGED? another question: CAN A 30 YEAR OLD THAT I JUST DESCRIBED GET AS MUCH GUYS AS SOME OTHER 20 YEAR OLD CAN? I am TERRIFIED of getting old.
She can get as much guys as she used to and as much guys as another 20 year old now.
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She can't get as much guys as she used to and she ain't got a chance competing with the 20 year old.
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  • 30 is not old. she is physically beautiful. smart, funny. but by then? also more worldly.
    20 may look amazing, and be, objectively, smart and funny, but a 30 year old guy spending time with a 20 year old girl, you quickly realize "i'm hanging out with a kid."

    with that in mind, remember this: our physical peak is from about 15-40. Before that we are growing and developing too much. After that, our body slows down and we descend into middle, and then old, age.
    a 20 year old still has 20 years (her entire lifespan, over again!) ahead of her before that point.
    a 30 year old has 10 years, only 1/3 of her lifespan, over again, before that point.
    diet, exercise, being active, taking care of yourself, even just being happy? that adds years to your time, keeps you at your peak longer. But we all get older.
    it really depends on who you are going for at 30+, and why you are going for them. a guy your own age or a few years older? whether for something casual, or a real relationship? you're good. you are what appeals to him. a 28 year old stud right out of college looking for a hookup? he still thinks you are pretty, but if he can nail the giggly 20 year old sneaking drinks at the bar, he is going for her.

  • "Can a exceptionally beautiful, sexy, smart, charismatic and funny 30 year old girl get guys AS MUCH as she used to when she was 20?"
    A hard question and 30 is the age when it all starts to cool down. She might not get as much attention, but she will still get a lot.

    "First of all, I don't think that 30 is old, but even if it was, if she looks WAY younger, would her age not be a problem anymore?"
    I think part of the attraction is how laid back the person is. When women are single and in their mid 30s, they are getting really anxious of getting married and having babies before it's too late. Some men find that off putting and relaxed girl in her 20s who isn't manic (yet) can seem more attractive even if they both look equally hot.

    "CAN A 30 YEAR OLD THAT I JUST DESCRIBED GET AS MUCH GUYS AS SOME OTHER 20 YEAR OLD CAN?"
    For sure. Some 30s get easily more attention and "guys" than other younger women, because all 20s (like 30s) are not equally attractive.

    "I am TERRIFIED of getting old."
    You might lose your looks, but you do not lose your charming personality...

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  • Obviously at my age I don't compete with 20 year olds, but I am still "in demand," so to speak, even once my true age is revealed. Stop worrying :)

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  • We all have a really warped sense of age when we are young. It amazes me as I hit life moment and think back to when I was young and think "my mom and dad where this age when I did XX". it amazes me how young it really is. I am 47. Mentally I feel 20 but with a 47 yr old wisdom. Time goes by fast. Your going to realize that what your asking really won't matter to you when your 30. We get older and wiser. Things that used to be "OMG... This is the most important thing on earth" are now things you laugh at because they were just silly nonsense.
    Can a woman get the guys, of course...

  • Seriously...

    20-year-olds are overrated. By the time a woman turns 30, she's got much more experience, is way less complicated to deal with and is generally more interesting.

    Don't worry about getting old. ;)

  • I'd prefer the 30 year old to the 20 year old. She's presumably going to have a more stable work life and ought to have got the immaturity out of her system that a typical 20 year old would still be dealing with.

  • A woman can pretty much get banged by a 20 year old right past her 50's. Relationships on the other hand are another matter which is fair as women have their day in the sun 16-30 when they are at their most attractive while for men its 30+.
    I recommend that if you find a good guy you keep rather than doing what a lot of women do discard all the good men in their life because they are not ready or because marriage and kids are not convenient or because they want to focus on their career then panicking when the turn thirty and finding all the good guys are taken and they have to settle for whats left.
    Your only live once and your time on this planet is short so live your life without regrets never passing up an opportunity for love and happiness.

  • happened to me a lot and they couldn't accept it

  • No. . . .

    30 is approximately 17.65 years older than 20.



  • "I am TERRIFIED of getting old."

    That's because you are young. By the time you get there, you won't WANT half those guys on you.

    Also, stop watching reality TV, that shit fucks with you worse than porn.

  • Sure. 😄
    Just not with 20-year-olds. lol 😆

    • Why not? I would date a 30 yea old girl ANYTIME over a girl my age. Guys aged like me would DIE to have the chance with a girl that is described here. They just wouldn't assumer that she is interested in them, because us, 18 year old boys, think that a 30 year old girl wants a "manly man". But if we knew she was into dating us we would DO IT 4 sure!

    • @MyNameIs97 Am I the only one who thinks 10 years is too much of a difference? 😕

    • IDC. But this guy @MyNameIs97 is RIGHT!!

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  • As many? Probably not. But she could definitely get guys still. Maybe not the same caliber as she used to.

  • There are a few guys who would rule out based on age. That's the reality.

    The other reality is that most of do in fact look different at age 30 and age 40

  • I would fuck her and then when she tells me she is 30, I'll fuck her again and tell her 'It's ok baby' and then I would dump her

    • haha what a troll

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