Does it bother you if your boyfriend watches porn?

Does if bother you if your boyfriend watches porn? Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and see each other/have sex multiple days a week, but he still watches porn multiple times a week. It bothers me a lot. Should I say anything
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Most Helpful Girls

  • There isn't really a point in saying anything.. he will do it anyway. Its a guy thing. I am not keen on my guy watching porn but if you say something they don't stop, they just find better ways to hide it. 8 years into our relationship and I still can't stand it, makes me feel insecure but I just deal with it. They don't see it the way we do, a lot of girls don't either. I struggle with anxiety so it makes things like this harder for me I'm guessing maybe it's the same for you. Sorry I am not much help but just wanted to let you know you're not alone after reading the other comments. X

    • I don't buy the "it's a guy thing" I know plenty of guys who don't.

  • I watch it both with my SO and alone. I am sure he watches it alone too. It doesn't bother me but I would love to see what he watches.

  • Not really. I know my boyfriend does a lot. But id rather him watch porn than sleep around...

    • You shouldn't compare it to sleep around and say you don't mind. You either mind or don't mind, without comparing it to anything. Right?

    • @mikemx55 well id rather think of it that way as i know a lot of girls who worry watching porn means they want them to be like that.

    • So, you don't like it, you just prefer it over something worse.

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  • it should only bother you if he watches it INSTEAD of having sex with you. if he watches it while you are not in the mood or not there... nothing wrong with it.

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  • Oh, how petty.

    Him of course. How petty of him!

  • Yes
    #fightthenewdrug

    It's addictive and has terrible side effects. The people who say it's harmless are either lying or haven't researched it.

    • That's extreme cases where it takes over your life. This is rare, most guys just watch occasionally which is totally harmless.

    • @GingerGuy it is as addictive as cocaine. But I guess some cocaine is probably fine right?

    • I disagree but respect your opinion. Yes cocaine is addictive no doubt, I don't believe porn is though. For some people it is yes, but for the majority I don't believe so. If all the porn in the world were to disappear completely tomorrow, most guys are going to adjust and be fine.

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  • I don't care if my girlfriend watches porn as long as she doesn't choose it over me

  • It doesn't really bother me, I can't really get jealous over that

  • Just watch it with him and try new stuff!

  • Maybe he wants to do the positions they do. If I had a boyfriend, we can watch porn together lol and do the positions.

    • nice.. i bet watching porn would be fun with you lol :P

    • @CaliSoccerFella little bit, lmao I'd laugh at first then get serious 👀

  • I don't mind. Sometimes we watch together to learn something new or just for fun. Most of the times we just laught and make fun of the couples lol

  • It doesn't bother me at all and I can't think of a single reason why it should. I'm scratching my head here.

    • Because porn is just as addictive as cocaine...

    • OMG, no it isn't lol.

  • not really. I mean Then again I watch porn too. Whenever I can. My boyfirned and I have been together 9 months and he watches porn. Doesn't bother me

    • what kinda porn you into?

    • @CaliSoccerFella I watch Lesbian, Bondage, Anothing with anal involoved. i'll pretty much watch anything tbh