My boyfriend took his dick out of my Mouth and said 'its my dick I get to play with it first'... I'm soo Embarrassed?

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Basically he was watching sports and he got really animated. He started celebrating and after the game he was buzzing. I don't know I just got a little jealous stupid I know. he's never that excited ever so it's sad knowing I can't make him as happy. I intiatiated a BJ. He wanted to watch the post match analysis so I felt dumb. Afterwards he took his dick out and started stroking it. I start going down on him. After a minute of sucking. He takes it out and uses his own spit to wank instead of asking me to spit on it (weird). I try putting it back in which he let's me then he takes it out again and starts wanking again. I feel dumb at this point. Because he's basically using my mouth as a lube provider. I try to get his balls out but he gestures for me to leave it. I ask him what is he doing so he shrugs and says 'its my dick I get to play with it first'. I tried to be funny by saying Sharing was caring but he basically cummed onto his hands and washed it down the sink. I felt dummmbbbb as fuck. Like he prefers his own hands over mine? Plus he acted like everything was fine. Ohh and one more thing is he says thank you after a cum shot. But rejects a kiss from me because my mouth has his dick taste. I FIND THIS RUDEE. I don't know I'm so weirded out and even thou I have experience and he doesn't I feel like I'm the one whos inexperienced because he does things the way he wants. I love him but he hurts me really bad when he does this. I'm sitting on my knees waiting for him to put It back in but he sits down. he's normal In every other way. Why is he weird?

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

While I do understand why he needed to stroke his cock, he needed the extra stimulation, it does seem odd that he prefers cumming into his own hands rather than into your mouth for you to enjoy swallowing. Have you told him how much you enjoy sucking his cock and that even if he needs to stroke his cock himself in order to cum, you'd still like him to cum into your mouth for you to enjoy swallowing?

sparkles10 · Accepted Answer

I had a guy that used to wank and tell me I wasn't "allowed to touch it yet" I kid of thought it was hot. Him not letting you do anything at all and using his own spit instead of yours is a bit strange.. tell him how this made you feel and if nothing changes get out there and find someone who appreciates your enthusiasm! You only live once!

selmo93 · Accepted Answer

Probably as he's used to using his hands his self. Sometimes men prefer themselves using their hands as they know what they like. Ask him to help you next time

broadsword · Accepted Answer

Your right to feel this way. It's not just rude its so disrespectful and demeaning.
If you love him your going to have to sort this out
I do have one small question is he circumcised?
Next time he asks for sex tell him he can't have it because it's your pussy.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Some guys are like that. Might this help?

Girl_Scout · Answer

That's really weird... What's your sex life like apart from that? Do you think he respects you in general?

Lioness · Answer

He sounds gay lol

summiter · Answer

He sounds like a looser. Does he return the favor and give you great orgasms with his tongue?

Berethor · Answer

Your boyfriend is full of shit, he should had let you give him oral while he was watching sports.

akanetuk · Answer

You story is not for here

neilsmart · Answer

maybe your not sucking deep enough, my man insists that i go all the way or he tells me i need more training

RomansToPhilemon · Answer

It just sounds like he isn't very sexual and doesn't have much experience. And he may not even be super comfortable with it. Because I know I would be the exact opposite of what this guy is doing. "Oh, you want me to put it back in? Ok, please and thank you." Lol.

SubtleStarfish · Answer

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Tarvold · Answer

Hang on, was he watching that sports thing/post match analysis the whole time? I mean... did your boyfriend just jerked off whilst watching bunch of sweaty men on TV?

UhDopeDude · Answer

Sounds like an asshole to me lol, no offense

Jayded1 · Answer

Sounds like he is a douche, sorry.

vald9inches · Answer

No offense but he sounds like a complete asshole and douche

violettasanchez · Answer

Hahaha daaamn, I wouldn't be able to tolerate that... he seems to be in a relationship with himself.

doodlecake · Answer

Dump him, he's a dick, (no pun intended)

wanting001 · Answer

whata fcuking knob. dump him, not worth your time

Anonymous · Answer

He has his quirks I guess, I know I would have given up all control to you if I'm getting head, why would I bother using my own hands if I have you, can do that anytime I want later